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Name: Lori
State: Alabama
Metro: Birmingham
Gender: Female


Interests: I actually love to write and to share my thoughts. I also love to read, watch old movies and I'm a weather geek. I love to cook, I'm becoming quite an expert in cooking Italian and am about to start learning how to cook Chinese. I have always loved being a wife, mother and daughter most of all!!
Expertise: Customer Service and Human Resources
Occupation: Vice President
Industry: HVAC


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Member Since: 8/11/2005

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Thursday, July 23, 2009

It's been a while......

.....makes me think of the song by Staind minus several expletives....

I've been busy and at times overwhelmed.....I've also drank the Facebook "Koolaid" and after being sequestered to a home office all day talking to vendors and customer's; it's so nice to be able to have some sort of contact with my friends and family throughout the day. I'll be glad when we get an office outside our home.

Speaking of Facebook; I'm not a stranger to the concept; I'm back on after a hiatus. I choose to ONLY get on FB during the day. My nights or time off is for Nathan and to spend time with him. We are also sharing the Facebook account, that makes me more comfortable. Nothing against Nathan; that's just my issue.

One thing I've noticed is that the younger generation is using FB as a venue to air dirty laundry or opinions they are apparently too emotionally challenged or are challenged in the field of communication to state to the individual in person. It's quite immature and embarrassing. It's like watching a family or a couple argue very loudly in a restaurant, you feel like telling them, "hey leave us out of it!"

I have been so excited about our container garden. It's not flourishing as a in the ground garden would but it's just such a blessing to watch actual food that we're going to eat (I've eaten on of my "maters" by the way..YUM) grow from a seed or plant. My Daddy had a big garden when I was 8 or 9. He grew every vegetable known to man, I didn't eat vegetables or anything (willingly) back then but it was still fun to watch the origins of our produce make it from the dirt to the table (yes Mama washed them in between that step)!!

If the current economy keeps at the pace that it seems to be stuck on; we are all going to need to grow our own food! I didn't vote for Obama but I honestly decided I was going to give him a try. I'm frightened to realize he is a black version of Jimmy Carter. That means we're sunk for the next 4 yrs (God help us if people make the same mistake for 4 more!!), with our economy already in the hole coming in; he's pushing us further down. I pray that a miracle will happen and the guy grows a brain and brings us back around. I don't care if his failing proves a point. I'd rather see him succeed (without turning to socialism) and make the US financially great and secure.

The swine flu is taking the turn that I was afraid it take (see older posts on here). People don't realize how terrifying this can be for someone like me that's grandmother experienced first hand the horrors of the 1918 Swine Flu. I wonder if her having it could at least cause her offsprings to have a resistance. That would take the worry of Mama off my mind (although it's know NOT to favor her age group) but it increases my worry for Laura due to it be very dangerous for pregnant women. I really will have no protection due to not being able to take the vaccine because of an egg allergy. God please protect us all!!

I'm so gloomy! I'm completely thrilled that we received some much needed rain! Plus I'm dying to see the new 4D sonogram pics. My grandson is 6.7 inches long!! I love him already.

I've decided I want to be called Lou Lou....it's a nice name that both Laura and I have answered to over the years. Laura actually thought it was her middle name.

Take care and think on your blessings! God is good ALL the time!!


Friday, June 12, 2009

Randomness Is Random

I was sitting here totally ignoring the weather....bad weather geek, bad, bad, bad! I realize that we could have some pretty mean winds if things hold together. I'd love the rain but my container garden could suffer. Life is hard when you're a farmer.

I've been worried about some people I care about therefore; I've not been eating or sleeping well. I need to advertise my weight loss plan.

It's new, it's easy...it's the "Worry deep down into your gut diet!" All you need is to have someone you care about go through hard times and constantly think about it no matter how much you turn it over to the Lord and you'll find yourself not being able to swallow or want food. Plus the added bonus is that while you are experiencing insomnia....YOU STILL AREN'T HUNGRY!!!

I mean last weekend; Nathan and I went to the hunting club and played and play from Thursday thru Sunday. We grilled chicken, steak and porkchops, they were perfect and I could only apply an ounce to my stomach.

However; things seem more peaceful therefore; I'm more peaceful but the appetite isn't perfect but YAY!

Jon and Kate just hate....

I've been a follower of the series from the time Laura started watching it one night at my house. We pretty much started at the beginning. At first I was so mesmerized by those adorable yet multitude of children that I just couldn't stop watching. Then slowly I noticed that one of the twins could be the Anti-Christ (hey Mady) and then I realize that Kate was kinda witchy to that dork wad Jon. Eventually they went from shows about their first dentist trip to elaborate trips to Zoos, Houses in the beach and a renewed vow ceremony in Hawaii. I started thinking, this feels weird but as most TLC, multiple loving Americans; I kept watching. I realized that Jon wasn't a dork wad but a man that's wife had taken his +++++ and put them snugly in her purse. He could actually be cool even though he kinda talks through his nose and mumbles. However; I didn't realize that till this year when he gets to talk more since his wife and he rarely share the couch (and that's not a pun).

Anyway, I started getting Nathan to watch this. I encourage all women to get their husbands or boyfriends to watch the last years episodes. Kate will make anyone of us PMS sufferers who take on a satanic personality look like the sweetest angels on earth. I know someone who talks very similarly to their husband BUT he spats it right back, they basically have no respect for each other. Poor Jon became the perfect example of whipped and had the humiliation of doing so in front of millions of Americans.

We never saw behind the scenes so maybe he doesn't help like he should; I will say that I've watched Kate do NOTHING while she ordered everyone else around her.

They with her being a controlling personality go into a rut. I remember going through a phase where I talked horribly to my ex husband, I had no patience and I look back and feel so badly about it. There's no excuse to talk to your family in a disrespecting tone "just because you can".

Jon is acting out in a passive aggressive (yes I had to do the "be aggressive" cheer to remember how spell it) way. Instead of standing up to Kate or maybe he's tried and can't win. He's basically getting back at her in a very destructive way. He has to understand that he's causing those precious children to eventually suffer from all this pathetic publicity, that makes me think that perhaps Kate has seen this in him and hence the resentment.

We could analyze all day long but it's obvious that these two weren't prepared for the money and fame. Perhaps Jon still would have had a mid-life type crisis and Kate would have kept his "pair in her purse" but the children wouldn't have had the eventual embarrassment of millions of people knowing.

I can't watch their show anymore; it hurts to much to watch two people that at one time were crazy about each other; destroy their love and their family.

I still will never understand why God decided to put two entirely different entities as male and females are and expect them to live together. Mars and Venus doesn't scratch the surface of the difference!

I hate Summer clothes! I get so sick of women walking around half naked in front of my husband and other men. It's not that their bodies are beautiful, half the women don't realize that they really should reconsider dressing like strippers! It's not just aggravating; it's disgusting! Sad thing is, most men will look whether it's saggy, icky and possibly jailbait.....bleh!

Oh and put a bra on, this sister's flopping in the wind can make a person feel a bit nauseated!

Time to watch the weather!

 


Tuesday, May 05, 2009

Goodbye to a childhood friend...

....Phillip and I were 14 when we met. I'd only lived in that little town of Hollins for 5 months. I'd gotten to know his sister earlier and knew she had 3 "little brothers". One warm fall day; Phillip and another young man were riding bikes and asked if I wanted to join them. He aggravated me to death the whole time we rode. He'd try to wreck me continuously, I was so livid by the time I got home; I NEVER wanted to ride bikes with him again. The next day, standing on my porch soaking and wet was he and the other boy (the other boy apparently had a crush on me) wanting to hang out and ride bikes once the rain stopped. I told him I would ride but the first time he wrecked me; I was going home!!

We rode and rode for miles, we found neat trails and weird things along the way. The other boy was too young for me at the time and I didn't feel anything but friendship toward Phillip. Phillip along with his siblings started attending church with us and eventually I went to the same school as he where we were in the 10th grade together. He and Wayne (another friend and class of '85 alum) were the most hilarious, "terrors" of the 10th grade class. One minute they'd have someone almost in tears the next you'd be laughing your head off at them. They picked the most nervous boy in the 10th grade to be their partner in Driver's Ed, I'm not sure what they did but I do know that boy penned "Virgil" against the school wall because he hit the gas instead of the brake when they were practicing parking. They never answered roll call with "hear!", they would make strange noises or animal sounds. They loved to "pop them pies"...they called shoes "pies" and loved to walk behind people and stomp on the back of their shoes so the shoes would "pop" off. Oh the aggravation of 10th and 11th grade boys!!! They would find ANYTHING that made a noise and use it for drums or a type of percussion; it was actually cool. Wayne would sing Marie Laveau while they tap "items" to the beat...fun memories!

We sat together on the bus before we got our license, he being 6 days older than I meant he got his first! I remember he and another guy that HATED each other got into a fight on the bus. They were kicked off the bus and around the time Phillip got his license. They became friends and started riding to school together. Just to aggravate the bus driver, one day they were at the end of Phillips driveway (his sibilings still rode the bus) acting like they were beating the stew out of each other! It was GREAT!! LOLOLOL!!

Phillip fell in love with a good friend of mine and "the other boy" had gotten older and even cuter so we started "double dating" with each other. By then the bikes were gone and we could DRIVE!!!

Sadly, Phillip's Daddy died the last month of our sophmore year. It was such a sad time for he and his family. We all tried to make sure he was okay and he really took a stand that he would never drink due to the fact that drinking had led to his Daddy's death (his Daddy actually died 26 years ago this May 15th).

Phillip was able to get a truck and brought it to my house. He was the ONLY person I'd let see me with my hair wet and NO MAKEUP, I went "as is" and we rode and rode in his truck. THEN his Mama got a brand new 1983 Trans Am, he came over with it and we REALLY rode and road, we thought we were so cool!!!

He stayed true to his promise to not drink till our senior year. After losing everything to a house fire (less than 2 yrs after his Daddy died), something seemed to change in Phillip; he still would cut up and such but he and Wayne had a falling out and he and his girlfriend fought a lot. I don't know what could have happened differently to have helped him but he changed. Later in our senior year, a friend accidentally shot him in the foot. After that; I really didn't get to talk and see him much, he missed a lot of school and we just weren't as close.

I don't think I've seen Phillip since we were about 20 yrs old. That's 22 years ago. He didn't keep his promise about drinking and he never could seem to just stop dangerous things that were affecting his life. I do know that beyond the mischief and aggravation; Phillip had a good heart. He felt empathy for people. He never made fun of and always talked and took time with my brother Joseph (who was Down's), he loved and appreciated my parent's and he was a good friend to me.

I believe it was early this Sunday morning; Phillip was found dead. I don't know the circumstances, I'm not sure I want to know. We'd tragically lost Wayne just after we all turned 23 to a failed liver transplant. That alone was hard. It doesn't seem real that we will never have the two buddies together, at one time they were so full of life. Under different life circumstances; I'd like to see how the guys would have been as adults, especially middle aged adults. Would they have still aggravated the daylights out of all those around?

If I stay still for just a while and listen, I can hear their "drums" and Wayne singing....and I can't help but smile..

 


Thursday, April 30, 2009

Why I am afraid of the Swine Flu...

First of all, it's the Swine Flu; it started from contact with swine/pigs in apparently Mexico. Our Ag guy doesn't want us to call it the Swine Flu because it could hurt "pig farmers" which as we can see (Hey Eygpt!) can be a problem...

 

"Some people hear the name and think it's an illness that only infects swine. The virus can spread among swine and can be transmitted from swine to humans. It's latest genetic mutation, however, appears to have allowed it to spread human-to-human. "When it's described as swine flu, that's the origin of the strain or one of the components of the strain and not a reflection on how the disease is spread currently," Besser said." (Dr. Richard Besser, acting director of the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention)

Vilsack, a former governor of Iowa, the nation's hog capital, said:

"This really isn't swine flu. It's H1N1 virus. That's very, very important. And it is significant. Because there are a lot of hard working families whose livelihood depends on us conveying this message sense of safety. And it's not just simply pork production. It's also grain farmers because markets are very sensitive. They react to positive news and they also react to negative news. The livelihoods of a lot of people are at stake here. We want to reinforce the fact that we're doing everything we possibly can to make sure that our hog industry is sound and safe and to make sure consumers in this country and around the world know that American products are safe."

There was no discussion of the possible rebranding of avian flu but surely the chicken and turkey producers are paying attention to this one.

Well, alrighty then....

So I'm going to call it the Swine Flu...

Back to my being afraid...

My mother's mother..."Memaw" was orphaned due to the 1918 Pandemic of the Swine Flu. Mama's side of the family has a very healthy respect for this flu. I've read some of the worse horror stories about people dying almost as if they had EBOLA plus the speed in which it killed....

Let me share some parts of the CDC's site concerning the 1918 Swine Flu and look at some of the similarities and what's to probably come....

http://www.cdc.gov/ncidod/eid/vol12no01/05-0979.htm

Were the 3 Waves in 1918–1919 Caused by the Same Virus? If So, How and Why?

Historical records since the 16th century suggest that new influenza pandemics may appear at any time of year, not necessarily in the familiar annual winter patterns of interpandemic years, presumably because newly shifted influenza viruses behave differently when they find a universal or highly susceptible human population. Thereafter, confronted by the selection pressures of population immunity, these pandemic viruses begin to drift genetically and eventually settle into a pattern of annual epidemic recurrences caused by the drifted virus variants.

In the 1918–1919 pandemic, a first or spring wave began in March 1918 and spread unevenly through the United States, Europe, and possibly Asia over the next 6 months (Figure 1). Illness rates were high, but death rates in most locales were not appreciably above normal. A second or fall wave spread globally from September to November 1918 and was highly fatal. In many nations, a third wave occurred in early 1919 (21). Clinical similarities led contemporary observers to conclude initially that they were observing the same disease in the successive waves. The milder forms of illness in all 3 waves were identical and typical of influenza seen in the 1889 pandemic and in prior interpandemic years. In retrospect, even the rapid progressions from uncomplicated influenza infections to fatal pneumonia, a hallmark of the 1918–1919 fall and winter waves, had been noted in the relatively few severe spring wave cases. The differences between the waves thus seemed to be primarily in the much higher frequency of complicated, severe, and fatal cases in the last 2 waves

This could be what let's us know if we are dealing with a flu similiar to 1918....most flus kill the very young and elderly...not the case in 1918

Why Did the 1918 Virus Kill So Many Healthy Young Adults?

The curve of influenza deaths by age at death has historically, for at least 150 years, been U-shaped (Figure 2), exhibiting mortality peaks in the very young and the very old, with a comparatively low frequency of deaths at all ages in between. In contrast, age-specific death rates in the 1918 pandemic exhibited a distinct pattern that has not been documented before or since: a "W-shaped" curve, similar to the familiar U-shaped curve but with the addition of a third (middle) distinct peak of deaths in young adults ≈20–40 years of age. Influenza and pneumonia death rates for those 15–34 years of age in 1918–1919, for example, were >20 times higher than in previous years (35). Overall, nearly half of the influenza-related deaths in the 1918 pandemic were in young adults 20–40 years of age, a phenomenon unique to that pandemic year. The 1918 pandemic is also unique among influenza pandemics in that absolute risk of influenza death was higher in those <65 years of age than in those >65; persons <65 years of age accounted for >99% of all excess influenza-related deaths in 1918–1919. In comparison, the <65-year age group accounted for 36% of all excess influenza-related deaths in the 1957 H2N2 pandemic and 48% in the 1968 H3N2 pandemic (33

I can't find the article (I thought I'd saved the link, I will link soon) but it said that for the most part; those that have died in Mexico are between the ages of 20-40.

So yes, I'm afraid especially as this virus mutates and gets stronger and less controlled. Yes I fear for my 21 yr old pregnant daughter. If a vaccine becomes availabe, I won't be able to take it, I'm allergic to eggs...

Fear? Yes! Hope? Yes too!

In 1918, medicine was so primitive, people didn't have access to treatments and medicines that we have now. I feel the same goes for Mexico even in this day and time, at least I hope that's the case (I guess hope is a weird word to use). It's just a little un-nerving knowing there's a virus that will attack healthy people and twist around their sound immune system to render them helpless.

I'm afraid the false sense of hope that "it's not that bad of a strain" or "it's not killing that many people" will cause everyone to let their guards down then we are hit hard (in perhaps a 2nd wave) in the Fall and Winter.

No matter what; it's in God's hands. Nothing can be out of His control. I'd just advise people to be very aware of your surroundings. Reading a menu? How about using a hand sanitizer before you eat? Shopping and touching buggy's and merchandise at your grocery store? Don't put your hands near your eyes, nose or mouth till you wash or sanitize your hands. Stay at home if you do feel the symptoms, no one is going to think you strong or faithful if you go to work or church with this crap! Actually we won't like you much at all!

Here's some more information to help you understand the differences between a cold and the flu. Hopefully if everyone can have this knowledge, a panic, an exhausted doctor and an over-run waitng room can be avoided...

What are common cold symptoms?

Cold symptoms usually begin with a sore throat, which usually goes away after a day or two. Nasal symptoms, runny nose, and congestion follow, along with a cough by the fourth and fifth days. Fever is uncommon in adults, but a slight fever is possible. Children are more likely to have a fever with a cold.

With cold symptoms, your nose teems with watery nasal secretions for the first few days. Later, these become thicker and darker. Dark mucus is natural and does not usually mean you have developed a bacterial infection, such as a sinus infection.

Several hundred different viruses may cause your cold symptoms

Sometimes you may mistake cold symptoms for allergic rhinitis (hay fever) or a sinus infection. If your cold symptoms begin quickly and are improving after a week, then it is usually a cold, not allergy. If your cold symptoms do not seem to be getting better after a week, check with your doctor to see if you have developed an allergy or sinusitis.

 

What are common flu symptoms?

Flu symptoms are usually more severe than cold symptoms and come on quickly. Flu symptoms include sore throat, fever, headache, muscle aches and soreness, congestion, and cough. The flu is caused by a variety of influenza viruses.

Most flu symptoms gradually improve over two to five days, but it's not uncommon to feel run down for a week or more. A common complication of the flu is pneumonia, particularly in the young, elderly, or people with lung or heart problems. If you notice shortness of breath, you should let your doctor know. Another common sign of pneumonia is fever that comes back after having been gone for a day or two.

Just like cold viruses, flu viruses enter your body through the mucous membranes of your nose, eyes, or mouth. Every time you touch your hand to one of these areas, you could be infecting yourself with a virus, which makes it very important to keep your hands germ-free with frequent washing to prevent both flu and cold symptoms.

Is it flu or cold symptoms?

How do you know if you have flu or cold symptoms? Take your temperature, say many experts. Flu symptoms often mimic cold symptoms with nasal congestion, cough, aches, and malaise. But a common cold rarely has symptoms of fever above 101 degrees F. With flu symptoms, you will probably have a fever initially with the flu virus and you will feel miserable. Body and muscle aches are also more common with the flu. This table can help determine if you have cold or flu symptoms.

 

Symptoms

Cold

Flu

Fever

Sometimes, usually mild

Usual; high (100-102 F; occasionally higher, especially in young children); lasts 3 to 4 days

Headache

Occasionally

Common

General Aches, Pains

Slight

Usual; often severe

Fatigue, Weakness

Sometimes

Usual; can last 2 to 3 weeks

Extreme Exhaustion

Never

Usual; at the beginning of the illness

Stuffy Nose

Common

Sometimes

Sneezing

Usual

Sometimes

Sore Throat

Common

Sometimes

Chest Discomfort, Cough

Mild to moderate; hacking cough

Common; can become severe

Complications

Sinus congestion; middle ear infection

Sinusitis, bronchitis, ear infection, pneumonia; can be life-threatening

Prevention

Wash your hands often; avoid close contact with anyone with a cold

Annual flu shot; antiviral medicine - see your doctor

Treatment

Antihistamines; decongestants; anti-inflammatory medicines

Antihistamines, decongestants, analgesics (ibuprofen, acetaminophen); antiviral drugs within the first 48 hours of symptoms; call your doctor for more information on treatment.


Sunday, April 19, 2009

Congratulations To My Hubby!!!

A year ago, we were in Minnesota for a weeks worth of training for bosses/managers. Nathan decided while he was out of his routine to go ahead and stop smoking. He decreased his intake down to two last cigarettes that Friday evening. Saturday (the 19th) he didn't smoke another cigarette and hasn't had one this Sunday the 19th!! ONE YEAR SMOKE FREE!! Nathan has smoked at least 30 years. The longest he quit was 9 months. He went through the most stressful time of his life during his "quitting" but he stayed strong and is totally smoke free!!

I can't begin to say how proud I am of him! He is my smoke-free hero!

Way to go baby!!



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