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Original: 9/25/2007 6:05 AM
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Tuesday, September 25, 2007
 

Grave

My aunt and uncle's grave is walking distance from the hotel. 

The large sign at the side gate says NO JOGGING.  Descending past fields of stones into the main complex, I join the river of tourists.  At the visitor's center, the computer monitor (the interface glows somber in faux marble) asks for the last name.  A map prints smoothly.  The lady at the information booth asks twice if it is okay to write on my map, before tracing a bright hi-lighter line from Here to There. Even so, I wander confused in several parking lots before finding the path.

My uncle's stone bears the only Unitarian Universalist symbol in a sea of crosses, barring his neighbor two down on the left (deceased 11 days prior) who has a Star of David.  My aunt, named on my uncle's reverse, is called "Louisa B, His Wife."

Rush hour susurrates over the wall.  The obelisk across the river, outlined by a westering sun, is visible from the grave.  Squirrels cavort on stones and birds freewheel above.  Over the next hill rises an unfamiliar monument: three arching pinnacles, contrails in stone. 

I call my father on my Blackberry to say that I am sitting on his sister's grave and that it is peaceful and beautiful.  He talks for a long time about a family matter.  We rehash ground that we have gone over before.  He predicts a grim future.  I say I believe in a bright tomorrow.

The sun twinkles, slips, disappears.  A vast white moon sails up, casting the obelisk into blue relief.

We end our call.  I rise, and pause (not jogging), six feet over.

 Posted 9/25/2007 6:05 AM - 8 comments

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(author's apologies about the loss of earlier comments. comes of trying to modify a blog via blackberry....:-o)
Posted 9/25/2007 9:11 PM by lovingmy40s Xanga Premium Member - reply

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I needed some peace this morning. This carefully crafted recall of the cemetary helped me immensely. Thanks. Blessings abound
Posted 9/26/2007 9:20 AM by epeemom Xanga Premium Member - reply

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Posted 9/26/2007 9:41 AM by quiltnmomi Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - reply

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I know that this is completely self-centered, especially given the content of the blog, but--why don't you do give us your particular assemblage of 26 letters more often? 

And don't blame the Blackberry.  I'm taking that voucher away before you can even think of redeeming it. 

Posted 9/30/2007 12:18 AM by Landlubber Xanga Lifetime Member - reply

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I'm glad you found some peace by going there.  I have not yet been able to go to my parent's graves.  I'm sure that sounds odd, but I just cannot bring myself to go. 
Posted 10/8/2007 2:44 PM by beachcomber - reply

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Beautiful writing. (and yes, I'm procrastinating. It was so nice to find that you had written something new that I could read).
Posted 10/14/2007 11:08 AM by WaitingForEpiphany - reply

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susurrates.

love those onomatopoeia-ic words.

Posted 10/24/2007 11:06 PM by MyKi_Whatzerface - reply

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Now that you mention it, I recall that, yes, we both have UU roots.
Posted 11/14/2007 6:33 AM by twoberry Xanga True Member Xanga Lifetime Member - reply


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