Cubs update they suprisingly won again its simply amazing. Zambrano pitched 8 shoutout innings and Lee added to his home run total making it 23. He really should surpass Pujos in the ALL Star voting it is really close if anyone can vote for Derek Lee in the NL All Star Ballot LIKE 50K votes and that isn't much considering there are like 1.8 million already. Go to www.mlb.com to vote thank you. Please vote as many times as you can for the cubbies mostly just Derek Lee you are able to vote as many as 25 times. Patterson made a sensational catch across the field while being aware enough from the tumble to snag a double play. Wood is finally back tommorow and I'm so excited.
I've talked about the fact that I'm a nice guy for a bit now and I've finally figured out why its bad to be what I am which is a non naughty little church boy. Here is the post that people have discussed kinda long but bare with it. Keep in mind that these are actual conversation between real women.
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"I think that perhaps younger women are less interested in a nice guy than an
exciting, bad boy. But that changes once you've been screwed over again and
again. I once had the NICEST guy and I was too immature to appreciate him. I
found him boring. Now I'm married to my "exciting bad boy" and my life is hell.
What I wouldn't give to have my nice guy back and start over. I thought my life
with my nice guy lacked romance and passion, so I left him for a wild, crazy,
passionate bad boy. I didn't realize the "passion" came from drugs and alcohol
and a hideous temper.
Live and learn.
I think nice guys finish last when it comes to "scoring" with women at a younger
age, but they often finish first when it comes to getting married and having a
satisfying one.
I have to agree. When I look around me at all the nice guys I have
passed over for one triviality or another, I am appalled.
The guy I thought was nice, but not attractive enough has lost weight, and now
owns a beautiful home, has a wonderful wife and 3 kids and they all seem so
happy together.
The guy I thought was nice, but too boring (when I was younger) is the guy I'd
kill to have today. He's loyal, he's sweet, he's a wonderful father/husband, has
a beautiful home, his own business. I craved excitement when I was younger, but
now I am older, wiser (??) and more settled, and what was boring to me then is
perfect for me now.
I wanted a party animal when I was young, now I want a stable, mature
individual.
Had date ((DZ) with youngerguy last night (27). He was a perfect gentleman
(except for being 1/2 an hour late). Brought me chocolate. Then took me out to
nice (expensive) dinner and for desert later. We have a lot in common. But poor
guy, he was tripping all over himself to try to please me.
He went to Ivy league schools all the way for EE, so I am guessing he's smart
enough. His mom had him when she was in her 40's...his parents are older.
Do I continue to see him? I want him as a friend, but anything else....is very
questionable. Or should I spare myself the time? He needs training and needs to
learn to relax around women. (He's never had a gf). He world probably make a
really good friend/activities partner (since we have so much in common).
Here, here to that!
I hate "nice" guys (some of them :0) I totally agree that they are really just
passive-aggressive losers that lack the intestinal fortitude to take on certain
leadership roles in rel'ps.
I dated a "nice" guy this summer, who when we went out constantly talked about
how much he hated players, and that the players always get the women by lying
and cheating.
Now that hindsight is 20/20, I feel he was just jealous of their confident aura
(not that I condone player types), but they do have a certain kind of
take-charge confidence. Anyway, down with the
"nice-I-am-really-to-scared-to-do-anthing-else guy" Double Yuck!
I don't want anyone who is going to treat me badly, so in that way "nice guys"
are better. However, I do want a man who is going to take charge-- I can't stand
telling other people what to do. Guys who take initiative and go after what they
want are wonderful--they just get a bad rep because of the players.
Rules behavior should put a nice guy on the pursuit. A nice guy has to be REALLy
into you before he will call. He is nervous and a little scared of rejection,
but remember if he is nervous--that means he cares. Before I next and reject a
nice guy, I give him three dates just to give him a chance to get over being
nervous with a CUAO like me and see if it could go somewhere.
I got a really great boyfriend now, who is a nice guy, but is good looking
enough to be a player. He was a little shy when we first started dating, but
still tried hard to win me over. He wasn't afraid to be romantic and silly when
it really mattered."
THE ENDING OF THE CONVO BTWN WOMEN
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Doesn't it all make lots of freaking sense now. I'll never find a girl thats really into me until I get older since I'm not a bad boy. But I'm not anywhere near ready for marriage shit this really sux now that I think about it. Well there is always room to change and become a bad boy. Hmm
Lately I've been so overwhelmed with babies. Today I had to watch my niece for 3 hours and later give both my niece and nephew baths. My nephew peed all over the wall and on me. (take into consideration he is only 2 months old and he doesnt know what he is doing) Then I played with my little niece and I discovered what its like to be a little kid again no worries about anything. That sure was nice. I couldn't possibly have a greater neice than I have now she is so good and obedient. I can teach her words now. Just the other day my sister said that she was gonna eat my nephew up in 2 bites. So then I said Cinnamon(my 2 yr old niece) oh no mommy is a cannibal. And sure enough she said it mommy is a cann-bal. The look on my sister's face was just priceless I wish I had a camera. Some things like that will always remain hilarious to me.
I updated my music and every so often I'll be adding more songs to it. Make sure that you listen to peanut butter jelly. Hmm I wonder how many I can put on there? Yes there is alot of distrubed why you may ask well its because I love their style of rock and they are from Chicago my hometown and yes I did live in the city northside ghetto of course. Iused to be a wigger before I discovered rock. I still love some of the classic rap I might add them when I get the time. Yesterday I went golfing with my buddy Jeff that was fun. Except for the fact that I totally sucked balls. I"m not even sure if I even got a bogey it was that bad!!! Thats ok I might not be that great at golf but I'l sure as hell beat just about anyone in bowling. I have a unique style never seen before, but it works launching the ball halfway down the lane before it touches down no wait make that 3 quarters of the lane. Anyways after golf I hung out and we played a little basketball and owned him in 21 and we talked about cars because his dad has some definate classics. The only problem is that he can't drive them or no one can because the arent insured. I think that he has a black and red 60 or 70 something cuda, a orange and black old beast which is also sweet and an 1991 Porsche. Damn he could really tear up the streets with those bad boys is they were insured. If I had those classics that his dad has I would actually be considered to be a bad ass which would be sweet that way I'd actually be a chick magnet. But I love my 1997 tan Nissan Altima in all of its glory with 64K anyways. I gotta get some damn sleep wow its later than I thought 4 30 dang. Thats about it for now I'll see all you crazy ass gangstas on the flipside. Peace Homies
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