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| alright all, this blog has moved to www.welivenlearn.blogspot.com...simply because the its prettier there...and we can put up pictures without paying
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| Can guys and girls ever maintain a "platonic" relationship? is it ever possible for a guy and a girl to become the closest of friends, and never want to take it further?
to some the answer is yes...the large majority of these people being women, who feel that yes, they can keep emotions out of a "platonic" relationship and it is possible that once you've bulldozed your way through the initial "you could be an option" phase and plunged headlong into the depths of "friendship", the specter of potential passion is left far behind, forgotten and unwanted. true?
where is the emotional boundary that separates friend from lover anyway? are these places in our hearts so far apart that it cannot be bridged? i dont really think so...i can't articulate it, but as much as i like to tell myself that friends are friends and are off limits, somehow i instinctively feel that the two aren't so different after all...we seek the same basic things in friends and lovers: companionship. now before we all blow our tops screaming "Of COURSE they're different!!! we dont look for the same things in our relationships with lovers and 'just friends'!!!" Think about it, we all look for companionship in our relationships with members of the opposite sex, just differing levels of the same... wiht our lover we look for the maximum level of companionship, with other people we look for lesser levels of it. they're not that different!
Then theres what some of us think (mostly guys i feel), that it is simply impossible for two members of the opposite sex to get so close to each other and not want to sleep together! simply put, our primal instincts would never allow such emotional attachment without an infusion of sexual attraction! its basic human/animal instinct! (dont give me any nonsense about us trancending human nature, because its in us all!)
Circumstances have alot to do with whether best guy/girl friends will want to get together too... all of that hogwash on top aside, lets just say that when you have a guy and girl who both have their own significant others, things just arent likely happen...probably because they already have what they would otherwise want from each other in their partners...but given the situation where they're both alone, looking around, begging, pleading...haha sparks can fly...i wont say they will, but watch out! cos thing could definitely happen! its just too easy fall for your best friend, especially when shes hot and oh so nice to you...:)
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| basket. you talk damn a lot wei..hahahaha..i don't even know when to start
i guess it's just how guys are just dumb and they just love being manipulated la. right? hahaha..i bet you know exactly what i mean right? hahaha..it' jsut we're suckers. looking for the perfect way tod o somethign. i think we watch too much tv or somethign. but hell..we're all looking for the perfect relationship with the perfect sometone isn't it?
yes..about the girl guy best friend thing. it's a lose lose thing for the guy la i think. eventually the girl will send the wrong signals to the guy. and being the typical guy..trust me...we fall for all the stupid mistakes ok. any type of stupid little signal and we'll bloody fall right into it la. there's no bloody way we're going to be smart about it. hell...ahhaha..any kind of interpretation is wrong. so the guy always loses. and the girl probably has her own bf stashed somewhere and she won't be happy that her best guy friend is going to leave her for some other girl. it's always the case so you'll never win. really..the guys are just dumb...and probably end up being the best girlfriends bitch in the end. i'm not really blaming the girl but somehow there's no safety net and the line is really difficult to define so..there's no way you're gongi to know. eventually one of the parties is going to get hurt. unless the guy turns out gay or the girl turns out gay as wlel..that'd just be simply aweome. and what is it with guys and gay(extremely hot) women? hahahahahahaha
and once something goes wrong. there's no bloody way things are going to be back to the same way they were. once it's wierd there'll always be this wierdness and it's difficult to ..like overcome that awkwardness afte ra while. so .....guys always ALWAYS end up getting screwd over..hahaa..all my guy friends have got screwed over.i don' tthink there's a snigle guy i know that hasn't been screwed over just yet. mabye cause all my friendsa re nice ppl nd it's difficult to scerw ppl over when you're nice andyou care? hahahaha...i'm not generalizing here..or trying hard not to..but it's...just difficult..once things have changed..there's no way it's going to be back the way it was. and there's alway shistory to contend with. ppl just don't forget. however much they want to. it's never going to be the same again.
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| The bitches probably stick together just because they're of the same feather...It's so much easier to hang out with people you have stuff in common with...But what about the competition theory then? If they're really in competition with each other why would they want to stick together? haha the fat ugly girls around them probably works as affirmation as well, "Yeah i'm good looking, look at her, shes ugly as hell...its awesome that i hang out with her, theres no competition for the guys coming from her!"
About evil manipulative women... haha i want to berate them, but i can't! The fact that i willingly and knowingly subject myself to their manipulations and enjoy the company they bring makes me unable to criticise them. They are working what they have aren't they? Think about it, good looking girl who's been playing you for a rag doll for a couple of months is pissed off that her pet project has gone and messed things up with her... she now wants to go for a movie with you, do you go with it?!?! In full knowledge of the fact that you're just being used as a distraction so she doesn't have to stare at the phone waiting for a call for the next couple of days? Of course! i'm sure as hell not gonna pass up a date with a good looking chick now am i? and i'm fully prepared to put money on saying that any right thinking heterosexual guy would too!
Yes yes, we're being used...but who says thats gotta be a bad thing...?
How bout the best girl friend/guy friend situation...i'm not sure how true this is, but according to a girl i know the best girl friend gets jealous when her guy friend gets with another girl. Apparently this is because she no longer receives the attention guy friend used to lavish on her. She's selfish, she doesn't want him to be with another girl...She also doesn't want to be with him despite knowing that he's liked her since forever, but because he's not her type/ shes got a boyfriend/she doesn't want to ruin what they already have etc.etc... Do all girls want to keep their cake and eat it?
Alright then, here's something else thats come to mind.
"The faster you understand that things will never be the same again, the faster you can move on with your life" -O.C.-
What do you think? Can things ever go back the way they were? or is it true that once the shit hits the ceilling, the stains will never wash out? How many people do you know have had shit happen in their relationship, and then try to keep it going? Why bother?
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| yea..hotness is always associated with being slutty. it's such a bad thing though. but we all like evil slutty girls. don't knwo why. they're just so much better to look at. but all this evil slutty girls always have good looking friends too! hahaha..that's another good reason it's cause they always hang out with good looking friends. but i don't think theyre' really friends with each other cause they knwo the other's a bitch as well. unless they go bitching around together. normally, chun girls have really fat ugly friends. that's why they just look even better..because they have all the ugliness they hang out with that just makes them look even better...hahaha..hm..i had something extra to put down.
but damn..i love girls who give you that little bit of a chance even though you know they're evil. and you just do all sorts of stupid things. hahahah...mann..this situation sounds familiar..HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA | | |
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