if you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you be gentle with yourself there is nothing wrong with you love just didn't choose to rest in the other persons heart.

if you find someone else in love with you and you don't love him/her feel honored that love came and called at your door but gently refuse the gift you cannot return do not take advantage do not cause pain.

how you deal with love is how you deal with you and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys even if our lives and ways are different.

if you fall in love with another and he/she falls in love with you and then love chooses to leave do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame let it go there is a reason and there is a meaning you will know in time.

remember that you dont choose love. love chooses you all you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.

gve it back to the person who brought it alive in you.

gve it to others who deem it poor in spirit. give it to the world around you in anyway you can. there is where many lovers go wrong. having been so long without love they understand love only as a need. they see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them.

the first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools they revert to seeing their love as need. they cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love.

they forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.

remember this and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. you cannot bribe it or coerce it or reason it into saying. you can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. but if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do.

love always has been and always will be a mystery
be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life

sups everywun...HOPE U GUYZ ALL HAVIN A GOOD NEW YEARZ...as fo me...mines goin ok i guess...got my self a new hair doo...hha...oda den dat...dis break wuz ok...jus cruzzin wit frends...n jus been tinkin alot lately...isnt der dayz wea u jus wanna tell sumwun how u rly feel bout dem but jus hurts 2 tell dem cuz of sumtin u did...idk das how i feel...i jus wanna tell sumwun how much i love em...n how sorry i m 2 hurt her...i wuz so stupid...sumtimes i jus stay up at nite tinkin bout her...or if im lucky i jus sit outside 2 watch da sunset or stay up at nite lookin at da starz n moon...n sumtimes i jus wonder if shes lookin at it at da same time as me...i jus want her 2 know i still love her n she will stay in my heart...alwayz n 4evah.

DIS IS HOW I FEEL ABOUT HER---->http://artpad.art.com/gallery/?i9hh0l16rvsw

howz it goin ppl...im bored...dis weekend wuz kinda fun...on saturday went drive all da way 2 waimanalo fo drivers ed...den idk...got busted cuz da fone bill went up 2 high...got my cell taken away...dat is shitty...on sunday went dirt bike at dis new spot...kinda junk...but i caught an eel wit my bare hands...haha...well not rly cuz it wuz half dead...N MY BEBZ IS COMMIN 2MORROW...^_^...AWWWWW RITE...cant wait...i jus wanna b wit her rite now...lol...n i wannna call...n i have 2 pursuade my dad 2 give bac my fone...lol...wellz das all fo now...k denz...peace