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Wednesday, July 02, 2008

  • Watched "Sex and the City". The clothes are as fabulous as always, or even more. The story...a bit cliched. Carrie got married with Big. Charlotte is pregnant. Miranda forgave her husband's infidelity and the family live happily. Only Samantha is less fairy tale-like. Why? You all get into that monogamy? Is that what all you women want? No, at least there is one interesting woman who said no:

    "I'm monogamous from time to time, but I prefer polygamy and polyandry...Love lasts a long time, but burning desire - two to three weeks." --Carla Bruni

    That's more like it


    According to the latest homophobic theory. The director of "Sex and the City" is really aware of the gay audience of this film which featured a really "big" man: Giles Marini, also from France. I am seriously considering moving there.

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    Too bad I don't have time to search for his dick's photo. Please let me know if you have one.

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

  • Recently, there is a "controversial film" called "City without baseball" 無野之城. The film is controversial because 1. its poster is considered "indecent":

    There isn't any problem with men without shirts, but the problem is: people imagine they aren't wearing any trousers.

    The second controversy is too much nudity is pictured in the changing room, ie this is not a film about baseball but a homoerotic film. In short, it's selling dog's meat in disguise of a goat's head.

    The third controversy is the baseball player-and-actor said that he isn't gay and if any gays express interest in him, he'd beat him up.

    Honestly, I am not interested in this film, because: 1. they don't appeal to me. 2. I am fed up that if naked men are featured in a film, it is considered to be targeting gay audience. I don't think that gays are as superficial as that, at least I am not. And, I can download tons of gay porns in one click. I don't mind the director or distributor using naked men as gimmicks or as a commercial element, like in "Lust, Caution", you can say that the sex scenes are a way to attract audience, but at the end, it is the quality and the script of the film that count.

    To that homophobic baseball player, I can find an atheletic who is 100% sexier than you and not afraid to be an object of (homo)sexual-fantasy:

Thursday, May 22, 2008

  • Currently Listening
    Hard Candy
    By Madonna
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    I am glad that California overturned the ban on same-sex marriage. Some stupid people think gay marriage will complicate lots of problems, like that of taxes, welfare, insurance...but every adult should be given the right to decide for themselves. I don't see there should be any difference between homosexuals and heterosexuals. And, even if gays are given the chance to get married, will there be lots of them getting married?

    Recently, I read an interesting definition of gay marriage on urban dictionary:

    A matrimonial union between two people of the same sex. Not a mockery of marriage because it implies a loving relationship between — and listen to these words closely — TWO. CONSENTING. ADULTS. If you honestly think that the next step is going to be bigamy, beastiality, or pedophilia, then you're really off your rocker because none of these things involve all three of those three words. Maybe you can make a case for incest, but that's more often practiced in the Bible Belt between straight people, anyway.
    Ironically, the American state with the lowest divorce rate is Massachusetts, the center of gay marriage land; followed by Connecticut, New Jersey, Rhode Island, and New York. The American state with the highest divorce rate? Nevada, with Oklahoma, Tennessee, Wyoming and Indiana rounding out the bottom five.
     
    I'm surprised that the south, which stresses so much about family values, has a higher divorce rate than the north. I think one of the reasons is that people in the north are not getting married. If you ask me now, I don't think I'm going to do so, because I'm pretty serious about marriage. Marriage means a promise to your partner, of staying monogamous, of settling down and having a family. It involves lots of responsibility and concession. It's not Britney Spears or Nicky Hilton.
     
    Maybe it's only me, but I can't decide who I'm going to be with for the rest of my life. Good things often come in more than one. You get either nothing or too much. I think I'm getting well with the tall guy Jack I met last time. I can't deny that I'm quite happy with two men at the moment, but I know this is going to end soon, either I'm getting bored with one or they get annoyed by me.
     
    Have you thought of getting married?

Friday, May 16, 2008

  • It's so difficult to track the past entries in xanga, but I have to as I am writing this entry. I can't believe that I have written two incredibly long entries about an episode of 鏗鏘集. This epidsode, called 'gay lovers' documents the life of a gay man and a pair of lesbians, but it received a 'strongly advised' warning from the Broadcasting Authority as they received lots of homophobic complaints. The gay man, Cho Man Kit  who appears on the episode sought for judicial review and recently, he won.

    I feel so proud of the judiciary system we still have, or the government will be doing whatever they want. Let's look at the grounds for the warning issued by the authority again. The Brodcasting Authority was accusing the programme for 1. only reporting on the life of homosexuals, so it's not being impartial. 2. it advocates same-sex marriage 3. may cast bad influence on children. Not surprisingly, judge Hartmann and all sensible Hong Kong ppl like myself hold the same view that these are groundless reasons.

    As I have said in the previous entry, it is impossible for a programme to be absolutely impartial. It is also what Hartmann said in the judgment:

    [N]ot all matters of ‘public policy’ can, in any sensible way, allow for due impartiality if that term is to mean that ‘both sides of the story’ must always be put.  How are ‘both sides of the story’ to be put in an RTHK programme dealing with the fight against bird flu or child slavery?

    And for advocating same-sex marriage which I don't see in the programme at all, Hartmann's judgment is remarkable:

    As a study of gay people involved in stable, long-term relationships, it naturally recorded matters that they considered important, such as the hope that one day their unions may receive some form of legal recognition.  But the issue, as I have said, was not ‘advocated’ by them.  People, by their natures, have aspirations.  Hunter-gatherers may express the hope that their lands will not be further encroached upon by farmers.  A daughter looking after her invalid mother at home may wish that the state would provide her with qualified assistance.  Such expressions, in any study of the human condition, are entirely organic to it and on any reasonable viewing are accepted as such.

    As for casting bad influence on children (ie making them gay), the counsel for the applicant made a powerful ground:

    Mr Paul Harris SC, leading counsel for the applicant, said that the finding that the programme was unsuitable for watching by young viewers was inconsistent with the provision that school children be taught about homosexuality as part of the compulsory Hong Kong schools sex programme.  He went on to say that it was, in any event, unrealistic to suggest that modern children are so vunerable that they should not see the programme.  But these assertions, it seems to me, go to the merits of the Authority’s findings not to their lawfulness.  It is for the Authority to take into account such factors as sex education in our schools and the sophistication, or lack of it, of young viewers in Hong Kong.

    I am so glad about the judgment. Not only does it fight against the discrimination, it also protects the freedom of expression, so that the media will not be discouraged to report on matters about homosexuality. But it is only a little victory. To ensure that the expression of different sexual orientation would not be discriminated against in future, legislation is essential. The christian fundamentalists, homophobics, the Broadcasting Authority and all prejudices are using 'this is a controversial matter' and 'this will upset certain people' as excuses to delay legislation. But in this world, there isn't a thing that is not controversial and will not upset anybody. The anti-sexual discrimination law is also controverisial. It upsets men, employers or even women for being not comprehensive enough. What is important is that can legislation protect and respect the interest of the minorities and can it eliminate inequality, because the advancement of a society relies on diversity, equality and freedom.

Saturday, April 26, 2008

  • Currently Watching
    Little Miss Sunshine
    By Abigail Breslin, Greg Kinnear, Paul Dano, Alan Arkin, Toni Collette
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    If you are interested in someone, what will you do?

    1. Talk to him, make him laugh?

    2. Learn about his interest, make it yours also?

    3. Google his name?

    I have done it all.

    Have you thought of the one you love today?