"relationships don't work the way they do on tv and in the movies. will they, won't they. and then they finally do, and they're happy forever; give me a break. nine times out of ten, neither of them are happy because they weren't right for each other to begin with and even the ones who get married, get divorced anyway and i'm telling you right now through all this stuff, i have not become a cynic, i haven't. yes, i do happen to believe that love is mainly about pushing chocolate covered candies and, you know, in some cultures, a chicken. you can call me a sucker around here because i do believe in it, i don't care. bottom line, couples that are right for each other wade through the same crap as everybody else, but the big difference is that they don't let it take them down. one of those two people will stand up and fight for the relationship. if it's right and they're real lucky, one of them will always say something."
— dr cox scrubs

"how are you suppose to get over someone when you have to be around them all the time?"
— jd scrubs

"when you realize one of your dreams has come true, you start taking the others a lot more seriously."
— ray everybody loves raymond

hey girls, you're beautiful. don't look at those stupid magazines with stick like models. eat healthy and exercise. that's all. don't let anyone tell you you're not good enough. you are good enough; you are too good. love your family with all your heart and listen to them. you are gorgeous, whether you're a size 3 or a size 14. it doesn't matter what you look like on the outside, as long as you're a good person; as long as you respect others. i know it's been told hundreds of times before, but it's true.
— gerard way

"the only rule is don't be boring. dress cute wherever you go; life's too short to blend in."
— paris hilton

"never drink diet soda. it shows you have no nerve. only drink real colas, caffeine-packed energy drinks, or vitamin water. hate champagne, because that's what everyone expects you to love. energy drinks are the best party drinks: you never get tired and you never have a hangover. and you can make fun of all the loaded people who think they're clever but are really acting stupid."
— paris hilton

say what you mean, and mean what you say, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.

you know how when you were a little kid and you believed in fairy tales, that fantasy of what your life would be, white dress, prince charming who would carry you away to a castle on a hill. you would lie in bed at night and close your eyes and you had complete and utter faith. santa claus, the tooth fairy, prince charming, they were so close you could taste them, but eventually you grow up. one day you open your eyes and the fairy tale disappears. most people turn to the things and people they can trust. but the thing is its hard to let go of that fairy tale entirely because almost everyone has that smallest bit of hope, of faith, that one day they will open their eyes and it will come true.

so fail. be bad at things. be embarrassed. be afraid. be vulnerable. go out on a limb or two or twelve; you will fall and it will hurt. but the farther you fall, the higher you will rise. the higher you rise, the clearer your future becomes. failure is a gift, welcome it. there are people who spend their whole lives wondering how they became the people they became, how certain chances pass them by, why they didn't take the roads less traveled. those people aren't you. you have front row seats to your own transformation, and in transforming yourself, you might even transform the world. it will be electric, and i promise it will be terrifying. embrace that; embrace the new person you're becoming. this is your moment. i promise you, it is now, not two minutes from now, not tomorrow, but really now. own that; know that deep in your bones, go sleep every night knowing that, wake up every morning remembering that, and keep going.

"pooh?" said piglet,
"you have a lot of friends don't you?"
"yes," said pooh,
"but only one piglet."

it takes 3 seconds to say "i love you," 3 minutes to explain it, 3 hours to demonstrate it, 3 days to appreciate it, and a lifetime to prove it. the test of true love is having all the things go wrong but still having a special way to love despite all the wrong things that may happen. love isn't about becoming somebody else's "perfect person." it's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be. love until it hurts, and when it hurts, love some more. and when it hurts some more, love even more, and when it hurts even more, love until it hurts no more. love is a commitment, romance is a feeling; know the difference. if i love you because you're beautiful, that's romance. but if you're beautiful because i love you, that's love. love knows no reason, love knows no lies. love defies all reasons, love has no eyes. but love is not blind, love sees but does not mind. what lips hide, the eyes reveal. people say "i love you" just for the sake of saying it, some just for pity, and some because they promised. when you think real hard, the people who find it so hard to say are usually the ones who mean it. love is everything its cracked up to be. it's worth waiting for, worth being brave for, and you know what? if you don't risk anything, you risk even more. what is love? those who don't like it call it a responsibility, those who play with it call it a game, those who don't have it call it a dream, and those who do love call it a destiny. in times of darkness, love sees. in times of silence, love hears. in times of doubt, love hopes. in times of sorrow, love heals. and in all times, love starts within yourself. love is sometimes denied, sometimes lost, sometimes unrecognized. but in the end, always found with no regrets, forever valued, kept and treasured. whenever, wherever, if you are meant to be for someone, love will be there. you don't need to search for love, love will find you.

you're not best friends because you sit together at lunch, or because you talk on the phone, or because you have matching flip flops, or because you can finish each others' sentences. you're best friends because when she smiles, a grin instantly forces itself across your face. no matter how mad you are, when she cries, you instantly feel her pain and want to cry with her. when you look her in the eyes and you know there's no one else you could trust more, thats when you know you're best friends

when you've laughed as much as you've breathed, youve realized how beautiful life is

it's the people you hug and never want to let go. it's the people you havent seen in months, but nothing has changed at all. it's the people who give to you more than you give to them. it's the people that truly understand who you are, and why. it's the people you cry about, the people you live for. it's the people in your photographs that have light genuinely shining through their eyes and their smile. it's the people that take your breath away. these are the people you should never let go. these are the people who mean the most

as we grow up, we learn that the one person who'd never let you down, probably will. the one person that you never thought would be there for you, will be. you're going to have fights with your friends, you're going to lose some of your friends, and you may even fall in love with one of your friends. you will eventually lose someone you love, and love someone you never thought you'd find. people are going to hate you, love you, love to hate you, and hate to love you. but the ones you mean the most to you will always be there. remember, you will never lose a friend; you only learn who your real ones are

can miles really separate you from friends? if you truly want to be with someone you love, aren't you already there?

take too many pictures. laugh too much. love like you've never been hurt. because for every sixty seconds you spend upset, is one minute of happiness you'll never get back

think you know who your true friends are? wait until high school and see who's there for you when your ex boyfriend spreads rumors about you. think you'll never do drugs? wait until it's right there in front of you and all your "friends" are doing it. think you're tough? wait until you say the wrong thing to the wrong person—see who backs down first. think you're smart? wait until you have an english paper, science project, history test, and a ten minute monologue due tomorrow because you were absent for one day. think you're cool?
wait until you're the only one who doesn't make the sports team. think you're popular? wait until your parents can't afford the hollister or abercrombie jeans everyone has. think you'll never fall in love? wait until a guy looks deep in your eyes and says he loves you. think you'll never get your heart broken?
wait until that same guy who said he loved you is holding another girl behind your back. think you'll never have sex? wait until the guy you think you love says it'll make you closer. think nothing is ever going to happen to you? wait until you're sitting in a jail cell, wondering how you got caught. think that you're always going to be your own individual? wait until one morning when you look in the mirror and you're just like everybody else.

we have four years to be irresponsible. so relax, work is for people with jobs.you'll never remember class time, but you'll remember the times you hung out with your friends. so stay out late. go out on a tuesday night when you have a paper due on wednesday. spend money you don't have, and drink until the sun comes up. the work
never ends, but high school does.

conceited people will never get anywhere
because they think they're there already

i was always told that nothing in life comes free.
there's always a scandal. like "free phones!"
but in small letters, it says "with the purchase of 2 phones."
they want to draw your attention.
you always have to read the small print in life.
like, "this way to happiness."
but in small letters, it says "but you must work for it."
there is no easy way out.

in this world, people are going to say
don't do this, don't do this, don't do this.
and you know what you're going to end up with?
nothing to do.
—antm

people should take their "why don't you like me?" 
stickers off their foreheads and put them where
they'd really do some good—on their mirrors.

"strange, isn't it? each man's life touches
so many other lives.
and when he isn't around,
he leaves an awful hole, doesn't he?"
—it's a wonderful life

and remember, george:
no man is a failure who has friends.
—it's a wonderful life

"do we make the moments in our lives?
or do the moments in our lives make us?"
—one tree hill

“you wouldn't want life to be smooth.
it's the bumps that make things interesting."
—one tree hill

someone once said it's the good girls who keep diaries; 
the bad girls never have time. me?
i just wanna live a life i remember
even if i don't write it down.
—one tree hill

to every girl that is scared to put her heart out there again because she's been hurt too many times.
to every girl who's been cheated on, because she's not a slut who gives it up to every guy. to every girl that dresses cute, not skanky. to every girl who wants to be called beautiful, not hot. to every girl that will spend her whole day looking for the perfect present for her boyfriend. to every girl who gets her heart broken because he chose that bitch instead. to every girl that would die to have a decent boyfriend. to every girl who would just once like to be treated like a princess. to every girl who cries at night because of another heartbreak.
to every girl who won't get down on her knees and open her mouth just to get a boyfriend.
to every girl who just wants to hold hands. to every girl who kisses him with meaning. to every girl who just wishes he cared more. to every girl who would just once want a guy to give their jacket up when they are cold. to every girl who wants him to call just to hear the sound of her voice. to every girl that just wants to cuddle. to every girl that just wants to sleep with him without having sex. to every girl who shows how much she cares and gets nothing in return. to every girl who thought "maybe this one could be the one". to every girl who laughs at stupid stuff when she actually doesn't think it's funny. to every girl who's looking for that one and only, and is having a rough time along the way. to every girl who just wants a guy who actually cares about how she feels. to every girl who wants words backed up with actions. to every girl who fell for all the lies, only to find herself alone in the end. to every girl who gave her heart away, only to have it shoved back in her face.
to every girl who has faith that tomorrow will be a better day. and it will be.

I want to spend all my days with you..
wrestling over remotes ;
playing in the mud..
throwing each other in pools.
fighting over the last piece of cheesecake.
have food fights.
killing each other over which TV show we're gonna watch.
& then not watching it anyways..
I want to piss you off..
& then kiss you.
I want you to be the one who makes fun of me..
for burning your dinner;
or forgetting to do your laundry.
I want you & me.
forever.

she's classy unlike all the other girls.
she knows herself and she knows she's not perfect,
but she spends her time having fun
and doing the best she can with what she's got.

It takes 3 seconds to say "I love you," 3 minutes to explain it,

3 hours to demonstrate it, 3 days to appreciate it, & a lifetime

to prove it. The hardest part in loving is when you can only

view the person you love from a distance & not being able to

hold his hand, embrace him tight, & tell him how much you

love him, because to him, you're only his friend. Watching you

from a distance, afraid to get too close, hoping that you'd

realize who loved you the most. But unless you open your

eyes to the one who's always there, you'll never realize that

I'm the one who cares. The test of true love is having all the

things go wrong but still having a special way to love despite

all the wrong things that may happen. Love isn't about

becoming somebody else's "perfect person." Its about finding

someone who helps you become the best person you can be.

Love until it hurts, and when it hurts, love some more. And

when it hurts some more, love even more, and when it hurts

even more, love until it hurts no more. Love is the extremely

difficult realization that someone other than oneself is real.

You can't make someone love you. All you can do is be

someone who can be loved. The rest is up to the person to

realize your worth. Love is a commitment, not a feeling.

Romance is not love. If I love you because you're beautiful,

that's romance. But if you're beautiful because I love you,

that's love. Never take love for granted because the best

thing in this world is knowing that you are loved. So if you

have someone special, hold that person close to your heart.

We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find

someone else who can love us more than we can. When we

are in love, we often doubt that which we most believe. Love

knows no reason, love knows no lies. Love defies all reasons,

love has no eyes. But love is not blind, love sees but does not

mind. What lips hide, the eyes reveal. People say "I love you"

just for the sake of saying it, some just for pity, & some

because they promised. When you think real hard, the people

who find it so hard to say are usually the ones who mean it.

Love is everything its cracked up to be. Its worth waiting for,

worth being brave for, and you know what? If you don't risk

anything, you risk even more. What is love? Those who don't

like it call it a responsibility, those who play with it call it a

game, those who don't have it call it a dream, those who love

call it a destiny. In times of darkness, love sees. In times of

silence, love hears. In times of doubt, love hopes. In times of

sorrow, love heals. And in all times, love starts within

yourself. Love is sometimes denied, sometimes lost,

sometimes unrecognized. But in the end always found with no

regrets, forever valued, kept and treasured. Whenever,

wherever, if you are meant to be for each other, love will be

there. You don't need to search for love, love will find you.

"I'm an outsider by choice," she said.
"but i'm hoping that won't be my choice forever.
i've always like the time before dawn because there's
no one around to remind me of who I'm supposed to be. so it's

easier to remember who I am."

most of the time, the hardest boy to get over is the one you never had.

the art of living
is to appreciate the smallest thing

consider carefully the effects on other people
of all your actions, words and thoughts
eventually everything comes back
multiplied

always have butterflies in your HEART,
not in your stomach.

when it comes to falling in love
dont chase
dont obsess
dont try too hard
just let it be

keep your heart sweet

REAL BEAUTY
its a life force—an energy. its a vibe
you feel it in those who truly know they have it

know your own beauty
love and accept yourself
feel the joy that is your natural birthright
exult in your own existence
because its a miracle that you are here at all

lose the excess
those who travel lightest
travel furthest

a day is 24 hours
spend your time wisely
8 hours work
8 hours play
8 hours sleep

be
amusing
bright
original
sharp
inventive
optimistic
charming
imaginative
forgiving
one of a kind
honest
patient
kind
happy
respectful
generous
loyal
loving
passionate
candid
real

to get energy you need to expend it
the more you do the more you can do
to get the most out of life you need to get into it
to receive love you need to give it

by taking no risks in your life
you are really risking everything

look after your inner child
she is pure innocence

"our deepest fear us not that
we are inaquequate. our deepest fear
is that we are powerful beyond measure.
it is our light, not our darkness, that scares us.
we ask ourselves, who am i to be brilliant,
gorgeous, talented, and fabulous?
actually, who are you not to be?
you are a child of God. your playing small
doesnt serve the world."
— marianne williamson

the truth about girls
we will never be too old for sleepovers

secret to life #07
believe in love at first sight

live your life to its fullest
laugh at all the things that dont matter
love with all you have&more

i think, with friendships,
it doesnt matter how long
youve known each other
or how many fights you got into.
what matters is who said 
ill be here for you
and proved it

live your life
with full glasses
big smiles
and a good friend at your side

sometimes youre ahead
sometimes youre behind
the race is long
and in the end its only with yourself

you only meet your once in a lifetime friends
once in a lifetime

there is no aspect, no moment in life
that cant be improved with pizza

believe everything happens for a reason
if you get a chance, take it
if it changes your life, let it
nobody said itd be easy;
they promised itd be worth it

you can never prepare for the
moment that changes your life

dont waste your time with people
who dont make you feel
alive

there will be two dates on your tombstone
everyone will read them,
but the only thing that matters
 is the little
dash
inbetween them