My Lao Ban has 2 jobs He is a full time financial adviser manager cum a part time ‘magician’. Holding 2 jobs did not hinder his achievements in both fields. Beside achieving countless awards in his full time job. He has shown me many of his ‘magic’ which has never failed to amaze me. My Lao Ban has this ‘supernatural power’ in him that he can tame a stubborn bull, resulting in it submitting to him willingly. I guess I am this one bull. Being stubborn has been one of my most prominent characteristics. No one has even has this ability to make me stay in a place where I don’t like, no one has ever change me from reluctant to willingly, and no one has ever caused me to waiver in my decisions. But, he won over my stubbornness. For those who know me well enough, you will understand what I mean and be surprise by the amount of influence he has over me. I, myself cannot understand what is happening. Perhaps it was God’s will, that we got to know each other. It was on this fine day in Oct 2006 that I tagged along with my classmate when he had a lunch appointment with his future manager. Perhaps, he is a magnet and I am a magnetic object. I am ‘attracted’ to him and became one of the advisers under him. But do not mistake my lao ban to be one handsome dude, he is not someone whom I will never rate as handsome. Never! In fact, I do not even understand why I chose to be under him in the first place. He went through a lot to grant me my wish of joining him. I actually wonder why he bothers to entertain me when I don’t even know him well. Perhaps he is regretting now. It was gratitude at the start, which resulted in me obediently do whatever he wanted me to. But this gratitude didn’t prevent me from revealing my true self. I have this tendency to always make him angry, let him get worried about me and always to wreck his brains thinking of solutions for me. If you were to ask me in this 25 years, what are the things that I am grateful of, one of it would be, what a great Lao ban I have. I am trying to recall both my Lao ban’s good and bad. To me my Lao Ban is: 1) Determined - He has this ‘never say die attitude’ just like Durecell batteries. 2) Smiley – He tries to put on a smile 90% of the time. 3) Diligent – He is forever working J 4) Forgiving – He always forgets the wrongs I have did and has not been angry with me for more than 15 minutes 5) Caring – He always get himself worried cause of me misbehaving 6) Trusting – He trusted everything about me. 7) Generous – He gave me a birthday present that worth $240 8) Reasonable – Everything is negotiable 9) Amicable – He is not just a boss but a friend to me 10) Agreeable – I get my way in and out of everything 11) Optimistic – He believes that nothing is impossible 12) Sensitive - He knew how I am feeling without me telling 13) Tolerant – He tolerated all my nonsense 14) Nice – I remembered he drove me to the airport for my Taiwan trip even before I was contracted under him. 15) Strong – He never for once show that he is down But my Lao Ban is also : 1) Naggy – Due to his strong parental instincts, he always like to nag like my ‘mother’ 2) Messy – His desk is always messy and his stuffs are everywhere. 3) Blunt – Sometimes, he hurts others with his words subconsciously. 4) Not domineering – He never force me to do anything Now, you know why I can be subdued by him. I tried thinking of his bad points but, these are all that I can think of. Is he really so nice? I really thank GOD for bringing him to me. The one reading this must be thinking that I may be deeply in love with my Lao Ban. Who in the correct mind will do a write up about their Lao Ban? Yes! I am not in the correct mind! So many things have been going on, 90% of them are things that I detest, only 10% are smooth sailing. I think I am experiencing depression! Due to stress or whatever reasons? My Lao Ban is currently trying his best to get me on form again. My future is left in his hands as I handled him my timetable for him to fill it in. I know he can’t do much to make me feel better but bringing me to see light in another form may not be a bad idea. Since I cant salvage the situation myself, I willingly, for once let someone else take the lead, hold my hands and hopefully he can perform his magic once again to bring me back into the light. |