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Friday, June 27, 2008

My Mother, Mike Hughes and Me

Martin Agency Head Doesn't Need to Talk Diversity

Moses Foster Moses Foster
If only you could see my mother's smile.

It doesn't matter how low you're feeling, or what's going wrong in your life. Even in your deepest, darkest moment, that smile will suspend you in the middle of a spiraling descent, dust you off in mid-air, and catapult you back into life-giving light.

Please believe me when I tell you, that smile can make you do just about anything. So one Sunday after church, smack dab in the middle of an $8.99 all-you-can-eat buffet brunch, my mother's face lit up brightly and she pulled out a newspaper clipping she had placed in her purse. She unfolded the article and proceeded to give me some specific instructions with respect to the Martin Agency. I had no choice but to obey.

"See right here," she said, pointing at the newspaper article, "Martin is a big agency in Richmond. They won the Wal-Mart account, you know. And they're right down the street from the West Cary Gang", she said proudly.

"West Cary Group, Ma. My agency is the West Cary Group," I gently corrected. "And yes, I've heard of the Martin Agency once or twice."

"Look," she said and continued to point. "Wal-Mart is a really big account, Junior." (My whole family calls me Junior. ONLY my family. No one else. So NO ONE reading this should get any bright ideas.)

"Yes, Wal-Mart's one of the biggest, Ma. Martin is a good shop."

"Junior, they probably need some help. You should go down and see them. They're right down the street from you."

I couldn't help but laugh. "I know, Ma. They're just down the street. But, they're really big and very accomplished, and highly successful. We're a small shop -- we're growing -- but I'm not sure they're going to have any need for..."

"Junior, you listen to me, now," she interrupted. "Just go talk to them. God being a just God would never give some people so much, and other people so little. That's what I always believed. Just go talk to them."

What could I do but obey? She smiled at me. What could I do?

"Yes, Ma'am." I said.

A few weeks later the guilt was mounting and I felt I had to make good on the commitment I made to my mother.

I typed out a message to Mike Hughes at the Martin Agency. If you're going to take a chance, why not take a big one, right? I figured I'd start at the top. I wanted my auto-responder to at least have the name of the agency's president on it.
"Dear Mike...I really admire the Martin Agency of course. And, being in the same town and all, I wonder if there might be some synergies. We're a small black-owned firm in Richmond and we've been extremely pleased with our first year and a half. We've got big plans, and one day we're going to be as big as the Martin Agency... but you wouldn't really know it yet because we're still really small and all, but I thought I'd at least reach out to you and give it a try. Take care...and please don't forward this to your golf buddies for a laugh. I'm too fragile."


Nope. I scratched the last sentence. I decided I wasn't going out like a punk.

I wrote it again. "Take care...and hope to hear from you soon."

"I'm sure Mike's assistant will make quick work of disposing of this," I thought as I sent it off.

I was stunned to receive a message from Mike. "Hey, that sounds great. I read the blog on your site, and really liked it. My seven-year-old-son and I were HUGE fans of the '83 Sixers. A career highlight was making commercials with Dr. J. Why don't we grab coffee or something?"

"Uh...sure," was the gist of what I pounded back.

A week later, I'm in the Martin Agency lobby for my meeting with the great Mike Hughes. This thing has gotten way too out of hand, and I'm wondering how they'd gracefully lead me out. An assistant would come down for sure. And she'd tell me that there had been a terrible mistake, and the process had broken down, and it's completely against protocol for someone of my modest stature to contact Mike Hughes directly.

What's more, she'd inform me that it's an even greater breach for him to type his own e-mails and respond. She'd state firmly that Mike Hughes is off shooting a spot in Europe anyway, so of course there can be no meeting. And she'd conclude by asking if I couldn't just enjoy some lobby mints and quickly be on my way before any further confusion was caused.

Instead, Mike Hughes himself comes ambling down the stairs with a notepad and a pen. He smiles broadly and gives me a hearty handshake. "I like the coffee shop right over here...let's just step in."

Neither of us drink coffee, ironically enough, but we grab drinks, sit outside and I give him my story. We talk a little bit about the industry and our careers, and diversity. As unpretentiously as I've ever heard it addressed, Mike says, "We've done a pretty poor job on diversity as an industry and we've got to do better. Anyway, why don't we just brainstorm on some ways that we can work together."

And with that, Mike Hughes took out his notepad and pen, and I kicked around ideas with an advertising legend for 45 minutes.

You know some people talk about the case for diversity ad nauseum. They've got all the right rhetoric and frameworks, but none of the resolve or passion to make a difference.

Mike addressed diversity in only one sentence that day, but his actions speak volumes.

Walk around the Martin agency one day. You'll see black people in leadership positions. They don't brag about it. They just do it. I respect the hell out of that.

And Mike and his team have done some tremendous business development for us. We may even partner on some future projects. But you know what I value more than anything else? The fact that Mike took the time to talk to me that day. No agenda. No request to kiss the ring. Just genuine human compassion.

You know, sometimes the world can really get you down. War. Flooding. Recessions. Gas prices gone haywire.

But by some strange twist of fate, if you ever get the opportunity, I strongly encourage you to experience two of the best things going in the world today. An after church brunch with the most beautiful woman to ever grace God's earth -- my Mother... and 4:00 coffee with one of the good guys in advertising -- Mike Hughes.


Monday, June 02, 2008

Mom, Can I Have My Virtual Allowance?

Why It's Important to Pay Attention to What Kids Are Spending Real Money on

Reuben Steiger Reuben Steiger
Sometimes the most amazing things happen right under our noses and we miss them because we're not in fourth grade.

Take a stroll down the aisles at your local Target, Wal-Mart, Walgreens or Rite-Aid and you'll notice an interesting phenomenon -- pre-paid gift cards for as many as 26 virtual worlds. Let me try to explain what this means (if you have a fourth grader, feel free to skip the next couple paragraphs).

There are roughly 100 million people in virtual worlds at the moment and the vast majority of them are kids and teens. These worlds, which in general are rather simple looking, allow kids to hang out together on the web. Jeff Yang of Redpoint Ventures, a prominent investor in a variety of these worlds (he was also the sole venture capitalist behind Myspace), likes to call these worlds the "new mall." Collectively, the kids in this "mall" are spending over $1.5 billion on avatars, clothing, pets and the like. That's real money on virtual stuff.

Now here's where the cards come in. While these kids have a seemingly endless appetite for virtual goods, they don't have credit cards. Even if they did, the stuff they're buying costs between 20 cents and $5 -- creating a problem when the cost of clearing the transaction is greater than the value of the item. The cards solve this by allowing a parent to buy their child $10 or $25 worth of virtual currency. The card company takes a fee off the top, generally somewhere in the neighborhood of 20% (nice business model, huh?) and the rest goes to the kid to spend at the virtual mall.

Now I'm guessing a few of you are wondering why on earth anyone would spend real money on virtual stuff. Let me try to explain this in truly simple terms, because I think it's a really fundamental concept, no different than what goes on when we buy stuff in the real world.

First of all (and this is beyond fascinating), teenagers view their avatars, or characters in virtual worlds, very differently than adults. While you or I might refer to the avatar as "my avatar," a teenage just calls it "myself" or "me." Perhaps an equivalent for us older folks is that we'd never ask someone if they received an e-mail from our "e-mail account," we'd simply say, "Did you read what I wrote you?" So these teens see their avatars as themselves, which makes sense when you're spending over an hour a day communicating through that character. And when that's the case, how your avatar looks is critical to the way in which one's social status is perceived. So virtual goods become the markers of social hierarchy -- we are social creatures after all (even non-fourth graders) and that stuff really matters.

If you're still thinking that this is beyond bizarre, let me leave you with a little thought experiment. How much does your average pair of jeans cost? The truth is that if you bought jeans based simply on utility (in other words, discounting social perception to zero), you would spend $10. This means that the difference between what you really spend on jeans and $10 is the value you place on what other people think. In my case, it's embarrassingly high -- more than $100.

Guess those fourth graders spending $2 on virtual bling aren't so crazy after all.


Sunday, May 25, 2008

A Work of Fiction: True Soc Net Interoperability

It's Like Everyone's at the Same Dinner Party, but No One's Talking to Each Other

Craig Daitch Craig Daitch also writes the blog Thought Industry.
The following is a work of fiction, based on recent moves by Google, MySpace and Facebook. All have built up walled silos of data and recently introduced tools to let users more easily share that data among other web sites and services. But while these companies trumpet "openness" and "interoperability," I don't see it. Yet, at least.

Imagine you're throwing an elaborate dinner party. To add a twist of social intrigue, you request that your guests bring three friends to the event. Your first group arrives, we'll call them the Googles, and all is well. The Googles are chatting on a myriad of topics at a velocity difficult to keep up with. No mind, they're entertaining themselves while you prepare the finishing touches on dinner.

Moments later, another group arrives. We'll call them the Facebooks. Arriving with more gifts than they can carry, they too begin chatting away. However you quickly notice that they seem to be keeping to themselves, blatantly ignoring the Googles. Disappointed, you slowly forgive their perceived haughtiness -- for the Facebooks brought a cake and a pair of champagne glasses. "They'd be great company," you comment to your significant other, "if only they would stop writing jibberish on our wall!"

Just as the conversation starts dying down, there's a loud knock at the door. As you attempt to open it to greet your guests, the MySpaces barge in with a menagerie of eclectics armed with camera phones and loud music. Bringing with them a litany of tunes, the party has officially started. Beckoning you to take a few pictures, you oblige. Funny though, you think to yourself, "why do they insist on sucking their cheeks in like that?"

Fast forward to later in the evening...

The party's in full swing. The guests are enjoying themselves and seem to be having a great time. Yet under closer inspection, you soon realize that the volume of conversations are not intertwined and the same cliques that walked into your home remain in tact with no discussion between them.

Frustrated, you stand up from your chair and decide to create an icebreaker. You ask if everyone would like to play a game; they all nod in approval, with the exception of one Facebook invitee who has decided to ignore you. Typical.

You inform your company that you'd like to start a story telling game. Each guest completes a sentence based on the previous guest's sentence. "Facebook," you ask, "can you please start the game?"

The Facebooks smile and begin to speak, each guest completing a sentence, one after the other. As the last Facebook guest finished their sentence, you turn your attention to the Googles. They smile politely but say nothing.

"Go ahead Googles, no sense in being shy," you say.

"Shy?" one of the Googles asks.

"Why yes. Aren't you going to continue the story?" you say.

"Story?" The Google guest looks inquisitively. "I didn't realize the story began."

Exasperated, you turn to the Facebooks, emphatically waving your hands in their general direction. "Googles, they've been speaking for five minutes. Haven't you been paying attention?"

"Well sure, but we don't speak their language," says a Google.

"But we're all speaking the same language!" you protest.

"Actually, we speak a slightly different variance on the same language, making interoperable communication unfeasible." a Google replies while pushing up her glasses.

"So wait a minute -- how are you claiming openness if you can't even speak to each other?! I can use my Gmail account to send messages to my friends using Hotmail. Why can't I talk to my buddies in the same manner across social networks? All of these conversations regarding your open initiatives -- Facebook Connect, Friend Connect and MySpace Data Availability is just a bunch of ... hey, has anyone seen where the MySpaces went?"

Suddenly a loud crash is heard in the kitchen.

"DUDE!" one of the MySpaces exclaimed running out of the kitchen. "I really hope you didn't need those Champagne glasses..."

"TOM, you are SO not my friend!" What could've been a great social event amongst networks has left you disappointed. You walk to the kitchen to clean up the mess as your guests go back to their conversations, separately, sadly and without acknowledgement that they're in the presence of others.


Monday, May 19, 2008

I know this has nothing to do with most of you, but I thought this article was quite hilarious and interesting.

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Guess What, America? There Is a Black Middle Class

And You Should Learn How to Speak Its Language

Moses Foster Moses Foster
I don't think it's a leap of logic to assume that many of the misconceptions attributed to minority groups are the result of stereotyping. The power of stereotypes to influence is phenomenally (and disappointingly) impressive. I've seen them blow up the best laid plans of well-educated, experienced professionals, and leave them stammering, backtracking, and chagrined shells of their former selves in a matter of seconds.

That's why I want to shatter one right now.

To all the marketers out there trying to reach us black folks, I'd like to issue this declaration: There is a black middle class.

Experienced marketers everywhere are probably throwing up their arms, shaking their heads, and rolling their eyes right about now. "Thank you, very much, Moses. We're aware of that," they're saying. "The whole black community isn't made up of hip-hoppers. We learned that circa 1999. And then the movie 'Crash' came out and reinforced the point. And isn't that Barack Obama impressive? Yeah, Moses, we got it ... thank you very much."

Hmmm.

Do we? Do we really have it?

Here's why I ask.

A couple of weeks ago I attended a conference. It was full of the kind of intelligent, well-educated business professionals, entrepreneurs and executives I spoke of earlier. After the conference there was a reception, where these professionals traded their business attire in for more leisurely attire, had some drinks and let loose a bit. During the reception my friend Andre and I began conversing with one reception attendee who seemed quite fascinated with us. I entered into a conversation that, believe it or not, we are still having in 2008.

"I expect that you two like white women," was the assertion directed at us by our newfound acquaintance.

I admit to being stunned by the confidence in the declaration. But I was exponentially more interested in hearing the supporting rationale than in catching some attitude at that particular moment.

"Oh yeah? Why's that?" I asked.

"Because you talk white. You're so articulate."

Huh? What? I'm sorry? Run that by me again? Did you just say what I thought you said?

Now let me state for the record that I love all people -- black, white, brown, blue or green. I'm sure Andre feels the same.

But the contention that, because two black men can functionally assemble subjects and predicates, we feel that white women have become our recompense is both a glaringly non-parallel argument and a fundamental misunderstanding of our community.

I implore you as marketers to get it right, even if no one else does.

We have an obligation to know our target audiences, so that these misconceptions don't bleed into our communications and feed the stereotype engine. The results can be disastrous -- both to company's trying to build brands within diverse audiences, as well as young, impressionable members of those diverse audiences whose perceptions are shaped in large part by the messaging that accosts them day to day.

So marketers, heed me now.

It's not a curiosity. There is a vibrant, thriving black-middle class, and we think middle-class thoughts. If you want to reach me with an advertising message, then let's talk about these things:
  • I'm interested in leveraging my education, my career, my background and even my esteemed (according to the conference attendee) oratory skills to increase access for Black people to the tools, resources, and people that are going to help the community. I'd like to hear in your advertisement about how your product helps me do that.

  • I'm interested in improving my lot in life so that I can ensure the people I care about in life are secure. How does your product or company benefit me in that way?

  • I'm interested in helping less fortunate members of the community visualize the possibilities when they think about their future. Can you show me how your offerings help me accomplish this?

  • Believe it or not, the race of my prospective mate didn't crack my "top 10 best thoughts of the day" list.
Yes, America, there is indeed a black middle-class -- and we are quite a fascinating lot indeed.

We can use proper English, fight the compulsion to put rotating rims on our vehicles, and we have a considerable amount of discretionary income that we will employ ... with those that take the time to get to know us.

So the next time you're struggling to root out consumer insights for the big campaign targeted at African Americans, and an articulate black person captures your imagination, you might want to think about it the way Andre put it:

"I don't talk white," he said, "I talk like I've got $100,000 of education invested in me."


Tuesday, April 15, 2008

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