| So you know what I hate? People. Not everyone, just a select few who just do the little things that annoy me to no end. Or I guess I should say, the people who don't do the little things. Such as, calling you back. Seriously, how hard is that? I haven't seen this one friend of mine barely at all since they left for college, and they have been out of school since May, and they promised we would hang out. Have we? I think not. And you know the conclusion I've come to about why we haven't hung out?? Because this person has gotten a boyfriend, and now I've been pushed to the side like I don't even matter.
Which brings me to the next thing that irks me. "Friends" who choose boys over their best friends whom they have known for a much longer time. Seriously, has no one ever heard of 'Ho's over Bro's" or "Chicks over Dicks" ?? Honestly, boys will come and go, but your friends are supposed to be the ones that are there for you. But how can they be there for you when don't put them first. Now, I'm not saying having a boyfriend is a sin or whatever, but there's a line that you just shouldn't cross. Like, if you and your friends have been making plans to do something for weeks, and then you suddenly bail because you would much rather hang out with your guy of the week, then you've def. crossed that line.
Or another line you shouldn't cross, messing around with a guy one of your 'best friends' still had feelings for. At least if you're going to cross that line, be honest about it. That's another thing I cannot stand! If I ask you a question, and you lie about it, straight to my face, and I find out that you lied to me, how can I trust you again? Honesty is the best policy. Now people will try to contradict me and tell me that I have lied to them before, but that wouldn't be true, because if you ask me a question I don't want to answer, I will either ignore you and pretend I didn't hear it, or tell you I don't want to answer it. I would never lie to you straight to your face, because that is so unforgivably rude.
And back to the messing around with a guy your friend had feelings for situation. Please people, have enough respect for your friend to ask them if they are okay with it. Like in my case, I still had major feelings for the person in question, yet this friend of mine just moved in on him like a vulture, then proceeded to try and turn it around on me and be like, "Well you did the same thing to me when I like him first." Which is complete and utter bullshit because I checked with both people and made sure there were no feelings. Cause I'm a good friend like that. And once I mentioned this, I got the whole "Well I thought you liked someone else" routine. Well, next time, don't assume, ASK. A little three letter word seems so difficult for some people to act apon. How hard would it have been for you to simply ask me if I like this other person? Or even ask if the feelings I had for the person you are now fooling around with are still there, or if it would be okay for you to like them. And even if I didn't have feelings for that person anymore, God, couldn't you at least wait a month before honing in on them?
Goodness, I love ranting to no end. But I just need to get it out sometimes, and since people don't read this anyway, I figure why not get it all out on this gay thing. I'm done |
