I'm in Nashville, TN right now...its amazing! I'm having alot of fun, and I'm sad to think that this is my last year to be apart of FCCLA..oh well I have bigger and better things to look forward to in college...

The hotel is quite beautiful...amazing actually....we've only gotten lost a couple of million times..lol, but everytime is quite the adventure.  Its been a blast!

I got to meet one of my favorite authors today...Justin Lookadoo, author of the book Dateable.He is an exceptional speaker..and his books are wonderful. Today he talked about if we were datable, or the guy we might be with. It was very interesting, very good points, very very good points. He aimed alot at the girls, because us girls seem to get attached easier to guys, which is very true....I found myself doing some thinking, and saying wow I never thought or realized that.

What I learned from Justin...

*No matter what relationship you are in .....It will not last!

*How much you put into a relationship determines how much it will hurt when it ends!

*Girls build fansty worlds around relationships, and everything a guy does, she connects it with the relationship, even if it never meant what she was thinking....example: a guy says, I like this song. A girl interputs it as, well I like the song too, so we must be made for each other, and he wants it as our song.

*If a guy gives you a comment accept it and move it, dont take it to mean more. Example: The guy tells you that you are beautiful, or hot, or sexy....dont make it to mean, that he wants a relationship with you, because the next beautiful, hot, or sexy girl that walks by, he will probably say the exact same thing to her.

*If a guy isnt man enough to ask you out, then he's not good enough to take you out.  Girls shouldnt call the guy first, because if she does she automatically hands over all her power. Wait for the guy to call you, even if it takes three weeks..If he is worth going out with, then it will be worth the wait.

*You have to complete yourself, before you can compliement someone else

*Dating is suppose to be fun....it is suppose to be a safe way to find out what you like and dont like in the opposite sex, to prepare you for your future mate, it also allows you to discover more about yourself....but we tend to invest way to much into every relationship we have, trying to make that certain someone our perfect dream mate, when really the only thing they could be doing is pointing you in the direction of your real future mate.

Welp thats about it for tonight, I still have 200 pages left in his book, so I'm sure I'll be learning much much more! I hope everyone has a wonderful night! Goodnight!

P.S. Kansas Fccla.......You rock! I was so proud to be apart of the Kansas group tonight, at the Relay for Life Rally/Dance!!

Much Love! Karla Kyanne

So I've been doing some thinking...Isn't it crazy how us humans function and how we treat others? 

Ok this is what has been on my mind...How come we wait until someone is dead before we express what they mean to us..I mean why can't we be doing that each and everyday..you know what I mean, we should be totally open and honest to people of what we think of them, and if we really love someone or love something about them, why can't we express that to them, do we really have to wait until we are dead to find out what others really think about us...but wait... then we wont ever find out what they think...

So I guess my challenge is for everyone to start acting like everyone is dead and express to them what they really mean to them...because you never know what will happen...and don't you want people to know how you really feel...you never know, just telling someone that you enjoy being around them, or you think they have a beautiful smile, could maybe brighten their day....we should start bringing out the positives in everyone, then maybe this world would be a happier place.. I know you might be thinking, yeah right thats impossible, but if you try it, and if everyone tried it that visited my site, then I think it would start rubbing off on others, try it, whats there to lose, besides making someone else feel important.  Lots of Love ..Karla

Wow...Thats all I have to say...Keep Praying, God has a reason for what he has done, you just have to trust and believe him..

Here is some scripture to help everyone out:

God is our refuge and strength, always ready to help in times of trouble.  Psalm 46:1

If we share Christ's glory, we must also share his suffering.  Yet, what we suffer now is nothing compared to the glory he will reveal to us later.  Romans 8:17-18

Be strong and courageous! 2 Chronicles 32:7

There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven:  a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot, a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build, a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance, a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them, a time to embrace and a time to refrain, a time to search and a time to give up, a time to keep and a time to throw away, a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak, a time to love and a time to hate, a time for war and a time for peace.   Ecclesiastes 3:1-8