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Sunday, May 11, 2008

You are sooo 214

For Mother's Day we revisited an old tradition.  My kids took me to Bubba's for fried chicken and a picnic at Lakeside Drive Park.  We were living so 214 today! 

Alright, you might need a little bit of 214 education so I'm here to supply it.  First of all, Bubba's is the chicken shack on Hillcrest across the street from SMU.  Definitely high cotton.  Now here's the thing about Bubba's and the Park Cities in general.  There is a system and if you aren't from there "you don't get it."  We aren't from there.  So as Greg stood at the counter for 30 minutes waiting on our chicken to be boxed up, the chicken is flying out of the store.  Flying, I tell you!!  Top priority was the phone-in orders (we had time to figure it all out, obviously).  Some 60+ woman smoothed up the curb in her Merc, parked in a yellow zone (you can't be bothered by silly laws if you are 214), and waltzed in the door and within 5 minutes was pulling back onto Hillcrest.  Next comes the drive thru.  The drive thru is an extremely narrow lane wedged between Bubba's and the dry cleaner's next door. You can't get a Hummer through there.  There is no way.  Greg saw the woman who was initially in line in front of us inside, pull out of the drive thru way before our chicken was boxed.  Next is the walk-up window out front and finally is all the shlubs who thought going inside was a good idea. 

Bubba's attracts folks from all over Dallas so you never know if you'll be standing next to the hyper-intense soccer mom with the 16 carat diamond on her hand or alongside the old bird with chin hairs who left her Caddie running outside, thinking it is still 1956.  And the service there is quite congential.  Greg asked the woman helping him 3 times if the rolls made it into the sack.  "Yes," she assured him.

So once we got our chicken, it was time to snake our way down to Lakeside Park.  Lakeside Drive is to the left of the enormous fountain at Preston and Beverly.  We picked a sweet spot under the large canopy of Elms and Oaks.  If you don't know anything about Lakeside Park, let me tell you that is has to be one of the most beautiful public parks anywhere.   A concrete sidewalk follows the meandering creek with other off-shooting paths to explore and wander through.  There is a lake and fun teddy bear sculptures to explore.  Take you bike.  Take a blanket.  Take your dreams of a sweet life.  Lyla innocently remarked about how nice it would be to live across the streeet from such a beautiful place.  We all glanced across the street at the multi-million dollar homes and knew that yes, it would be nice.

But, once we opened the sacks, there were NO ROLLS!!  Now I love Babe's.  They serve the same great fried chicken and mashed taters and such but Babe's has biscuits.  I have nothing against a good biscuit but Bubba's rolls are just superior.  Full stop.  And with honey.

Greg said, "Oh, don't worry, I'm going back for my rolls."  And as we wound our way back up Preston and across to Hillcrest, we did indeed get the six rolls Bubba owed us.  The woman recognized Greg and sheepishly boxed them up.  I had mine for supper.

So in conclusion; my family loves me very much.  We all pretended for the day that we were 214 even though most of us accept our 972-ness.  That's just the way we roll.

Here are some pictures for you to enjoy.

Happy Mother's Day.

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Wednesday, May 07, 2008

My Skills have limits- indulge me

When we went to see La Boheme a few weeks ago, I was reminded of something pretty significant and constant in my own life.  The character, Mimi, in La Boheme is a young woman who embroiders for a living in turn-of-the-century Paris.  It is obvious that even back then, her art was underappreciated as she was living in squallor and poverty (redundant).  At the end of this marvelous production, Mimi is costumed in a gown embelished with tiny embroidered roses and lilies.  The idea was that at the end, Mimi had taken a position that offered her the luxury of the very thing she would make once upon a time.  I thought it was a beautiful touch.  I also knew more about Mimi knwing she embroidered for a living because I, too, embroider.  It fulfills and satisfies the introverted side of Miss Dixie.

 When I was about 8 years old I asked my mother to teach me to embroidery.  I have no idea why.  She didn't do much handwork really.  She sewed of course but most all of her work was on the machine.  She dug around in her sewing stash and came up with a little cross-stitch transfer and an embroidery hoop.  She also found a large needle and some floss (that's what they call embroidery thread if you didn't know that).  Beyond that, she didn't offer me much help.  The first thing I tried to embroidery was an old play purse with a face on it.  Oh my!  It was terrible.  But for some reason (and I seriously don't know why) I kept trying to embroidery.  Lucky me because right around the time I got interested in learning, the arts and crafts movement was about to hit a revival.  Embroidered embelishments on clothing and household items became the rage.  Patterns and embroidery kits were easily found and interesting and fun to do.  I mostly taught myself to do the craft.  I learned by reading patterns and by trial and error. My skills in embroidery really improved.  Believe it or not, I have actually saved some of my work.  And I'm going to share it with you right here, right now.

Exhibit A:  A vintage Levi's workshirt, circa 1972 or 73?   The stars on the pockets and collar, as well as the pattern on the cuffs and the back beach motif were from a Simplicity transfer pattern I think. (there are some other views in my photos if you are interested)

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Cool, huh?  Notice my name embroideried in the lower right.  It's pretty crude but I was only about 11 so cut me some slack.

Next, I started giving my stuff away.  And I started experimenting with my own designs.  I made this picture for my grandparents.  Note that the sunset is borrowed from the shirt design.  But Granny and Pa are from something I drew myself.  Again, I was only about 12 and I was self-taught and not supervised, so cut me some slack.  I guess Granny liked it.  She had it hanging in her house until she died and I got it back.  Granny never wore her hair in a bun but I took a liberty with that detail. Sweet, huh?

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Even though I was doing my own designs, I still liked kits.  I always learned something new from interesting kits.  I learned how to mixed colors, new stitches and designs.  This pillow I did in 1975.  It is on Clayre's bed right now. and if you look close its got tatters on it.

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Also in 1975, I tried my hand at another workshirt.  This is the back embroidered piece on that shirt.  I modified a children's book drawing for it.  It isn't as nice a shirt as the Levi's one and honestly, I don't really like the design but I can't part with it.

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1978, my work is improving.  This is another kit pillow I still have.

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In 1978, I also took on a mammoth project- a bed spread.  The spread has different flowers, friuts and animals on it.  This orange is the last thing I did.  As you can see, I finished it in 1982.  It was on the first bed Greg and I ever had.  All of the embroidered pieces are thngs I adapted from pictures or drawings.  I love this orange.  It is filled with very difficult and painstaking stitches.  My family still hauls out this heavy bedspread if they know they have to sleep on the floor or need some extra covers.  It is as heavy as all git out.  Once we kept another family's cocker spaniel and he ripped it in a couple of places.  I patched it but it was never the same.  I think about dismantling it and maybe framing each of the embroidered pieces that are left intact but the family wouldn't hear of it!

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My work today.  I found a lovely book with designs for craftwork from the Victorian era.  They suit the embroidery stitches very well.  But let's be honest.  Who really appreciates this kind of work any more?  Who notices the embroidery on Elf's costume?  Me.  And maybe a handful of other folks.

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This is something I just finished.  I made it into a pillow and gave it to my friend.  She left for India the next day.  It is pretty ironic to give such handwork to someone who is going to a country famous for their embroidery.  It seemed sort of silly to me.  She said she appreciated it but then I watched her sort of wad it up as we talked.  I had to let that go.

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I am sort of embarrassed by my craft.  It seems fairly useless, really.  I mean, how many pillows or napkins or tiny embelishments do you need?  How many framed butterflies can you have?  Not many, I tell you.

Several years ago I went to a post-funeral get-together of the grandmother of my very first boyfriend.  Such an odd thing to admit, I know.  I found out his grandmother had died by reading the Dallas Morning New obits.  Anyway... I haven't seen John since 1977  when he moved away.  I was talking to him and his wife about how we knew each other.  His wife suddenly said, "Oh you're the one that embroidered that picture for John!  We still have it hanging in our house.  I love it!"

I was stunned.  We were only 14 and 15 when we "dated" those couple of months and things didn't end well.  I couldn't even remember what picture I had done.  She described it to me and I then remembered how I had interposed a standing Bass with a Sousaphone (he played both).  Who knew John would keep it after all these years?

So, who among you has a craft or talent that will never make you rich or famous or  is undervalued or appreciated?  If so, welcome to the club.

 


Tuesday, May 06, 2008

Where Emotions Rule

 

Maybe I'm just getting too old for the nonsense.  Or maybe we just live in a world where emotions are running amok- especially when it comes to relationships.

This morning this story was streaming on the TV as I was working out.  Since the Scottish English was a little difficult to understand, they had subtitles going.  Yes, this brother and sister believe they should be allowed to have a "committed, loving, sexual relationship" with each other.  Their justification for it is that they have an attraction, they want to be close to each other physically, they didn't grow up together and since she can't have children, what's the harm.  They want to go to France. 

Cuz...yeah, it's legal there.  And afterall, if we feel all of this powerfully, it must be right.  Right?

Doing the work I do, I interact with lots of people who justify staying in violent relationships because of love.  I love him, so I stay.  I also know lots of folks who divorce because they "quit loving" their spouse.  They chose emotions over commitment.  There are plenty of people in poor relationships because of strong sexual attraction or selfish needs or it just feels right.

Feelings.  Emotions.

When I talk to people about leaving a dangerous relationship, I start by saying, "You have got to start thinking your way through this."  Logic.  Reason.  Ask yourself the hard questions about whether or not all these emotions have served you well.  Weigh the pros and cons.  Ask if the words "I love you" line up with the actions you are experiencing.  Think.  Think.  Think.

It doesn't sound very romantic but we have just about choked ourselves on our romantic emotions.  It surrounds us and makes us do things that harm instead of heal.  It fills our movies, music and books.  It had turned us into mush with no backbone.  We can't commit.  We can't quit.  We seek out the emotional highs like junkies.  We chose the temporary and quick over the sustainable and steady.  And we slide. 

To Cameron and Heaney: now that you have found each other, grow up.

 


Thursday, May 01, 2008

My life doesn't feel crazy

But when I tell you what yesterday and today were like, it sounds crazy.

Greg and I took Amy to RHD at 7 AM for her surgery.  We were under a real time crunch and had absolutely no control over anything.  We just had hope all would work out.  At 11:15 AM they wheeled her to recovery and gave us instructions for coming home.  Greg and I were monitoring each second tick by on the wall clock and asking, "will we make it."  At 11:30 we left Amy with Clayre to drive her home with a huge bandage and splint covering the new flesh.  We jumped in the rent car (one of those Chevy HHR's.  I don't recommend it if you are over 5'2" tall.) and started the treck down 35.  It became crystal clear at Cayuga that there was no way we were going to make that 2 PM funeral in Crockett on time.  But it was too far to turn around and too crazy to not go.

We got to Aunt Eunice's funeral at 2:15.  How embarrassing.  The hired gun was wrapping up the graveside eulogy filled with useless platitudes and words he thought fit the average 102 year old woman.  Since he was hired on the day of the funeral, it was obvious he didn't know Eunice Westbrook at all.  About 20 people including the funeral director and her nurses showed up. We also had to see the two women who tried to bilk her out of her money and her "family."  It's a long story full of all sorts of southern gothic drama.  Maybe someday I can let go of emotions and write about it. 

After the funeral, Greg and I joined my sister for coffee.  Sitting in the restaurant was the "Moosehead Gang" that included a county judge, a realtor and several old guys sorting through the issues of the day.  One man kept looking our direction.  he looked familiar but I had no idea who he was.  As we were leaving he came up.  "You are Kent Westbrook's daughters, aren't you.  I heard the funeral announcement on the radio the last couple of days and put it together."

I haven't been called Kent's daughter in years.  It was nice.

 

So today was the field trip to the Ft. Worth zoo.  I dragged around 4 first grade girls. I came home and fell into a heap.  There's more to do.

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Monday, April 28, 2008

some days you just take Plan X

 

Lyla and I were walking out the door to go to church.  My phone rang twice; the first was from Amy but I missed the call.  The second was Greg telling me Amy had been in a wreck.  So instead of heading east, Lyla and I headed south on 35.  What an eery sight to approach the flashing lights on an ambulance, a firetruck and a police car and know that inside the ambulance is your daughter.  Lyla started to cry as soon as she saw Amy's Scion scraped from front to back on the driver's side.

Just to be fair to you, I already knew that Amy had cuts and but otherwise wasn't in danger.  So I was calm.  We pulled off the road and waited for the ambulance to take her to RHD Memorial.  (Now for you DFW'ers you might snicker a bit.  All of us old timers know that this hospital is actually Dedman Memorial.  They wisely marketed that unfortunate name out of signage and verbage years ago.  We still snicker and shake heads around here.)  Amy had a nasty scrape on her elbow about 2 inches in diameter and a few cuts down to her pinky on her left hand.  Tomorrow morning we will chat with a wound care doc and see if he thinks she would benefit from a graft.  We shall see.

So what happened?  We had a steady rain throughout the early morning and it was still raining as she was driving to a fashion show at Love to help with hair.  At some point with the slick, oily road, she started to hydroplane and then to spin.  Her front hit the inside guard barrier and that xB just tilted over on the drivers side.  Her window broke and her arm scraped the pavement.  OUCH.

And the xB?  We'll see what State Farm has to say about that.

p.s. wrecker companies.  I would say the 95% of people working for wrecker companies smoke.  heavily.

Plan X.  The unknown variable.   The one you just can't plan for.

 

UPDATE:

Met with the surgeon this morning.  He scheduled surgery for Wednesday morning at 8.  He doesn't want to do a graft 'cuz that will just not look right.  He is going to cut out the bad patch and pull the skin together.  It's a good thing us Allen women are kinda "fleshy."  He's got something to work with I think.  It should take her a week to be back at the cutting chair.  I'm not on car duty so I don't have a status on the xB.

 



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