mmm, well i dont believe in that saying so i cant help you there..
how i see it is.. shit happens. random. coincidence.. some people get more shit
thrown at them than others.. and its all pure chance..
what you can do is just fight and grow. it'll be tough but there's nothing else to do.
you can rely on sayings and hope that there's reason behind everything.
but that doesnt/wont make your pain go away.. you're a strong girl.
you've gone through so much.. and i wish i could give you a quote or saying..
anything to make things easier.. but i think all you can do is fight. grow. deal.

i know its what you've been doing this whole time though. and i truly do hope that good comes your way soon, in big big doses.. cuz you deserve it.
hang in there. there may not have been reason for things that have happened to you.. but you can give yourself reason to go forward and tell life to fuck itself. =)

i know sometimes you can feel like that, but you must push through. there is meaning in everything you do. think of all the lives you're in for a day or a year or a lifetime.. or a minute or a second.

you will figure it out, but i bet there are tons of reasons you're here.
(not even just one or two!!)

here's to a brighter day, old friend.