WHat type of friends are you?
you know today when i was jogging, this thing just came to mind. Friends =) Recently alot of things happen in my family and to myself too.... of course not very very nice things.. matters of heart, dad was in ICU, need to pay a big sum of money... things just happen very very fast.... I was feeling very very lost and helpless... I was lucky to have support from my friends and jasmon. Appreciate alot. Is only in times of need U will see how good your friends are.!!! is true!
Well today when i was jogging... this thing about friends just come across my mind. I began to recall my past , my friends in the past since secondary school. Then i realsie there are different types of friends that i Had.... yah.... I mean Types!!! hee hee.. I have friends who contact me only through SMS.... ONLY... although we would see each other through ECA, through school activities or even church! The time we communciate is only through SMS.... come to think about it... will you call that friendship? I dun know. Then they are also friends who communciate through MSN only.. yah... is true. I am not saying ppl who are overseas not able to meet up... but friends who often meet each other and yet not chatting face to face but through MSN...
Finally there is another type of friends : phone type and meet up type... They would call you up and chit chat with you. talk about your life and chat about how you life... I guess I prefer friends who really take their time out to really chat with you. They put down their matters and pick up their phone to call you. by doing that action i feel it place an important part in their heart =) and truly these friends would turn out to be firends who know u better and close to you.
I know now SMS and MSN is much convienent to chat... but through MSN and SMS.. can you really tell if that person is feeling real sad and happy? can u feel how that person really feel? can u see into that person eyes and know if they were lying to you? no right? somehow i feel is abit not good to chat through this methods. Of course there will be friends who chat with you but they took damn long time to reply you.. i am talking like 3 to 4 hours later then they reply... hmm... clearly shows how much they wan to talk huh..
There are some friends whom you will feel the kind of " ARGGG" kind of feelings... there are some ppl.... ppl of barrier i would say. when u talk to them , u feel there is like a big big river in between both of you. you dun know what is the 'real' character of this person.. you really dun know.... kind of dangerous huh...
I am the type of person who prefer to hang out with the person face to face or even through phone . I like to see how the person react to certain things or the way they show their attitudes... body langage... yesh... it displays alot of one character...
hey friends. I am not pinpointing on anyone.. dun feel guilty of anything too... It just come to my mind... when i went joggin eariler on... | 
