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Original: 4/16/2006 5:21 PM
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Sunday, April 16, 2006
 

so here's the deal, i can't stand loser white guys who think they are hot sh*t because they can get with asian girls. it is even more pathetic that creepy white guys who can't get asian girls or white girls in north america would get tons of action in asia. i feel sorry for our asian fobby counter parts who do not know any better; can't blame the fobby girls who have never been outside of asia. how could they tell the difference between decent white guys who like to learn about different cultures and perverts who pretend to be really cultured so they could get some a**.  although, there are fobby girls out there who are using these guys as well, "ooo..look at me, i have a white bf...teehee."

it never bothered me before when i see white guys with asian girls or white guys telling me their adventures in asia, until my roommate said to me one day, "have you ever thought that those guys have an asian fetish because they couldn't get with white girls?" that comment made me think and it total infuriates me. so are asian girls back ups or second choice for these guys?

yes i'm sure there are lots of white guys, brown guys, persian guys who date asian girls and do not buy into the stereotypes of asian women or they are really into asian cultures. i don't know, i guess i just can't stand the smug looks on those pathetic hicks because they know they could get asian girls cause they are white.

for the record, i've never dated outside the race (not that i have anything against inter-racial dating, i think it is a good thing for society). i just love my asian men.  

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it's regretful that asian fetish exists.....i've grown up with these hicks all my life so i can see your point
Posted 4/16/2006 5:40 PM by WillfromMacon - reply

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I like your post. I'll repost it on my site and link to here. I totally agree with you. It's a matter of bragging rights for white guys -_-;;
Posted 4/16/2006 5:44 PM by tenis_hotshot - reply

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That's right, Asian men kick arse. I think there are so many reasons. I know there are a lot of Asian American women who prefer Caucasian guys, but there is so few Asian men who prefer Caucasian women, it is difficult to explain.

Hicks, now there's a whole 'nother post altogether!
Posted 4/16/2006 5:50 PM by Rander - reply

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i just think its funny how white guys think the worlds nastiest asian girls are actually hot
Posted 4/16/2006 5:57 PM by willisdopeass - reply

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right on...asian guys certainly treat their women right, and i've always enjoyed that fact, that when dating an asian girl we can share our cultural similarities
Posted 4/16/2006 6:29 PM by clipper525 - reply

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i share your anger at the whole asian fetish issue tho i would also raise some other questions

1. suppose that the majority of white men truly just "want to learn about asian cultures", does this fully explain the large discrepancy between the number of (asian men + white women) couples and (white men + asian women) couples? (in some ethnic circles the ratio is as bad as 1 to 6)

2. if not to question one, is it conceivable to think that despite people's best intentions, we all internalize long-standing stereotypes? (white men being more masculine than asian men)

i guess the point i'm trying to make is that even tho some white men may have fully conscious intentions of just being open-minded about dating outside their race, it would be impossible to discount the fact that media and society at large play a large role in affecting their perceptions about beauty. thus, tho i cannot blame white men for finding asian women beautiful in some unconscious way, i know that at the root of attraction, there is probably a sinister cause.
Posted 4/16/2006 6:46 PM by jookyboi - reply

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ur the coolest chick ever.
Posted 4/16/2006 6:53 PM by wushukid - reply

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Good post, katesola. I'm with ya on this one.
Posted 4/16/2006 7:04 PM by seanscheng - reply

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we love you back
Posted 4/16/2006 7:30 PM by j9k1c0 - reply

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wow this is like one of your few personal entries. i like.
Posted 4/16/2006 8:37 PM by johnny_t - reply

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i wish more asian girls were like you...alot of em have white boy fever....
Posted 4/16/2006 8:52 PM by howiestt - reply

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my sister is getting hitched to a white guy... my parents weren't happy about it but what are they gonna do.... i think he's got the fetish.... but not for the wrong reasons.  so thats good.  I hear what youre sayin...
Posted 4/16/2006 9:27 PM by gbread78 - reply

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most of those white dudes are walking around w/ugly ass asian chicks anyway, so i say more power to them... culling the herd is a good thing... leaves the better talent for us Asian brothers... as for those white dudes in Asia walking around w/asian chicks, i'd venture to guess alot of them are professional working girls anyway, so no loss there either.
Posted 4/16/2006 10:05 PM by spicybeefjerky Xanga True Member - reply

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Can non asians actually be interested in Asian culture and NOT be with asian person in terms of relationships. Why is there always more race of MEN than women in asia? How many times have u seen Fobby asian guy with foregin woman? It's always more non asian MEN in asia then women, look at amount of english tutor/teachers in asia


Seems to be in case of race of men, asian women are more of a sex fetish than say black women. Look at porn!

Anyways, if you want to explore this topic come over to modelminority.com site o thefighting44s.com
Posted 4/16/2006 10:25 PM by ric2 - reply

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i completely agree.. i'm also like you, never dated outside my race though I have no problem with it
Posted 4/16/2006 10:31 PM by shortfused - reply

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check this out:
yellow fever by wong fu productions on www.youtube.com

relevant and hilarious parody on asian fetish

Posted 4/17/2006 12:06 AM by gurry - reply

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well... for some reason last week there was a day where everyone i saw was a mixed couple.  i told my friend, "it must be BYAGFD!"  (bring your asian girlfriend day)   I wasn't hating, it was just something i noticed.  i didn't go that many places that day and saw about 8 couples.  within an hour or two.  anyhow... usually what i notice is that those girls usually aren't the type i'd date anyways.  no reason to hate.  

in asia, the women date white men because it's a status symbol... esp. for prostitutes...it means they have a sugar daddy. 

Posted 4/17/2006 12:57 AM by djcaptainzowie Xanga True Member Xanga Lifetime Member - reply

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amen, amen, and AMEN some more. WOW i am so glad that you wrote this! It infuriates me too. I don't really have much of a comment here because you already said everything I would have said. asian girls should not be, EVER, back-ups for ANYONE, and yes I do love my asian men as well.
They just really need to step it up some times and be more assertive, which I admit (on the whole), white guys are better at doing.
Posted 4/17/2006 1:30 AM by ambidreamz - reply

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you are back! glad to hear from you. quite honestly i agree with what you said. i am very glad at least there is an asian girl that understands what asian guys are dealing with. just sucks becuase nice asian guys like us are like losing out on getting the girls. oh well
Posted 4/17/2006 1:31 AM by eriic - reply

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glad you love your asian men xD
i knew i could count on you to have something fresh to read on your xanga other than the usual "school sucks" or "life sucks" kinda deals...

i agree with your post...

i wrote a pretty long comment, but as i continued, i started to ramble, just like my entries.. and then it started to not make any sense... so i just deleted the whole thing...

im just gonna say that i agree lol... i sincerely hope that the reason that white dudes are dating asian girls isn't because they are second prize... though if it is, i really hope that these girls would realize it and think about how it would feel to be treated as first prize... anyway, that prolly doesn't make much sense either... it IS late... i don't really prefer to date outside my race.. not that i was raised like that because i was pretty much raised in white neighborhoods and whatnot... so i know what it's like...

if i had to take my best guess at why white dudes go for asian girls it's because asian girls are exotic... not very common... but of course when everyone has an asian gf it wouldn't be so exotic... therefore, this fad will blow over soon enough and we asian dudes will finally get our women back!! xP hahaha
Posted 4/17/2006 2:53 AM by Poizun - reply

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Why does it have to be a fetish?
Can it not just be a white guy attracted to a girl that happens to be asian.
Let's get in perspective here. How big is asia compared to the world?
Would not the majority of humans in this world (including women :P) then be asian?
That means you got a high percentage of snagging an asian. Even in america. Some places
have a majority of asian. I live in honolulu, hawaii and id say 90% are asian.
Guys use girls and girls use guys. It goes both ways. It has nothing to do with ethnicity. It's just
a sad reality. Im not saying there's not any bastard guys, there are. But there sure are some bastardette girls.

My dad is white and married a chinese. Does that mean he has an asian fetish? Humans are humans. The woman he happened to fall in love with is asian. He didnt choose asian, he chose the woman.

Anyway, who needs white? who needs asian?
Hoppa is the way to go. The best of both sides. :P

Posted 4/17/2006 4:02 AM by h4x0r3d - reply

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What about asian men who have a fetish for white girls?
Posted 4/17/2006 10:44 AM by FLing712 - reply

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Very true.
Posted 4/17/2006 12:38 PM by SOL70 - reply

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"My dad is white and married a chinese. Does that mean he has an asian fetish? Humans are humans. The woman he happened to fall in love with is asian. He didnt choose asian, he chose the woman."-h4x0r3d

Maybe he did. Why is it ALMOST always the women is asian and guy is NOT?
Posted 4/17/2006 1:18 PM by ric2 - reply

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It's all about cycles.  Next, the asian male will be a fetish.  Ooooh yeah!
Posted 4/17/2006 1:47 PM by dkkim - reply

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