One thing that I wish I had done more with my children is play games. Our family was not a 'board playing' family. I didn't come from a game playing family so it wasn't something I was used to doing, either.
I can see now that it would have benefited our family to play games together. My children were used to watching TV for an hour in the evenings so now that is how they spend their time with their own families. TV watching does not encourage a lot of communication between families. Plus, a person is hard-pressed to find much of value to even watch these days.
So, in God's wisdom, he has given Grandmother's a second opportunity to encourage their grandchildren in things that they wish they had done with their own children.
I'm not sure why things are so different with our grandchildren. The days were so busy and packed full when I was raising my family. There was so much work to do each day that I found it difficulty to stop and play with them. Of course, there were those times that we did take off and play. There were times we went camping, to the park, skating,etc. But, I'm talking about the every day routine of just spending time in the evenings playing a board game or cards. I really wish that I would have made it more of priority so that they would have established the habit of doing something in the evenings other than watching TV.
So, I'm trying to encourage this habit in my grandchildren. In our family room I have puzzles, checkers and a Geo Trak available. I slid a plastic mat under one of the couches so that it's available at all times to use for the puzzles. I remember my Grandma, who is no longer living, always had a puzzle going. I have fond memories of us 'working' her puzzle together when I'd spend the night. My Dad always has a puzzle going in the winter time at the end of their kitchen table.
One of the first things my grandchildren say when they walk through the door is , "Gwammy, will you pway a game wit me?" My granddaughter LOVES to put together puzzles. Today she put together 4 puzzles in less than 30 minutes. "Grammy' worked the outside edges and she worked on the inside of the puzzle. So much fun!
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