Whats up, Oklahoma. Thanks for dropping in. As for teaching in Japan, I am part of the JET teaching program (www.jetprogramme.org). Its the biggest employer of English teachers in Japan. It pays well and the benefits are pretty sweet. However, if your interests are more on the side of Japanese women and not actually teaching, may I suggest looking into private English conversation schools (e.g. NOVA (www.teachinjapan.com) , Berlitz (berlitzjapan.homestead.com/), etc)?  Although I wouldn't know first hand, this option would maximize your Jgirl interaction.  Good luck mate.