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Monday, July 14, 2008

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    The Lamb's War
    By Jan De Hartog
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    Love OR Living at Point Blank Range


    It happened right before I fell asleep. I realized: the paradox of love is even as it is strong like granite it can also be punctured like a balloon.

    You see, earlier that day I had selfishly decided to punish my husband with my bad attitude over a disagreement we were having. I am ashamed to admit I was freely choosing to be contrary, and wholly disgusted with myself at my choice. It doesn't matter what the disagreement was about, it wasn't about anything important, what matters is how poorly I responded.

    When you love someone deeply, especially the one you have pledged yourself to till death alone mediates the parting, you are bound close. You are bound face to face, bound into living at point blank range with each other. Either you breathe life or you breathe death into each other constantly.

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Tuesday, June 24, 2008

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    Unless: A Novel (P.S.)
    By Carol Shields
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    Unless...GOODNESS.

    Recently I finished a Pulitzer Prize winning novel, "Unless", by Canadian author Carol Shields.

    The book is written in a first person narrative, a story told by Reta (Ree-tah) Winters. She is a mother to three nearly grown daughters, life-partner of Tom Winters, translator for a French feminist, and writer of a few comic light novels. And while Reta has a good life it starts to fall apart when her oldest daughter Norah drops out of school and turns up on a Toronto street corner, begging, and wearing a cardboard sign around her neck with GOODNESS written across it. Reta is trying to figure out what happened to her daughter, what should she do, and how to cope with life when it begins to fall back into the pre-Norah-disaster-routine.

    Shields is an insightful writer. Being a native Brit, she is considered one of the top ten female English writers of all time. Guess who else in on that list? Yup, Jane Austen herself. One reviewer describes how Shields believes writing can be a redemptive force, and she is most concerned with writing in a way that can be redemptive to women. Reading this book left me much to mull over. I don't want to spoil the story, but I need to give a brief overview in order to frame the thoughts that will follow. A key character in the story is Danielle Westerman, a (fictional) titan among the significant French feminists. Dr. Westerman believes that women at some point in their lives realize that they are truly powerless in a male dominated society and either deal with it or disintegrate. She believes that Norah has realized her powerlessness and has fallen into despair. Reta wonders if this is true, and it is a genuine fear she has for her other two teenage daughters. But why does Norah's sign say GOODNESS?

    Reta decides to write a new novel, another beach read, and while her editor loves the goodness found in her lead female character he tells her that it is her lead male character that the book should revolve around. The editor wants the book rewritten. The editor says goodness is not enough, that the strong male on a strong search for identity is much more compelling to the market he wants to target. Tom, Norah's father, is the one who eventually discovers that a catastrophic event is what sent his daughter to a street corner. And I won't give that away, but it has nothing to do with powerlessness in a male dominated society.

    But it has everything to do with evil, with tragedy, with - sin.

    I have read many books about feminism, social structures, a bit of feminist theology, and will be reading more this summer. And while I freely admit that anger grants us incredible power, it can lead to destructive actions. I am wary of any worldview, any theology, any mission sourced in, above all, anger - therefore I am wary of angry feminism because I have dabbled in it myself.

    Continued on my blogspot.

Monday, May 26, 2008

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    Ludwig van Beethoven: The 9 Symphonies - Arturo Toscanini / NBC Symphony Orchestra
    By Ludwig van Beethoven (Composer), Arturo Toscanini (Conductor), NBC Symphony Orchestra
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    Good Things: A List in Progress

     

    * Books by Lauren Winner: "Girl Meets God", "Muddhouse Sabbath"...each read is encouraging.

    * Library Visits. You might not read all the books, you might have picked up too many, but how delightful it is to be able to borrow books.

    * Homemade Pho (Vietnamese soup) with plenty of cilantro, pepper and siracha. Hmmmm...

    * Strawberries on my cereal.

    * Weekend brunch! A new tradition to help remind us to celebrate the simple joys. Mimosas, breakfast sandwiches or pancakes, fruit, cheese....and my favorite part? Lingering with my husband over breakfast, lighting the tea light candles and toasting "to life!" But most of all it is the lingering, the laughing, the conversation...

    The list goes on at my blogspot.

Friday, May 23, 2008

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    The Reminder
    By Feist
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    "The fact of knowing how to read is nothing, the whole point is knowing what to read." - Jacques Ell

     
     
    So, winter term ended a month ago and it has taken me a few weeks to get back into a reading groove. I read fiction to unwind and relax after an academic term, and summer is about stacks of fiction discovered in the library, bringing home as many books as I can stuff into my bag, and hopefully meeting a new favorite book.


    Here is what I have been recently devouring:

    All The King's Men by Robert Penn Warren. This novel is considered the greatest American political fiction work every written - quite possibly THE "Great American Novel". Warren won the Pulitzer in 1946 for this book. It is the story of the rise and fall of a hick named Willie Stark, and how his rise and fall takes many others with him, such as the narrator Jack Burden. Stark becomes the governor, and the novel is about how a good man is corrupted by bad company and power. Stark may have been a great man (whatever great really means) but he was not a good man. In the end, no one every says I am sorry for what has happened, they merely say it could have been different. In the end, all the king's men couldn't put him back together again. Few write like this anymore, with paragraph long descriptions stuffed with (good) metaphors galore - "his eyes were like peeled hard boiled eggs, staring wildly..."
    A beautifully written book. Excellent story, and I heartily recommend it.
     
     

Friday, May 16, 2008

  • The Things We Leave Behind

    On May 10th, 2008, another class of seniors received their diplomas, crossed the stage, and graduated from Bryan College. The class of 2008 were the incoming freshmen when I was a senior, and several of those freshmen beaome my dear friends. I still can't believe that those freshmen are now college grads, getting married, traveling overseas, and moving forward. I still can't believe that I graduated from college three years ago, because I still carry those days lived " 'neath the red and gold" with me every day.

    I loved my college experience. Nothing will compare to the dorm life, life with best friends, meals shared daily with friends, afternoon chats with profs and advisors. I was exceptionally blessed and shaped by my years at Bryan. . . To Keep Reading Go Here.

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