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Tuesday, January 29, 2008

Long Time no see

I realized that I have not written in this thing for over two years. Hi Theresa and Jessica! Thanks for the reminder that I even had one...yikes..life gets busy.  So, I suppose I should recap what I've been doing in the last two years.

1. Working, working, working
2. Dated one very young guy (born in the 80's...good lord!)  Needless to say, that didn't work out. And chemistry that we had imploded.  Still better to try, than to wonder, right?
3. Best friend got married (awesome wedding) with a guy that is awesome. Another friend from college got married.
4. Travel - Spent a summer in Vermont at a music festival and ate ice-cream everyday (including Blueberry ice-cream..) so tasty! Went to Vegas/LA to celebrate a friend's bday
5. Hanging out with friends

I think the last one is most important, because it really does take effort to maintain friendships.  Yes, we get caught up in the everyday stuff, but in the end, when we're about to go...what would you say was the most important thing? Friends and family I think.  I suppose there has to be a good balance, because while your job shouldn't define you, it's definitely giving your life some shape.  For instance, I'm not the kind of person that goes into something and wanting to do it half-assed.  If I'm gonna do it, I'm gonna do it to the best of my ability, which is one of my philosophies in teaching.

Yet, you have to keep a good balance (which I need to work on).  It's so easy to get sucked into all that stuff right?  Well ladies, having your cake and eating it too is a balancing act, and works in stages, at least that's what I'm thinking for the time being.

I guess now being in my 30's, the only thing that is annoying is the relatives that keep asking "when are you getting married?"  I don't understand why that is 1. Any of their business 2. Of the utmost importance in what they see as criteria in being a success

I'm sure many of you have been experience that line of questioning
ARE YOU MARRIED?
                   In which you reply
1.Yes (how wonderful!) When are you having kids? 
or
2. No (which is followed by "Why not?  Are you dating someone? I know someone from my church who's such a nice boy"...yea..nice fucking mama's boy. no thanx

I'm sorry..let me list the guys that people have been trying to set me up with guys
1. A dude who was so short (I was looking down on him when I stood up...really not good!)  Kinda square
2. A colorectal doctor who resembled Mr. Clean and made me feel like I was on a job interview. So pretentious
3. A bible-thumping dude..who has a whole blog about being a good Christian

Ok.it's not that I have any issues with people who have faith..but please don't try to shove it down my throat.  And anyone who knows me well enough knows that I'm just not into church at the moment (try the last 10 years).
I got this great book, called "Even God is single, so stop giving me a hard time"

Here are some great come-backs for those relatives that keep peskering you
1. Married people are not necessarily better catches simply because they were caught. I mean, have you taken a look at some of the married people out there? Hitler got married. Frankenstein got married. Linda Tripp got married. Obviously married people are not superior people.
2. Why limit myself to being dissatisfied by one relationship, when I can be dissatisfied by an infinite variety?
3. Many fabulous things don't come in pairs...i.e. the Hope diamond
4. Statistics - More than 50% of marriages end in divorce.  Stats also show that married men are happier than single men while single women are happier than married men.
5. Also women outlive guys..so even if we were to get married..we'd probably outlive them anyhow.

So..don't feel bad about waiting for 'the one' or more than one. ok..that concludes my rant for the day.


Sunday, October 23, 2005

Just returned from my trip from Europe.  First kicked it off in Amsterdam, which is a beautiful city full of canals and very bike-friendly (if you like to bike). You can rent them for 9Euro for 3 hours from MacBike from the Central Train Station.  My friend Sunny and I biked along an area where they have housing development which is really beautiful.  The Dutch really appreciate aesthetic beauty and design in everyday life.  The flowers and plants were of course, gorgeous.  We took a canal tour, stopped by the Van Gogh Museum, and basically just walked around a lot.  oh, we went to a concert hall that promotes contemporary music, which is right on the water.  Very beautiful, yet stark building.  We had dinner there one night, and I have to say..the service really sucked.  The waiters basically ignored us, and when we flagged one down..they'd stop by for 2 seconds and try to pass us to someone else. It took 1/2 an hour for someone to take down our order..ridiculous. 

Things to try in Amsterdam 1. Renting a bike and go around 2. If you're into that 'stuff', it's easily accessible..I personally wasn't interested 3. They all speak English, so you can get around very easily

Things not to try in Amsterdam 1.  The waffles..they're dense and more like cookies than the waffles that we have in the states (they're very gross) 2. Walking around the red light district if you don't want to be bothered by men walking around with too much testosterone

Prague...We took a train from Amsterdam and went to Dortmund Germany, where we caught a 39E one-ticket on Easy Jet (and enjoyed soup & hot chocolate outside in a restaurant overlooking the runway).

Tip..when you're taking a train, if you want to go with unreserved seats, look for the placard above the seats to make sure that it's blank.  That means that you can sit there.  If you see a ticket, or destination on the computer screen, sit elsewhere, or you'll eventually be kicked off.

Prague was really really beautiful...gorgeous buildings, cobblestone.  We stayed at the Travelor's Hostel which was right by the city centre. I swear I felt like it was haunted haha.  Well, they say that Prague is one of the most haunted cities in Europe.  Anyhow..we stayed on the 5th floor.  I'm personally used to staying in hotels/motels, so this was a bit of different experience for me (esp the bathroom/showering situation..it was like being in the dorms..didn't like the bathroom...a little sketchy).  The rooms were nice though..we had our own room.  I can't remember the price offhand, but it was like $20 US dollars or so a night.  Very convenient.  We tried goulash yummy, and bought some things at Gourmand, a cute French place (smoked salmon on croissant..yummy!) and brought that to the Prague Castle.   The walk across the Charles Bridge was amazing..and very picturesque (did I spell that right?).  And trust me, you need at least half a day to look at the castle.

The main church/cathedral is of the Gothic style, with high buttresses, and it's mindboggling to imagine people actually building it.  We went up the South Tower (good lord..it was round and round in circles for what seemed to be an eternity).  On the way down, I counted 284 stairs..but the view from the top was amazing.  You have a 360 degree view of the entire city.  And man..do NOT look down if you're scared of heights. 

Went to the Mucha museum (big in Art Deco, and his illustrations appear in the Wizard of Oz series) the next day and had the best sausage..with mustard..it was SOOOOO good.  And of course, coffee and shopping.  The bookstores there are very cool, and some stores sell prints and etchings that are really wonderful and beautiful.  Such a beautiful city. Oh also watched a chamber music concert of a pianotrio.  Wasn't really impressed by this group that won the Brahms competition.  The violinist and cellist wore leather pants..yuck. Not pleasant on the eyes.   Worst of all is that they had no tone..meaning color while they played. Absolutely not sensitive to touch (and man, the violinist would vibrate on his 4th finger and not his others) while the pianist just pounded away...as you know Europeans champion themselves on having the best musicians in the world..well, let me just tell you that we have plenty of extraordinary musicians from the States as well..(that played even better than this trio).  I almost left after the 1st piece (mozart), but I figured that it would be rude..so I stayed..argh..my ears.

What to see 1. The Prague Castle and the Charles Bridge 2. Walk around everywhere and explore all the nooks and crannies 3. If you have a chance and you can take a tour of the countryside, I would do that (next time) 4.  The czech food is yummy and totally affordable.  Our dinners would average $7-10 for the maincourse for hugeass portions. 5. Haggle over prices for the crystal vases..it's so much fun! 

Then the train ride from Amsterdam to Dresden was breathtaking.  I really recommend doing this (although we had two of the most smelliest dirtiest English dudes who btw were ugly that came and sat in our car). I thought I was gonna die as they chomped on their potato chips and one of them let out a godawful fart...silent and frickin deadly!  The houses in the Czech republic are soooo cute and charming and the river had the morning mist coming off of it..and they had apple and pear trees dotted everywhere.

The scenery changed a bit when crossed over into the Germany.  The houses looked different, although it was still quite beautiful.  We ended up at the train station in Dresden and stayed at the Ibis hotel.  Lunched on some huge sausages...I'm such a fan of hot dogs, so I was completely happy, and plus they're filling and cheap!  We walked around and stopped by the palace there.  Basically the whole city with the exception of a few buildings were dessimated in the bombing of the city in WWII.  The palace is black with soot, although they are going through a renovation process right now in preparation from some centenniel celebration next year.  We walked over the Japanese Palais, but there was nothing Japanese about it.  They were actually having an exhibit on 100 years of sex.  The flyer had a picture of a pot with a man screwing a lady doggy style.  yes, very graphic, and we were like..uh, no that's ok.  For dinner, we got an amazing fruit salad at the mall (1.5 E) and sausage and spaetzle (it's like a German handmade pasta) (7.4E). 

Then back to America I went..wow.  Need to go explore Germany some more, it's very picturesque, and I can't really describe it so well with words.  I'll let you know when I get my pics downloaded.  Ciao..and back to the real world! argh 


Thursday, September 01, 2005

ok..u can check out the guy that i was 'dating' or whatever it was from argento www.argentomusic.org   Tell me who you think it was...=)


Tuesday, August 30, 2005

My friend is performing at Merkin Hall in NYC with his new music ensemble called Argento.   If you're interested in listening to something other than Beethoven/Mahler, go have a listen and bring your friends..the more then merrier..  Hope you guys can go, since I can't. =)

Saturday, September 10 at 8:30 pm

Argento New Music

Performing at Merkin Hall, NYC - 129 - W. 67st. between Broadway + Amsterdam ave.

Admission $1201 - 3330


Wednesday, July 27, 2005

http://www.historyplace.com/worldhistory/genocide/rwanda.htm

I found this to be an informative link about the history of Rwanda.  My friend just returned from her internship for the UN in Tanzania on the Rwandan War Tribunals.  You can read some of her adventures on some previous entries that I've written.  In any case..I'm glad that she's home safe.  



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