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Saturday, September 06, 2008

Sat, 06 Sep 2008 14:19:12 GMT

being a copycat again with these 2 pieces of articles

我愛他更多一些

不止一次被人問：「找一個我愛他更多，還是他愛我更多的人比較幸福？」
如果這是一個非此即彼的選擇，那麼，我的答案是前者。
但是，事實上這個問題本身是一個陷阱，很容易導人誤會。而且，通常問這個問題的都是剛剛結束了一場失敗的戀愛，愛得灰頭土臉的人。他們急於尋求的不是幸福，而是一張可以讓他們坐下來休息一會再上路的椅子。因為椅子太舒服，他們中的很大一部分人就直接把椅子視作「幸福」了。
而且，他們所說的誰愛誰更多，其實就是誰更服從誰，誰是二人世界中那個皇帝，即使裸身子，另一個人也願意昧良心讚那件不存在的衣服精緻華麗。
這種「愛」，跟「幸福」之間有甚麼必然關係呢？
如果你身後跟一個人，那個人以你的意志為意志，對你言聽計從，千依百順，你皺一皺眉頭，他不敢吭氣，而你居然還覺得自己很幸福，那麼，你是一個母親，繞在你膝下的，是承歡的孝子。
所以，我寧願選擇一個我愛他更多一點點的人，跟我自己喜歡的人在一起，我才會覺得幸福；跟一個沒有主見，或不敢有主見，只懂得一味奉承我的人在一起，久而久之，只會令我厭惡，或者鄙夷，有何幸福可言？
因為我愛他更多一點點，所以我望向他的眼神通常帶一點點欣羨；因為我愛他更多一點點，所以我的腳步通常不敢放慢，某一天，甚至能跑在他前面，至少，跟他比肩 … …

2.在網上看到的一篇文章，相信真的有不少人對這個問題存有疑問。

中學辯論題目：男與女之間，有純友誼存在嗎？

* 同所有辯論題目一樣，是沒有答案的。
* 你大概也有一兩個異性好朋友/知己，可能在讀書時就已認識，十幾年來有甚麼大事發生，都是他/她聽你哭聽你訴，而如果你有事，不管是喜是悲，也會想第一時間讓他/她知道。他/她甚至跟你的家人都很熟，大家去飲茶時侍應都會以為他/她是你媽的女婿/新抱。
* 這是愛情嗎？跟他/她一起走下去不是很好嗎？「沒可能呢！我們太熟了，心底裡太清楚跟對方只可以是朋友。」你說。　　

的確，這個問題沒有答案，所有的都是主觀的意見。　　　　
有些人會覺得男女之間總是存在某些情愫，才會一直對對方這麼好。以好朋友／知己定位，為的只是一直在對方身邊。因為怕一旦變成情侶，很快就會失去他／她。　　
而有些人則覺得，和對方永遠只有好朋友的關係。不論身邊的伴侶怎樣變更，他／她亦只能站在好朋友的位置，替自己分憂、為自己出謀略。　　
擁有知己並不是一個問題，問題是，你如何在兩者之間找得平衡。　　　　
你，有否為過自已另一半的知己，打翻醋罈？　　
而你的處理方法又是怎樣？　　
大多人會強逼自己另一半去與知己劃清界線，限制他們見面？甚至以分手相脅？　　
這種人很自私，為什麼？因為他／她自己也做不到，卻憑什麼去要求別人做到？　　
有少部份的人會抱相信另一半的態度，但心底都仍是抱著一絲的懷疑。猶如一個計時炸彈，終有一天，會爆發，那時候引發起更大的問題。　　
可是人就是這樣，所有事都只想到自己的感受，不常從別人的角度出發。要求別人達到某些條件，做到某樣事情，但自己卻在相同的問題犯錯。　　
換個角度想想，如果另一半要求你和知己保持距離時。你的反應是什麼？

Friday, September 05, 2008

Fri, 05 Sep 2008 16:27:57 GMT

"塵世的朋友痴拿膠線
同一個夢鄉捧一個燒肉"

單單是"張如城"e個名已經夠殺死人
再加上"友誼的光彩"..已經係100分

但原來...歌詞既真正意思係....請睇片

章魚城
有耳的棺材 (第4版)

吐既達吐既達吐既打

我們約定撩你捱捱到北京
北京歐元生火撐那鴛鴦

有耳的棺材已經解凍我的屍
我派的膠歌撐住我心中屎穴

撐住東方竹竹撐馬賓痕更沒力更沒力
撐出牆角喊爆乾屍鏟出人命躍交融

你隊我我隊你膠歌
中國人中港線于亞賣π

五千年的塵災五千年的棺材
胡適哄廁迎風飛丫塵州大地輾剪腎腰
震憤胡胡死海腥冠希

吐既達吐既達吐既打

塵世的朋友痴拿膠線
同一個夢鄉捧一個燒肉

火咩花命把烈屎
奧蓮僻奧蓮僻

弱力地撐你怎可說出老娘子
怪客不怪有耳萬歲
弱力地罩不論你來自何方

北京咬魚送火我不要要
你和你的抄麵
今天不回家賤野不會奶
我哀你一齊來

我的竹裹用完用完
散發魅力過河好嗎

Friday, September 05, 2008

Fri, 05 Sep 2008 15:46:59 GMT

我最喜愛兒歌!!

Friday, September 05, 2008

Fri, 05 Sep 2008 15:45:58 GMT

R.I.P.

Brave fireman Chan Siu-lung laid to res
(09-05 13:07)
Fireman Chan Siu-lung, who died after rescuing scores of people in the Cornwall Court blaze on August 10, was interred at Gallant Garden. His helmet was buried with his body.

The funeral service was attended by dozens of relatives, friends and colleagues.
The service, which was conducted with full honors for Chan, drew members of the public and government heads.

Six of his classmates in fire services training school were his pallbearers.

Secretary for Security Ambrose Lee Siu-kwong, Commissioner of Police Tang King-shing and several Executive Council members paid their tribute to Chan at Universal Funeral Parlour this morning morning.

The hearse left the funeral home at 10:30 and headed to Cornwall Court where he served his last mission.

Thursday, September 04, 2008

Thu, 04 Sep 2008 01:03:47 GMT

你又做過邊幾樣﹖

男人最鍾意背住女人做咩﹖    作者: 黃貽興

女人最不能接受的事實是: 男人背著你是另一個人，網上是另一個人，女同事面前是另一個人，舊情人面前又是另一個人。
沒有一個女人能完全看清男人的全部面向，尤其是老婆。

因為通常老婆都只看到老公好的那部份，陽光照射不到的陰暗位，只有見不得光的身份，例如情婦二奶第三者，才能鉅細無遺看的見。
因此，這位置的女人，才比較立體而全面地看到這個男人的好與壞，而教她們著迷﹑不捨得離開的，就是因為男人的時好時壞。

有時候，當第三者，並不因為這位置風光獨好，不過是景觀較開揚罷了。在這位置，男人背住女人做的事，她們都比較能看的見。

1. 打飛機一定會做的事。太重要了，所以放在最頭。男人不明白，為什麼同居女友或妻子那麼討厭﹑抗拒他們背著她偷偷打飛機。
           對女人來說，這是側面質疑她們的吸引力和重要性的有力證明，但對男人來說，打飛機和打機，其實都很像，不過是用來打發時間和減壓罷了。

2. 跟ex聯絡十個男人九個背著女人都會做的事。msn又好，見面都好；主動又好，被動都好……打飛機也許還能忍，但跟ex聯絡這心癮，實在無法抗拒。

3. 喪打機女人問男人做咩無精神，尋晚唔係一齊收線訓覺咩﹖男人支支吾吾，查實收左線偷偷開機打，爆唔到死唔熄機，咪天光囉。
           打機乃男人情意結，死症。冇得講。

4. 玩電器男人對機器的耐性比女人好，能長時間沉迷其中。不管是玩相機﹑Hi Fi﹑煲碟﹑電腦或者任何能入電的東西，摸來搞去，樂此不疲。

5. 睇鹹帶無論有冇受過高等教育﹑本身質素高低，或者性生活正唔正常﹑滿唔滿意，男人都鍾意無無聊click上鹹網睇，素人自拍﹑明星走光……

6. 玩公仔大把麻甩鍾意拎住d萌系公仔著衫除衫又摸又砌，扭蛋又好figure又好，如癡如醉，對住女友都冇咁溫柔，嚇死。

7. 翻睇周星馳次次睇親都比女友嫌，但男人其實好鍾意自己一支公無無聊睇返周星馳d舊戲。但女人每次見到都會鄙視地「唼」一聲，同埋話男人白癡。
               女人唔明男人點解成日翻睇周星馳，男人都唔明女人點解成日翻煲《Sex

and the City》。

8. 人體奧妙展冇女人響身邊，男人好鍾意盡情un腳﹑兀凳﹑唔著拖鞋四圍踩﹑唔沖廁唔洗手跟手仲拎野食。
               男人一個人既時候好鍾意用手指搣下鬍鬚，唔俾女人幫佢擠背脊既暗瘡，但就自己用手亂擠酒米。

9. 做壞事 sms同異性flirting﹑偷會第三者﹑扮單身約女同事﹑朋友或者網友出黎食飯睇戲，都係男人背住女人會做既事。
           部份低質素男人好鍾意偷偷骨唱邪K北上跳舞甚至叫雞。驚未﹖

10. 咩都唔做基本上男人背住女人最鍾意做又最多做既，就係咩都唔做﹑發呆﹑攤屍。

              男人唔明，點解女人一知道男人無野做一得閒就default要陪佢，唔陪就係罪。
              所以男人欺欺瞞瞞，可能都只係為左可以咩都唔做，咩都唔諗。難得清靜。

Tuesday, September 02, 2008

Tue, 02 Sep 2008 01:50:33 GMT

後奧運年代之食字王

Monday, September 01, 2008

Mon, 01 Sep 2008 10:58:32 GMT

Dear students and colleagues,

The Chief Executive of the HKSAR Government, Mr Donald Tsang, will be coming to our campus to meet with you all, prior to preparing his annual Policy Address in October - the HK equivalent of Mainland China's Government's Work Report to the
National People's Congress, or the US's State of the Union Address.

As far as we know, HKUST is the only university chosen for this purpose this year. For about 90 minutes, members of this university will have the undivided attention of our Chief Executive. It is your chance to make your voice heard on matters of importance not only to this university but also to the entire community. It is also an uncommon and valuable part of university experience.

Details of the consultation session are as follows:

Date:     Monday 8 September 2008
Time:     4:00 pm - 5:30 pm
Venue:    Citigroup Lecture Theater (LT-A)
Language: English

Friday, August 29, 2008

Fri, 29 Aug 2008 15:32:40 GMT

two pieces of news..so touching

1.Mong Kok firemen awarded highest bravery medal
(08-29 12:03)
The two firemen who lost their lives rescuing residents trapped inside the blaze at Cornwall Court in Mong Kok have been awarded the Medal for Bravery (Gold) .

Senior fireman Siu Wing-fong and fireman Chan Siu-lung were posthumously awarded the medals in recognition of their bravery and sacrifice, said a government statement issued after mid-night.

The awards will be to the relatives of the departed at the annual Honors and Awards Presentation Ceremony in October.

Always respect to the firemen!!

2.Urgent checks on old trees after teen death

Friday, August 29, 2008

The city's more than 400 old trees are being given a thorough checkup after a century-old tree collapsed and killed a 19-year-old university student on Wednesday.

The Leisure and Cultural Services Department will try to identify trees with potential danger as soon as possible after the 23-meter coral tree at Stanley Main Market killed Kitty Chong Chung- yin, who had just been admitted to Hong Kong University's business faculty.

Officials went to San Po Kong yesterday to check two coral trees.

Leaves were collected for later examination while special X-ray scanners were used to see whether the trees are solid or hollowed out by tree- boring insects.

In Stanley, the department's tree and landscape team worked overnight to remove the killer tree. They cut the trunk into sections, marking every piece before transporting it for examination.

Hordes of ants were seen fleeing from a hole in the decomposed fallen trunk.

Most shops on Stanley Main Street near where Chong was killed remained closed yesterday.

A shopowner said he expects to lose thousands of dollars in the next few days.

An elderly woman surnamed Sin said she had been complaining to the government about falling branches of two nearby longan trees over the past seven years but her complaints were ignored.

South District councillor Lee Pui-ying said residents have complained about the foul smell emanating from other trees in the vicinity.

Residents performed rituals for Chong at the scene yesterda

Cheung Yu-sang, leisure manager (tree/landscape), said an initial examination ruled out a rotten trunk as the reason for the collapse.

"It was an upper branch of the tree that collapsed," Cheung said.

The department, or the government, might be held responsible for the teenager's death and may be liable for compensation to the victim's family if pursued in court.

Barrister Albert Luk Wai-hung said the family could sue the department for negligence since it is responsible for managing and maintaining trees.

The department has said it had completed a detailed inspection of the tree.

"It would be a matter for the courts to decide how much the department is responsible, getting evidence from people such as tree experts, or whether the collapse had anything to do with Severe Tropical Storm Nuri, " Luk said.

He said the family might be entitled to substantial damages if the case goes to the court, as the young woman would have been expected to have a bright future.

Chong was a student of St Paul's Convent School in Causeway Bay. Her friends left messages on her Facebook page expressing shock and grief over her tragic death.

reading this news..thinking of roy..world is so..

enjoy every moment that we have

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Wed, 27 Aug 2008 12:43:33 GMT

瑤瑤e張相,個表情非常吸引

fred perry x china,得個睇字

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Tue, 26 Aug 2008 16:17:50 GMT

聾貓,真係笑到嘔血