sorry......sorry about me not updating for like a really long timeee well anyways here are some quotessss you guys ever stop and think anymore? Or are you too busy trying to make your friend count as big as your ego? It's all ridiculous. Use some common sense. If you took one day to look at yourselves and how you treat people, you'd probably hate yourselves too. If death meant just leaving the stage long enough to change costume and come back as a new character, would you slow down or would you speed up? 
The truth is you were a bastard. You were, you were mean and stubborn and just a bastard.
But you were a bastard who knew what you wanted and you stuck to your guns and you proved that if you want something badly enough, if you're determined enough and appreciative enough eventually it will happen. It will. That gives me hope so thanks for that. 
I'll never be perfect. I'm not talking about just looks or things like that...but in every part of life...i'll always be flawed. I'm sure a lot of girls feel that way too and i know that dudes do cause i live with a bunch of em. The greatest feeling is knowing that i don't have to be right. I've been ashamed and am still ashamed of things i've felt. Hate. Jealousy. Lust. Fear. Pride. Self consciousness. Pure anger. Pity. Just plain hurt.
-Hayley Williams
Bottom line is, even if you see them coming, you're not ready for the big moments. No one asks for their life to change, not really. But it does. The big moments are gonna come, you can't help that. It's what you do afterwards that counts, that's when you find out who you really are. 
i'm not that good of a person. i make mistakes. i have regrets. i act alot smarter than i really am. i cry. i laugh way too loud when something isn't really that funny and sometimes the mean things people say about me can really get to me. but when i'm with you, i found that none of that matters because you make me smile more than i could have ever imagined.
Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. 
I’ve had a couple of people betray me. I’m not a person who believes in holding grudges, but if one of my best friends did something really terrible to me, it would be very hard to ever really trust her again. What would stop her from doing something like that again? It’s not like that person just changes and suddenly becomes different.
- Lauren Conrad
You don't know how it feels waking up every morning knowing the one you love is with
the person totally wrong for him, yet you just want him to be happy even though it hurts. 
You can find the good in anybody if you just give them a chance,
benefit of the doubt. Sometimes people disappoint you, sometimes they surprise you, but you never really get to know them until you listen for what's in their heart.
-one tree hill
But thats the problem with having the answers, it was only after you gave them you realized they sometimes weren't what people wanted to hear. 
and when you take, you take the very best of me. so i start a fight, cause i need to feel something. and you do what you want cause i'm not what you wanted
the more you try to make love perfect & what you call "right", the more easier you're going to lose it.
I fell in love with him, okay? Maybe it wasn’t perfect. Maybe he wasn’t perfect.
But that’s what makes it real. Its no story book love. I fought with him and at times I felt that confused. But that’s what made it worthwhile...the feeling that it was real. 
Southern girls are God's gift to the entire male population. there is absolutely no woman
finer than one raised below the mason-dixon line and once you go southern may t he good Lord help you - you never go back.
- Kenny Chesney
I try to talk to you, but I don't even know what to say. I am afraid you
don't want me to say anything. So I don't. But inside of me there are words waiting to come out. And tell you how I feel-like how I miss you. And how I love you despite my broken heart. And how I need you in my life. And especially how much I want you. But those words may forver stay in my heart, locked inside. Sometimes I wonder if there are words locked inside you too...but I'll never know. 
You have enemies? Good. That means you've stood up for something, sometime in your life.
I love people who make me laugh. I honestly think it's the thing I like most,
to laugh. It cures a multitude of ills. It's probably the most important thing in a person. 
Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest
and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.
If I never met you, I wouldn't like you. If I didn't like you, I wouldn't love you.
If I didn't love you, I wouldn't miss you. But I did, I do, and I will. 
People will always talk about you, especially when they envy you and the life you live. Let them. You affected their lives, they didn't affect yours.
So it's not gonna be easy. It's gonna be really hard. We're gonna have to work at this every day,
but I wanna do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, you and me, every day. Will you do something for me? Please? Will you just picture your life for me? 30 years from now , 40 years from now. What's it look like? If it's with that guy, go. I lost you once, i think i could do it again. If i thought it's what you really wanted. But don't you take the easy way out.
- The Notebook 
Sometimes we take for granted the people in our lives that mean so much & when we finally
realize that, it can be too late. Take advantage of every minute you have, hold onto & cherish every second. Have no regrets & never forget those that made you who you are.
- Nikki Hilton You see a lot of smart guys with dumb women, but you hardly ever see a smart woman with a dumb guy. 
Like everybody and trust no one.
- Lauren Conrad if something bad happens to us someday, it'll never cha nge what we have now, what we've always had. because you were right - love is real and we have to do everything to keep it alive. wherever life takes us, i want it to be with you, forever or until tomorrow.
I hate the way you talk to me. And the way you cut your hair. I hate the way you drive my c
ar. I hate it when you stare I hate your big dumb combat boots. And the way you read my mind. I hate you so much it makes me sick - it even makes me rhyme. I hate the way you're always right. I hate it when you lie. I hate it when you make me laugh - even worse when you make me cry. I hate it that you're not around. And the fact that you didnt call. But mostly I hate the way I don't hate you - not even close, not even a little bit, not any at all. - 10 things i hate about you
Yes I love him. I love him more than anything else in this world and there
is nothing that I would like better than to hold on to him forever. But I know it's not for the best. So no matter how much my heart is going to break, I've got to let him go so he can know just how much I love him. Maybe if I'm lucky, he'll come back, but if not, I can make it through this. 
life isnt going to be the party we hope for, but while we're here we should dance.
People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all.
People talk about how great love is, but that's bullshit. Love hurts. Feelings are disturbing. People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love if they're afraid to feel? Pain is meant to wake us up. People try to hide their pain. But they're wrong. Pain is something to carry, like a radio. You feel your strength in the experience of pain. It's all in how you carry it. That's what matters. Pain is a feeling. Your feelings are a part of you. Your own reality. If you feel ashamed of them, and hide them, you're letting society destroy your reality. You should stand up for your right to feel your pain.
- Jim Morrison
Well that's what we do. We fight. You tell me when i'm being an arrogant son of a bitch &
I tell you when you're being a pain in the ass...which you are. 99% of the time. I'm not afraid to hurt your feelings. They have like a 2 second rebound right & you're back doing the next pain in the ass thing.
- The Notebook --favorate part of the movie (::
Relationships are like crystals, you don't realize how much you love it until it breaks.
Everybody has difficult years, but a lot of times the difficult years end up being the
greatest years of your whole entire life, if you survive them.
If ever there is tomorrow when we're not together, there is something yo
u must always remember. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. But the most important thing is, even if we're apart, I'll always be with you.
- Winnie The Pooh 
I loved you, its not that i fell out of love with you, because that would be
impossible, i just couldnt handle the heartache anymore...i ts not that i dont love you, its that i cant.
It's times like this when you realize who your real friends are.
You learn that being fake doesn't cut it, holding back doesn't make it, & sometimes being best friends isn't worth it. 
In some ways we’re all a little trapped. Some people feel trapped in a small town
...others a dead end job. Maybe it’s an abusive relationship for someone else. We’re all trapped in this bubble and we are all subjected to what happens to us in our lives and in our minds.
Trust me. I know how it feels. I know exactly how it feels,
to cry in the shower so no one can hear you,
waiting for everyone to be asleep so you can fall apart,
for everything to hurt so bad you just want it all to end.
I know exactly how it feels.
It's crazy right? To love someone who hurts you? But it's even crazier
to think that someone who hurts you, loves you. All I'm asking is don't make promises you can't keep, and don't say things you don't mean, because in the end, those things mean everything.
Love is always open arms. If you close your arms about love you
will find that you are left holding only yourself.
It may seem that I haven't been thinking of you & that this memory of you
I've held in my heart, I've finally been able to let it go. I'm just trying to give you some space, give you some time to realize how much you mean to me & hopefully you'll pick up your act & come back. You & I both know that deep inside this thing we got going on ain't ever going to stop. Because as much as I cry, fight & stress about you, I wouldn't do it if I didn't think that you were worth it. Whoever you decide to let take my place, just remember that it won't be for long because even though we're not together, please don't doubt that it was real. I don't know what else to do but to wait, wait for better things, better days. A better time for us so that this time, we're gonna make it. I don't want a fresh start; I want to learn from our mistakes together. You know I'd do anything for you. I wanna see how far you'll go for me. There's a lot of things I want, & you're not one of them . I need you. I keep trying to push away these feelings & hide the underneath anything that will keep me sane for the day. Me & you, we're just the 8th wonder of the world. I'm dying inside because I hope what I'm saying isn't too late. Ask anyone that knows me well; the best part about me was you. 
Oftentimes we say goodbye to the person we love without wanting to.
Though that doesn’t mean that we've stopped loving them or we've stopped to care. Sometimes goodbye is a painful way to say I love you.
Stop saying you're sorry. You wanna know something? I knew. I knew you
didn't feel that way about me. I knew, and I still let it happen...because, well, I figured that one night with you was better than never. So, will you stop saying you're sorry? Because you didn't no better, but I did. 
girls like us don't come around too often. either you love us or love to hate us,
but you're wasting your time trying to be us & you sure as hell can't join us. Daily complainers, who won't settle until they go to the ends of the earth to get what they want. You will cry and bitch to your parents because they won't buy the 200 dollar phone you couldn't get. It's so completely immature and I would smack a hammer across their faces if i could for them to wake up and at least be the least bit content with what they have. Do you work for everything you have? "Oh well i don't have to." Well appreciate it. Quit whining. I'm sure nobody else wants to hear it. You probably have 500 dollars worth of technology in your pocket on a daily b asis that you'd throw away a week later for the latest trend anyways. Does it take a little more then 10 years to realize that you have it so much better then 75% people around the world? Some work at an age of 4 to try to get something in their stomach to occupy them for the rest of the day. You're breathing. You have a decent education that people would trade an arm for. We all have a pair of hands, a brain, and a heart. That most of you don't use anyways. Take advantage of the years you have right now. Morals will only develop if you learn from your mistakes. Instead of covering them back up with lies and deciece as a habit. 
I dont understand how people can change this much. One day they're all you can have
and the next, they're a stranger to you.
There are some memories that we will carry with us for the rest of our lives
and some things that we choose to forget but when we look back at those experiences , we'll see our friends; the ones who got us through everything and we'll realize how lucky we are to have them. 
I held him close to me with my eyes closed, wondering if anything in my life had ever
been this perfect, and knowing at the same time that it hadn't. I was in love, and the feeling was even more wonderful than I ever imagined it could be.
He has the most adorable eyes you could ever fall for and the cutest smile that takes your
breath away. He has the ability to make you laugh everytime he speaks and whenever you look into his eyes it's so hard to turn away. 
Here's to the nights when the sand was your seat, the waves kissed your feet,
and your friends out numbered the stars.
I would love to tell you that everything will work out for us, and I promise to do all I
can to make sure it does. But if we never meet again and this is truly good-bye, I know we will see each other again in another life. We will find each other again, and maybe the stars will have changed, and we will not only love each other in that time, but for allt he times we've had before.
- The Notebook 
There's no doubt about it, breakups suck. But in the first few hours or days or weeks that follow,
there's one important truth you need to recognize: Some things can't and shouldn't be fixed, especially that loser who dumped you or forced you to dump him. It's over for a reason, and deep down inside, you probably know what that reason is. 
I love to be in love. Even if I get hurt, it's worth the fall.
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