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| I am gonna switch blog :) I have created this for after marriage life and all. Also i feel my privacy's being invaded by someone, which is quite scary...so, those who wants the link, drop me an email at xtinakoh@gmail.com or IM me in MSN. sorry guys, this is the last time :) | | |
| Our wedding bandwe had NO intention to buy any wedding bands...
After cleaning the room the whole day, and hubby doing work work, around 5pm, we decided to buy 4D and haf a little stroll around causeway point.
Hubby has been glancing at rings, and he seems worried, that i will mind if we dont get a wedding band. i told him i was fine, and if really want it we cud buy it for our banquet...
He still doubted that, hmmm...
So, we went in to look around, and i didnt had any intention to buy... we ended up buying a matching ring, with a little diamond for the bride's ring :)
totally unexpected, but well. thanks dear, for the thought.
now, shoes.... i have to look for one...
Stress.. | | |
| my ROM gownlast night, met up with Sook yee to buy my Daniel Yam gown I was eyeing for. We went to the main boutique at Wisma, and hubby met us there...
In the end, i did not buy the one I wanted, suddenly, the zipper couldn't go pass. :( and on second look, the gown looked quite aunty...
Ended up trying on like, 5 or 6 gowns, and decided on one, chosen by dear and sook yee. It was the same one the mannequin on the display was wearing... I thought the gown was too tight, and wanted those loose type where it doesn't "hug" my stomach.... so that i can "eat" something...now i have to diet abit.... haha
hubby was quite insistent on tt gown and says it looks really nice... and sook yee agreed... so, since he's my husband to be, i decided to buy the gown he chose and he likes....
well, hubby paid for it! Thank u darling... even tho, it doesn't matter who pays cuz ultimately, he's the one managing our cash :p
Well, after thinking thru the night, I have NO regret buying the gown,and hubby was right, the gown is better than the loose gown i wanted! its a long white flowery satin, a little "body hugging" gown. it can be a tube gown, or a speg strap gown.... i haven't decided whether i want the strap or not, it's removable... Simple yet elegant. i love it. hubby does have GREAT taste!
This flowery gown goes well with my flowery necklace and ear rings, which we bought a day before, in jurong point! :) After our dinner,hubby said "let's go to B*Dazzle to look at jewels!" they had stunning jewels.... those affordable types on discount, and under my tight budget :) I ended up, ok, hubby paid for this again, so yeah, ended up buying a flowery ear ring and necklace for only $75!! perfect for me~ :)
I think for our ROM, we're keeping things within my budget so I am quite relieved...
Thank you dear and sook yee for waiting patiently while I try on gowns and give me comments! I love u both to BITS!!!
Sook yee is my best fren since primary sch and she's suppose to give me a surprise on my ROM by hiring a videographer to film my ROM, right from the preparation stage to the end, so on my actual banquet, i can play this video, and keep this for memory... This is like one of the most thoughtful gift i can ever think of... :) but this silly lady, instead of sms-ing my dad to confirm details, she accidentally sms me!!!
So no more surprise.. but... its ur thought tt counts darling, and i am very happy to have a fren like u! *HUGGS*
We caught Get smart after dinner at 145am. ended sleeping at ard 5am...
Now, i need to prepare for my ex colleague's wedding dinner tonight. i cant wait to meet meryl, and the rest of my colleagues from SUN.
alright, better go prepare already :) | | |
| work's getting busier, and my mailbox is going to explode anytime... just by looking at it, i feel like sleeping already. Sigh. But i cant help but blog. Training new hires seem like the last thing I wanna do, because I am doing this on top of my already busy daily chores of replying emails, invoices, reports and more reports... Tsk Anyway, I am quite sick of going out already. All i wanna do these few days is to stay home, put on some good DVD, surf web, clean and tidy our room... i really feel like re-painting our room, and even announced to the whole world I am gonna do so, especially when dear's parents were away to China for a week... The moment they touch down last night, they asked how the painting went... -_-" All i managed to do was to clean our wardrobe and pack unwanted clothes.... that's like 1/10 of the room "cleaning" haha, just thinking about moving the furnitures to paint the room makes me just wanna crawl back onto my bed and sleep. But then, i think mayb i can paint only those visible walls, and heck those walls hidden by the shelves and furnitures? Should I? I think i will this weekend!!!  What COLOR SHOUD I PAINT!? Another thing, we need a vacuum cleaner!!! our room is like a dust pan. so dusty, so full of my hair. I think i drop like a million hair everyday.... the toilet pipe alone with my hair stuck can film a ghost movie... Sigh. i hope i dun get premature hair-loss. So.. yes, from today on, I dont wanna go out shopping on weekends, i wanna revamp our room, clean it... and throw all nonsense. But then this will take money.... sigh.. i've no money.. But this is a good thing right dear? Sigh Sigh Sigh.. | | |
| I've found the perfect gown I've been looking for!!!! However, it was a little tight... I am goiing back this week to Daniel Yam to buy that white dress, it's been calling my name and its haunting me for not bringing it home!! 
Anyway, I would like to say sorry to dearie... I did not plan anything at all on his birthday.... i was so preoccupied with... work, and ROM... it kinda took a backseat. Let alone, i had 4 full day, plus half the morning on his actual birthday to plan sumthing, but i did not....
We went to vivocity, had lunch at whitedog cafe, and when i brought him to buy movie ticket at gold class cinema, the place was full!!!!! :*(
we ended up watching sex and the city in a normal cinema... and after that, I tried on gowns.... and went to his student's chalet for BBQ.
Today, we had some serious talk on our career and marriage... when he mentioned, that he was alittle disappointed, and was hoping i had a little surprise for him on his bday... he kept hoping secretly the whole day... and till the point when we arrived home, he even thought I will have a cake hiding somewhere to surprise him... I did not even cut a cake for him... he is right, i took it for granted. i was so selfish, and so thoughtless.... he tot i did not love him anymore and thought twice.
Sigh.... i seriously do not know what i was thinking... now to think of it, i think, it hurts.... and i know i've hurt him alot... especially on his special day.... i am truly sorry darling... and as promised with our pinkies, I will promise, that this will NEVER EVER happen for the rest of our lives together.... i love you, and i really took u for granted, i am sorry.. :(
This aside, hubby mentioned something very painful, that it broke my heart. He said, "one day if u leave me, do u know I will never receive a cent? its not that it bothers me, but the fact that most of the things u do, only seems to be for urself, and not for me... "
I was shocked, i told him "but, if we're married, wont my insurances belong to you dear?" and he replied. yes, legally it does, but if i choose to leave him, like just leave.. he will not have the rights. hmm... this left a huge question mark on me...
I have always thought dear did not mind... and i never had any intention to leave him... I never knew he had his doubts due to my life-style... alittle not caring towards other's feeling, especially my loved ones... cuz i always take them for granted...
Well darling, i have to tell you, u shud haf faith on me, you have given me so much faith to believe in u... i have never sensed your insecurity. my family means alot to me, yes, but this means, i treasure my family alot.... in other word, once we're married, OUR own little beautiful family, will be my only priority.
we are not married yet, but soon... once we are married, you're gonna be my partner and soul mate for the rest of our lives... of cuz, my priorties change...
I am happy, we had a good talk today, i am happy u have opened up to share your fears for our future.
But i can promise u, i do not believe in divorce, whether ur rich or poor, whether ur crippled, whether we have to lose the car or lose all of our cash, i have to work day and night, etc etc... I will be your wife faithfully and give you the love no one else have ever given you.
I will go all the day with u thru thick and thin, and i am very sure, we will be successful, not on wealth but, we will be full of wealth with our love dear.
I love u to bits, and i am so excited to spend the rest of our lives together.
Love you :)
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