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| i love how everyone talks as if they know what they're talking about...especially when someone never experience anything in their life firsthand. it's like me telling someone how it feels to sky dive when i only read and hear about it. it's in the same nature as someone describing pain when they never endured it themselves. it's only when something happens to you that you start to care about the big picture...it's such a shame how infuriated people get over things that don't even matter anymore. when will people realize that it could've been worse?...or that the worse has yet to come? or do people just always just think they got bad when they really just have no idea how good they have it than others? good intentions. does anyone have them anymore? we're all seekers. we know what we want and we set out for it. i don't believe in the fact that we don't know what we're doing, because we do. stop the nonsense.
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| Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the person we love we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us. We miss out on so many beautiful things and simply because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns. Go
for the man of deeds and not for the man of words for you will find
rewarding happiness not with the man you love but the man who loves you
more.
The
best lovers are those capable of loving from a distance far enough to
allow the person to grow, but never too far to feel the love deep
within your being. TO
LET GO OF SOMEONE DOESN'T MEAN YOU HAVE TO STOP LOVING, IT ONLY MEANS
THAT YOU ALLOW THAT PERSON TO FIND HIS OWN HAPPINESS WITHOUT EXPECTING
HIM TO COME BACK. Letting go is not just setting the other
person free, but it is also setting yourself free from all bitterness,
hatred, and anger that keep in your heart. Do not let the bitterness
scare away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to
dishearten you, but rather let yourself grow with wisdom in bearing it.
You may find peace in just loving someone from a distance not expecting
anything in return.
But be careful, for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow. We
can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past but real peace
and happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today.
There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and
beautiful and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to
that person. This feeling soon become a part of our everyday lives and
eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is
when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us
than just a friendship. We start our desperate attempt to get noticed
and be closer but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we
end up being sorry for ourselves. You
don't have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is how to
accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for
yourself.
Believe
me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone
more deserving. Don't let your heart run your life, be sensible and let
your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to
reason as well. Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow. If you lose love that doesn't mean that you failed in love. Cry
if you have to, but make it sure that the tears wash away the hurt and
the bitterness that the past has left with you. Let go of yesterday and
love will find its way back to you. And when it does, pray that it may
be the love that will stay and last a lifetime. | | |
| isn't it weird how you can watch the same movies over and over again and still cry at the parts you already knew happened?
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| After a while, you learn the subtle difference
between holding a hand and chaining a soul. You learn that love doesn't
mean leaning. Company doesn't mean security. And you begin to learn
that kisses aren't contracts and presents aren't promises, and you
begin to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes open, with
the grace of an adult, not the grief of a child. And you learn to build
all your roads on today because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for
plans. After a while you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too
much. So, plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of
waiting for someone to bring you flowers." | | |
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The better you know someone, the less there is to say...
Or maybe, there's less that needs to be said.
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