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Name: Miz Fixit
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Sunday, June 25, 2006

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xoxoxo Miz Fixit


Distant Dude

Dear Miz Fixit,

Well, my boyfriend and I have been going out since June 7th and I call him and whenever I do he always says he will call me back after like 2 seconds of even talking to him+he doesn't even call back!!! then i ask him to come over sometimes and he always tells me he can't even though he lives pretty close to me! What can I do to bring us closer as a couple??

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It takes two to tango, and it looks like you may be dancing alone.  You can call him and invite him over as much as you want, but unless he makes an effort to keep the relationship going, it won't do any good.  Both of you need to work at it.

But maybe he really does have a lot of things to do.  Is he a fairly busy person?  If so, then you can't be angry at him for holding up to his commitments.  Next time he says he's busy, find out what it is he's doing.  If its a family or work thing, then leave it alone.  But if he's blowing you off to hang out with his friends, then ask if you can join him.

The two of you need to spend some time together in order to keep your relationship alive.  That doesn't mean every waking second, but you have to have open communication and catch up with each other's lives.

Try to get him to spend more time with you, and if that doesn't work talk to him and tell him what's on your mind.  But if he's still distant, I would recomend finding someone willing to put a little more effort into his girlfriend.

Good luck!
xoxoxo Miz Fixit


Monday, June 12, 2006

Mixxed Signals

heyy mz.fizit.

well i like this boy who is so confusingg.like he always gives me mized signals that makes me think he likes me.he says he only loves me as a friend but i know its something more you know?but i dont know if he likes me.he is just so confusing.he was giving me a dortyy look fridayy & i was like wtf? and todayy i ignored himm & he doesnt make the situation any better.how can i know he likes me back or loves me as a friend only or if he is just pms'ing? lol

-dhara
 
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Dear dhara,
 
The best way to find out is to ask.  Talk to him and ask if he wants to hang out some time.  Or talk to his friends and see what's up.  Send out the vibe that you like him.  Flirt.  If he knows that you're interested, then maybe he'll get the hint and make a move.
 
Good luck!
xoxoxo Miz Fixit


The Direct Approach

Dear Miz Fixit,

hey it's me again..today i asked his friend if he knew anything about pey liking somebody and then he smiled and said 'for u?' and i was like 'yeah' and then he was like 'well if i tell you, you're gonna get hurt' so then i said 'ok so it's a no' and then he said 'obviously he doesn't like u' but the thing is i was startin to think that he did like me b/c he would try to make me jealous with other girls when i was with other guys, he would stare at me, his friends would ask me questions about peyton and then peyton would pretend to be doin somethin else. i'm hurt but i still cant believe that he doesnt like me cuz i think i would have a feeling and i still think that he likes me but the problem is that, his friend(damian) is one of his best friends and i think that damian would know but at the same time, damian could of said that b/c he didn't know what to say. what do you think i should do. tell peyton himself?? and how, please help, i'm hurt </3
 

btw, i forgot to tell you that yesterday jonathan asked me a question. normally, edgar is the one that asks me questions about peyton and when edgar asks me questions, peyton is normally lookin at a cell phone pretendin not to kno what's goin on and since i normally don't tell edgar anythin, i guess jonathan decided to give it a shot. so yesterday he called my name and then asked me 'peyton wants to kno if u have a bf' and then pey was pretendin to be doin somethin wit a cell phone so idk. would it be a good idea to tell him on msn, phone or in person?

cuz i wanna forget about him if he doesnt feel the same way

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I would say: make totally sure that he doesn't like you before you give up on him.  It sounds like his friends are hanging around a lot trying to get information and confusing you.  Next time they come over, just ask why Peyton can't come over for himself, or why he wants to know so badly.  Or maybe if they come over and Peyton's pretending not to pay attention, walk over to Peyton and answer the question to his face.

In such a second-hand information situation, someone needs to be direct.  Whether Peyton likes you or not, its obvious that he's either too shy to ask you out, or to wimpy to tell his friends off for leading you on.  Maybe if you take the initiative and tell him to stop or ask him out, it can help clear up this whole sticky mess.

Good luck!
xoxoxo Miz Fixit


Wednesday, May 10, 2006

like "wooooo"

dear mz_fixit::

well it's me froma long time ago, about edgar and peyton (x) well i noticed that they have been takin pics of me, filmin me, his friend jonny has been like starin at me and probably tellin pey when i look at him and his friend damian probably lookin for me to see where i am. well i think he does like me and school ils almost over, he's goin to a diff high school and so am i. the thing is that i want him to kno that i like him. his friends know that i like him and my friends kno that he 'likes' me but i'm scared to let him know. i really want him to know but idk how. he's never alone, meanin that he's always surrounded by friends and i can't tell him in private cuz they would be like "woooo" and i don't want that to happen. how do you think i should let him know? do you think he likes me too?

x0_confused about love

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Dear confused about love,

If you want to date him, then it looks like now is your last chance.  Think of it this way: what have you got to lose?  After a few weeks, you'll barely if ever see each other again.  So my advice?  Go for it!  If you don't ask him out now you'll always be wondering what could have happened.

As for his liking you, the signs you tell me point to yes, but frankly, I don't know enough details.  But even with those few clues, its enough to take chance and ask him out.  Find a good time when he's not with his friends, or, if you're scared, ask his friends to hang out with yours and find a time alone during the group activity.

Good luck!
xoxoxo Miz Fixit



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