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Country: Hong Kong
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Hello Phoebe's friends... Could someone tell Phoebe's parents about what is really going on here in the US... I fear her parents do not know the truth and that Phoebe is lying to them about her living conditions.... If they were to visit her in the US they would certainly be very angry!!!!!

<TR> <TD width="5%">  <TD>Posted 11/27/2006 at 8:16 AM by karaterrrocks
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Hello Phoebe and all of Phoebe's friends. 

My name is Carl and I was Phoebe's host father when she recently came to the US. It seems Phoebe has been telling everyone lies about me and my daughter and I wish to tell the truth... First my daughter has always been kind and nice to Phoebe and has never said anything bad about her at school. Also she nnever told her friends not to talk to Phoebe... My daughter and I have hosted numerous young ladies from Asia and all of them became like my own daughter and became like sisters to my own daughter. Except for Phoebe!!!! Phoebe is a spoiled brat and is always looking to make other people look bad if she does not get her own way... The family she moved to does not allow her to even take a bath everyday now... So, Phoebe really does smell bad and stinks when she goes to school. She does not write you or e-mail anyone because her new host family does not have electricity.... I wrote Phoebe's real father and mother a letter and I will post it here on her site so everyone can read it:

Mr. Chan,

 

It is with deep regret that I write this letter to you regarding the recent event of your daughter Phoebe being moved from my home. Personally I was not notified, warned or told of any of this. I came home from work and she was gone. I felt hurt and insulted by you and your family behavior. Phoebe was having some difficulty adjusting to life in our home but she was adjusting and growing. She came to me a spoiled child who depended on those around her for everything and expected to be entertained at all times. In my home she was being taught self-reliance, maturity and to be a young adult. Not to be a spoiled little child...

 

Regarding the new host family she was moved to there are a number of details I am sure you are not aware of. This family does not have electricity and the only source of heating their home is a wood cook stove. During the cold winter months the family moves into and they all sleep in the living room because heat cannot get heat to the bedrooms since there are no fans to push the heat throughout the house because they do not have electricity. Also as recently as this past summer they had to remove all of the carpeting in the house because they have numerous large dogs living in the house and the carpeting and dogs were infested with fleas.

 

There are serious issues regarding all of their children as well. You do know that one of the girls had to be moved from their bedroom and forced to double up with her sister so your daughter could have a private room. Both girls are 13 years of age and one of them "Patience is her name" still pee's in the bed during her sleep and sucks her thumb like a little baby. Both of these behaviors stem from emotional problems. The younger boy "Jerid" also pee's in the bed and he is 9 years old. I fear the mattresses and blankets your daughter is using have had frequent urine stains. These children do not attend public school and instead are schooled at home by their mother.

 

One other problem that may arise is this family oldest son Josh.  Josh is 16 years old and has been actively seeking a girlfriend for intimate relations. I know this as fact since he was actively pursuing my daughter Christina and had a serious obsession for her that lasted months. My daughter was strong and repeatedly told him she was not interested but it took a long time for him to finally leave her alone. I fear he has a new intimate interest in your daughter Phoebe.

 

The excuse I was given that Phoebe needed to move to this family is because she misses her own mother and needed a mother figure in her life while here. Denise Fulk is the mother of this home and has questionable issues of her own. She is the mother of 4 children and 3 of these children each have a different father. Jerid's father was a Negro. In our surrounding area the Fulk family is considered "different" and most people avoid interaction with them. Although we were friends with them and I used them as a reference to host Phoebe I would never consider letting my own daughter live with these people. Their home is just too unsanitary and they have too many emotional problems.

 

Currently there are 5 children living in their home and with your daughter Phoebe there are now 6 children. Days before Phoebe was moved there they were and still are in the process of adopting 2 more additional children. Denise has a brother who was married to a mentally handicapped woman. The woman abandoned her children 6 months ago and Denise brother is going to jail for 25 years for sexual child abuse. The Fulk's are going to adopt his 2 children and they are ages 2 and 3. As I understand it both of these children have emotional problems as well. With the addition of these 2 children their will be a total of 8 children living in their home. One of which will be your daughter!

 

It is also with deep regret and I must apologize for introducing this family to your daughter. Although she only had limited exposure to them I never expected her to move in with them or for you to insist they be moved their house. Connie Milz was Phoebe's area representative and she was as surprised as I was. I have talked to Connie at some length regarding this and she is well aware of the living conditions at the Fulk home. I suspect her report will not be favorable.

 

I do not want this letter to you to sound like I am just venting my anger or showing that you have insulted my family and me. There is a way to fix this and it will be up to you to do.  I will extend my hand in friendship and offer to allow Phoebe to come back to the safety of our home and promise there will be no further interaction with the Fulk family. Your daughter will grow and mature into the young adult I am sure you want her to be if she is allowed to return to my home and finish her exchange here in the US.

 

Warm Regards,

 

Carl

<TR> <TD width="5%">  <TD>Posted 11/27/2006 at 8:13 AM by karaterrrocks
 Posted 11/28/2006 8:37 AM by karaterrrocks

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I would like to introduce a cool site to u.
I've seen a lot of beauties on this site. Maybe u wanna take a look. http://www.wretch.cc/album
 Posted 1/26/2006 2:27 AM by b1318526414

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 Posted 12/31/2005 12:30 AM by b583901764

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已經很有多人在這裡成立個人專屬的網上相簿囉
 Posted 12/9/2005 1:33 AM by b1164439488

 上次介紹俾你既網上相簿 你註冊了嗎?
http://www.wretch.cc/album
已經好多人在玩囉,來試睇睇,反正不用錢啦

只要一個帳號 多項免費功能
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3. 免費個人留言板
得閒歡迎睇睇嚕
 Posted 11/18/2005 7:44 PM by b1018910492

 上次介紹俾你既網上相簿 你註冊了嗎?
http://www.wretch.cc/album
已經好多人在玩囉,來試睇睇,反正不用錢啦

只要一個帳號 多項免費功能
1. 免費既個人相簿 可以放超過10000張相片
2. 免費超大既個人日記 可以寫超過10000篇日記
3. 免費個人留言板
得閒歡迎睇睇嚕
 Posted 10/23/2005 1:34 AM by b658115867

 上次介紹俾你既網上相簿 你註冊了嗎?
http://www.wretch.cc/album
已經好多人在玩囉,來試睇睇,反正不用錢啦

只要一個帳號 多項免費功能
1. 免費既個人相簿 可以放超過10000張相片
2. 免費超大既個人日記 可以寫超過10000篇日記
3. 免費個人留言板
得閒歡迎睇睇嚕
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我想介紹一個 免費 空間大 速度又快 既網上日記俾你
www.wretch.cc
已經好多人在玩囉,來試睇睇,反正不用錢啦

只要一個帳號 多項免費功能
1. 免費既個人相簿 可以放超過10000張相片
2. 免費超大既個人日記 可以寫超過10000篇日記
3. 免費個人留言板
得閒歡迎睇睇嚕
 Posted 9/23/2005 6:00 PM by b165387445


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