"Antimonogamy is popping up all over the place. Prime-time television is featuring swinging couples and certain Websites aimed at taken men and women are even promoting the practice of discreet cheating with other attached people."
Tonight as I'm laying in bed going through my normal routine of
checking my facebook/myspace/etc. I suddenly realized how selfish and
lazy I've been lately.
Throughout my teenage years I have always been involved in some kind of
volunteering and/or school club. I'm not an over achiever in any way.
I've never been the person who was involved in every sport and every
club possible but I was always active in something...especially some
kind of volunteering. I may suck at sports but I have a pretty big
heart if I do say so myself.
I'm a busy person. I work full time, go to school part time, do a
couple extra things to make money in the free time that I do have, and
I am really involved at my church but everything I do, except church
activities, is based on me. Even the church activities aren't
enough... those are people who I care about and have relationships
with...it's not much of a reach for me to want to spend time with them.
Make sense?
Lately, I've been searching for some sort of volunteering that I could
at least get involved in on a once a month basis and haven't gotten too
far in my search...haven't done enough searching.
I'm doing some volunteering with the MS Walk near the end of April but
I feel like that's more for me than it is for MS. Not that MS isn't
important but it's not something that my heart really longs to get
involved with...my heart doesn't break for it.
So tonight I was looking at To Write Love On Her Arms, (RED), and
ONE... looking for ways to get involved and the tears just started
flowing. That's what my heart breaks for.
poverty.
Every 3 seconds a child dies from extreme poverty.
And we complain about the car we drive? How we need new clothes? The
restaurant we eat at? The house we live in? How we don't like the food
on our plate?
Feel it yet?
Selfishness. Ungratefulness. Shame.
broken people.
17 million Americans suffer from depression.
2 out of 3 are never treated.
Untreated depression is the leading cause of suicide.
Suicide is the third leading cause of death among young people.
That much pain? That much feeling of unworthiness?
A complete loss of hope.
I can't even begin to imagine that pain.
It breaks my heart.
Love is the movement.
That's the slogan for TWLOHA.
That should be the slogan for your life. I know that might sound cliche
or maybe even lame to you but for real...People are suffering all
around us and we're completely oblivious to both their physical and
spiritual needs.
We need to stop focusing so much on ourselves and start focusing on
those around us. So many of society's problems could be erased if only
we weren't so selfish.
So earlier tonight I was speaking with one of my youth and started to say that he should avoid the appearance of evil. I wanted the actual scripture to back myself up so I did what I always do.. googled it. Upon doing so though I discovered something; that verse is almost always taken out of context.
The verse is found in 1 Thessalonians 5:20-22. Do not put out the Spirit's fire; do not treat prophecies with contempt. Test everything. Hold on to the good. Avoid every kind of evil.
The verse has everything to do with which prophecies to follow and which to avoid. Paul is simply saying to allow prophetic revelations, test them, and then to keep what is good and abstain from those that appear bad. It is constantly taken out of context to mean not to do something just because it may appear evil to another person. It's used when someone has a "Christian rule" they might want so and so to follow but have no scriptural support for.
Obviously we shouldn't disobey God... we shouldn't sin. But are we ever to avoid questionable behavior?