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Name: Mary
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Interests: Life and living it to the fullest is the greatest hobby of all. Remember you never get a second chance to make a first impression.
Expertise: Expert on all the ups and downs in life and chasing dust bunnies all over the house. Hubby got to retire and sit back and relax, so the day he retired so did I. Those dust bunnies are now part of our family and with my glasses off they hide real well. ha.ha
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Member Since: 8/10/2002
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Tuesday, January 05, 2010

 Today marks the 15th year since my sister's death. She died unexpectedly at the age of 55 from a massive heart attack. Nothing anyone could have done for her, the blood clot just traveled right up her leg to her heart and like a light being switched off, her life was ended. I miss her so much, no matter how many years go by, she will forever be missed by me. She was my older sister and the one I used to play pranks on. Not just as kids but also as adults, we were constantly trying to get the better of each other. I just can't even imagine what she's cooking up for when I reach those pearly gates! ha,ha 

Love you Sis

Hubby went out yesterday to play with his toy he got last year for Christmas. A snow blade that attaches to our old mower for him to clear the driveway. He has a ball doing it and makes sure to get a few of the neighbors driveways also. By the time they get home from work, they have a cleared off drive. I snapped this picture of him.

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Friday, January 01, 2010

NEW YEAR 2010

Couldn't let the first day of this New Year go by without posting something in my on line journal. I love the beginning of a New Year. I spent the whole day going through all my calendars for this year and writing down birthdays and special events etc etc. Out with the old in with the new :) Then I packed away my 2009 journal that I kept by my bedside and wrote in every night. I've got a total of 24 journals. That's 24 years of my life jotted down in 24 books. I order them special from Doubleday Book Club. Now I'm starting on my 25th year of journaling. Actually I do have some journals from back in the 60's. One of these days I'll dig them out and post a few entry's here. Amazing how life changes over the years. Plus what I find curious is the difference in the worry's that I worried over back then and now. When I read about what I fretted over, back then, to the point it kept me awake at night I laugh now. It seems so silly. Heck even our worrying and fretting changes with the times or is that maybe with age.  Now I just feel life is to short to worry over anything. Especially if there is nothing I can do about it.

Now to leave you with a picture of my hubby's new toy that Mrs. Santa gave him for Christmas :) Now all we need to figure out is how they make the popcorn so yummy at the theater...and without lots of butter :)

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Saturday, December 19, 2009

Surprise

Yes, I'm still in this world of the living, even though I hardly ever come to this site except to catch up on others journals. But this morning I decided to update and let everyone know I'm doing 95% better as far as my dental problems. I have new dentures with the bottom having a soft lining, due to the bone that's protruding from my bottom jaw/gum.  The bone doesn't hurt but without my dentures my tongue has a tendency to want to rub on it and it's sharp in places. (Actually it's me that places my tongue there as I know that bone is there and it bugs me :( Think I'll ask my dentist if he can file it down..ha,ha  

As for now the we are on a wait an see, wait and see if the infection comes back and dentist will continue with the antibiotic for a few more months. On the antibiotic the infection clears up then I go off the anitb and usually within 3 weeks it comes back and back on the antib I go. It has been like a revolving door with infection....antibiotic....off for a few weeks then infection....antibiotic

So far no infection. If it does continue after the next few months then dentist will be sending me to the state university to some dental specialists. But as of now no infection , nice new dentures, with a soft liner in the bottoms  that help a lot with the bone piece. So I'll be able to enjoy my holiday meals and all the goodies.

Finished up all the holiday shopping yesterday and house is all decorated, so I'm all set. Except for wrapping gifts. I put that job off till the very last minute, I hate hate hate wrapping gifts. When I should just be soooooooooo thankful that I have presents to wrap :) But other than that, I'm all ready for Santa....smile

Oh before I forget.....you must go see the movie Avatar....but try and see it in Imax-3D. Hubby and I went yesterday and it blew me away. It was the best movie I've seen in 56 years.... I think I started going to shows when I was around 10. But the movie was beyond words, just totally amazing. Being it was in 3D it was like we were in the movie and you'd think at 166 minutes I'd be itching to get the heck out of my seat. But nope....I could have sat through another showing it was that good. Please go see this movie....you won't regret it.


Monday, November 23, 2009

Update on Gum/Jaw

  Just a quick update for my future reference. If and when I ever get this gum/jaw problem under control.

Woke up this morning and the infection is back. It seems to come back 2-3 weeks after I'm off the Clindamycin > antibodic. I just can't understand what could be causing this flare up. It goes away then comes back. Have an appointment with my dentist for next Tuesday. He's stumped as to what could be going on, says he'll more than likely send me to the Uninversity to one of their dentists. Hey, at this point I don't care where he sends me, I just want to get to the bottom of what's causing it.

Got my new dentures and the bottom plate has a soft liner, which really helps the wee bit of bone that's bare on my gum. Okay now that I've got this info down for future reference let me go on to what's been happening around here. NOT MUCH.....ha,ha

We do have a visitor that comes every morning to our back patio, to get a drink of water. I snapped a few pictures and he even posed for the one...ha.ha  At least it looks like he did. He stook so still and sat there so perfect.

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Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Madder than MAD !!

Boy oh Boy am I pissed.  I wear dentures and about a month ago my left bottom gum/jaw started to hurt. Got up one morning and the damn thing was all swollen infected with little white spots all over the top. I was getting ready for our trip to Colorado and didn't want to be bothered with going to the dentist. Plus we'd lost our GM paid dental insurance so I wasn't prepared to dig into our vacation money to get this mess checked out. (So far it's cost me $1,225.00)

So I went to my doctor who was a lot cheaper than going to a dentist and he gave me some medication that seemed to improve it. Enough for me to make our trip. But once we returned it came back and lots worse and very painful. So I realized I had no choice but to go to a dentist. Now here's where the pissing and bitching comes in....I'm on a once a month bone pill, prescribed for me because my damn bone density test came back a little below the normal mark. So stupid me, I put complete trust in this damn pill. Usually I do research before popping anything in my mouth, but not this time. So after 5 years of having this medication in my system it decides to attack my  Gum/jaw bone, enough that I now have a part of the bone showing with no skin over it. Dentist is doing his best to control this before I lose my jaw. That's the worst that could happen, but unlikely. I pray he's right.

Just can't believe a pill that's suppose to help build your bones is actually now killing mine. And this isn't just the one bone pill that does this, it's all of them. So if your taking a bone pill prescribed by your doctor be very very very alert to any changes in your gums or teeth. My girlfriend has her own teeth and is dealing with the same problem I am. Her fillings are not staying in and one of her crowns is a mess, that has been worked on for 2 years and still not doing to good. The skin seems to be dying all around the tooth. With infections constantly causing her pain with this tooth. But she wants to save it...which it may not be able to be saved. So she keeps putting money into it. Her dentist is now at the last procedure, and if this doesn't work then there's is no hope for her tooth. She's got enough invested in her mouth to buy a nice used car....is a shame that the pill she was on has caused this. She no longer takes them either. She was on one of the other doctor prescribed bone medications.

So if you have dental work done and there's lots of complications(All Of A Sudden) then keep an eye on your gums around that tooth, if anything looks or feels strange.....get to your dentist. In fact let your dentist know your on a prescribed bone pill. See what he thinks about continuing. Lots of women are on these meds and may never have a problem. But do you wanna wait till 5 years or more have gone by and POW> it hits. And once the damage is done no telling how long it takes to get all the medication out of your system, plus there is no cure once the damage starts or how much worse it   could get over the years. NO ONE KNOWS !

It's all up to you. I wish I'd of read a journal post like this before I'd ever consented to taking the damn pill.

To those of you that are on these meds and have had no side effects, that is fabulous and I pray you never have to deal with what I'm dealing with today. But it wouldn't hurt to check out the many side effects and just keep an eye on your gums and teeth. Especially after having dental work done.

So decide for yourself what you should do, if your on these medications, discuss it with your doctorDon't just quit taking them.. Do the research to alternatives. I myself have gotten off it, with the consent of my doctor. I have decided on an alternative, that I know won't ever hurt me or kill my bones.

The company's say, percentage wise these medications aren't affecting that many women that are on them. Well let me tell you, their just not advertising the real number of women that these meds have hurt. Or the women aren't reporting it. I have and my doctor will also let the company know.

Again...do the research. With computers there isn't anything you can't find on the Internet. There's lots of info out there. I even found web sites of others that are suffering the same thing that I am  some even worse than I. But I've just gotten this, no telling what will happen down the road. I realize that any drug we take is a risk, but for some reason I didn't think the news was talking about the bone medication that I was on. Plus after 5 years of taking it, I thought I was pretty safe. But nope.....now I must deal with my stupidity.

PS> First thing the dentist said to me after seeing the damage is>>>>Are you on a bone pill? He used the proper name for these medications but it's easier for me to say Bone pill. My friends dentist said the same to her.



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