| hullo xanga, haven't written in you for a while....
so this entry is kind of a rant because i need to get this off my chest.
i consider myself a feminist and really have faith in my sex and all, but i HATE it when, for example, you have a debate with guys concerning sexual rights and you feel like you're the only one speaking up. ESPECIALLY when you know for a fact that the other female agrees with you and would have spoken up in private. I really hate it when women acquiesce to a man's opinion, because god forbid if he mistakens her for one of them radical feminists and consequently does not think her cute anymore. I mean, i'll admit, I sometimes do it too (and get really mad at myself when i do). But i think for the most part, i at least try to stand up for myself and my sex, EVEN if it makes me look unfeminine. But honestly, sometimes, i really just don't care about seeming feminine or cute. Like, if you're strong, show it dammit. Like, if you punch a guy on the arm, don't wimp out and pretend that's the best you can do. I mean, maybe i go overboard when i (jokingly) hit guys, but I feel like I have to make up for the countless other feigned punches that women sometimes give.
and also, i really can't stand it when women are sometimes like "me a feminist? do i believe in sexual equality? nononooooo....I want a guy to open my doors and provide for me". Like being a feminist is some sort of disease that you have that wards away all potential suitors. I mean, you don't necessarily have to believe in all the precepts of feminism, but YOU'RE ON OUR TEAM!. It's like, if you're anti-war, you should still support our troops in the sense that you are concerned with their welfare and wish them a speedy and safe return.
I don't want to imply that women in general are by any means solely concerned with finding a man (or woman) or that that is the only reason for not expressing one's opinions. But i think that is the case often enough (because a little part of me feels the same way) where it's kind of a problem. Goodness knows, I am totally guilty of what I condemn. But it doesn't mean I have to be content with that.
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