"i decided never to invest too much emotion in one thing. it's always a set up to the pain of losing them." –domino

It's better to say too much...Than never to say what you need to say again

I think love is a rare thing in the world.
If you think you can have it with this girl,
then fuck whoever tries to stop you and fuck the rules.
Take the risk and do whatever you can do and try not
to get caught. If you do get caught, do it again.

"i don't care if things get broken. when you're around i like you and i'm glad you're here." – jinx

"The reason I know what we are to each other is because we fight freely and almost constantly, about even the smallest thing. In fact, once we didn't speak for an entire week because he didn't like the way I loaded his dishwasher...I can't decide if we're exact opposites, or somehow exactly the same except for minor cosmetic differences. I do know that all of his friends hate me and all of my friends hate him. We drive each other crazy in ways that nobody else can even touch. We never bore each other. And we both realize what a rare thing this is."

It never gets any easier. People you love not being there anymore.

A clean break is easier. You can reset it and it heals and then you move on, but if you leave things messy or don't get put right, then it just hurts. Forever.

Dont say we aren't right for each other, the way i see it is.. we aren't right for anyone else -the cutting edge

Dory : You mean ... you mean you don't like me?
Marlin : No, of course I like you. It's because I like you I don't want to be with you. It's a complicated emotion.

How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard.

"If you love someone you say it, you say it right then, out loud. Otherwise the moment just... passes you by..."

Cause now that I can see you,
I don't think you're worth a second glance.

and i can't say why each day
doesn't quite fit the space we saved for it.

After all, how many ways can one heart be mangled and still be expected to keep beating? I'd lived through a lot, but it didn't make me feel strong. Instead, I felt horribly fragile, like one word could shatter me.

Take my hand, knot your fingers through mine
And we'll walk from this dark room for the last time

Mistakes aren’t always regrets.

It is foolish to pretend that one is fully recovered from a disappointed passion. Such wounds always leave a scar.

I'd like to stay a secret, like walking in the dark. If no one knows you, no one cares, so no one breaks your heart.

Half the world is composed of people who have something to say and can't, and the other half who have nothing to say and keep on saying it.

It is not time or opportunity that is to determine intimacy;-- it is disposition alone. Seven years would be insufficient to make some people acquainted with each other, and seven days are more than enough for others.

"Sometimes I feel like the heart and mind play tricks on each other. That just when you have got yourself convinced with one that something is what you want, the other steps in and makes you feel nothing but doubt."

It's hard to try and give your heart to someone when the last person you gave it to is still breaking it and won't give it back."

A bird may love a fish, but where would they live?
-then i shall build you wings

From the moment I met you, all those years ago, a day hasn't gone by when I haven't thought of you. And now that I'm close to you again, I'm in agony. The closer I get to you, the worse it gets. The thought of not being with you makes my stomach turn over - my mouth goes dry. I feel dizzy. I can't breathe. I'm haunted by the kiss you should never have given me. My heart is beating, hoping that kiss will not become a scar. You are in my very soul, tormenting me. What can I do? I will do anything you ask... Are you suffering as much as I am? - Starwars

And this is not for real, afraid to feel. I just hit the floor, don't ask for more
I'm wasting my time..

So this is my new found freedom, it's funny, I don't remember being chained.-

He doesn't want to call you. Give up. He doesn't want to see you. Shut up. He's not planning on getting back to you- he's making excuses to get out of it. It's what he's doing as I'm breathing. What he's doing while I'm waiting. It's what he's thinking while my heart is breaking.

i cant figure out whats worse, having to know every single detail of your desperate love for some other woman, or having to know that you obviously didn't even come close to feeling the same way about me -Alex & Emma

Sometimes I wish I could lose you again -Jimmy Eat World

And I say baby, yes I feel stupid to call you, but I'm lonely.
And I don't think you meant it when you said you couldn't love me.
And I thought maybe if I kissed the way you do, you'd feel it too..

I mean, look I don't know if anything is going to happen with us, again. Ever. But I don't want to know that it-it never could. --Ross (Friends)

Should never have started – ain’t that the way it always ends?- jimmy eat world

We are inches away/ and I never even got close

You had me. You had me 3 months ago and you left. It has nothing to do with me, it is about you, and it is always about you. What you need and what you want, you know.. it seems that you only want me, when you can't have me. You like the chase and thats all. So you know what, you can have it. - the OC

I thought of us, hard to talk these days, did we change, or were we strangers all along. -October Project

This silence hurts me more than anything you could say.- Cauterize

When he was seeing her y ou could see he had his doubts. And now he's missing her Because he knows he's missing out. Now it's haunting him Her memory's like a ghost. He's so terrified Cause no one else even comes close -Relient K

The pressure's off now so I'm back on the ground.
Too bad, I kind of liked it in the clouds with you.

How can I make my heart believe we're really through, When it's not through loving you -Dierks Bentley

My heart didn't break into a thousand pieces after he left. Instead, I realized all the things he didn't do. He didn't want to hear my stories. He didn't ask me questions. He didn't smile when I was talking to him. He didn't hug me out of the blue to make me feel good. His hugs were always a preamble to something else and after he was gone, I wondered if he ever knew me at all -Diane Les Becquets, Love, Cajun Style

If you call my name out loud
Do you suppose that I would come running
Do you suppose I'd come at all?
I suppose I would.
-Dispatch

Strange. But even when you know it has to end, when it finally does, you always get that inevitable twinge: Have I done the right thing? -Alfie

He's right, I'm afraid. There's a part of me that wants to let him in but then I feel myself put up this wall and I don't understand why. Maybe that's what strikes me most about him, that despite everything he's suffered he can still look at life in the most uncomplicated way. I've never known that kind of faith. It makes me so sad that people who have lost everything can still be open to love, while I, who's lost nothing, can not. -Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants

Maybe in five or ten yours and mine will meet again
Straighten this whole thing out
Maybe then honesty need not be feared as a friend or an enemy
But this is the distance
And this is my gameface

And I'm worried...I, I'm afraid that he took away my ability to believe. And I hate him for that. Because I always believed before. And now I just feel...lost. And I am, I'm trying to put myself out there, but... I feel hopeless. - Sex and the City

And sometimes... we can fall in love with someone for all the wrong reasons... and still love them even after all the hurt because well... sometimes and most times.. we cant pick who we love. And even though we know we shouldnt love them we do.. and always will.. because there are just a small number of people in this world who will "get" us for reasons we cant explain.. even when they shouldnt and even when time has elapsed since we've last talked -Arminda Meer

Slightly involved, there is no such thing. That's like being a little bit pregnant. - 90210

Can he really love her? Can the soul really be satisfied with such polite affections? To love is to burn, to be on fire, all full of passion... - Sense and Sensibility

I would love to be one of those poeple who's all 'we loved, thank you, you enhanced my life now go prosper' but I'm much more like 'we didn't work out, you need to not exist' - Sex & The City

It's not that we want what we can't have; it's that we've had all we could want and then had to watch it slip away.~Charles de Lint

What are we looking at when we're looking at love? Eskimos have like six billion different words for snow because they understand snow. Don't ever try to snow an eskimo. But for six billion different kinds of emotional attachment we only have one word. Why? Because we don't have a clue. - Fatal Flaw

Now I can't take my hands off you, I thought once would be enough, I guess that wasn't so-juliana theory

isn't that the definition of love anyway? it's obsessive, right? it's not safe, it's real and its raw --life as we know it

The human heart, at whatever age, opens to the heart that opens in return. - Maria Edgeworth

Realize that falling in love with someone is just the results of a series of generic events that can occur between you and basically anyone who meets your standards of attractiveness. It's just an emotional manifestation of a handfull of chemicals bouncing back and forth. It's not the holy grail of living, it's not your reason to exist and it's definitely not something reserved for "that one person." Accept that you are just an animal with a big brain that allows him to fret over what only amounts to a game of hormone pool. What you're feeling is not your soul dying a gurgling, ugly death, but withdrawal. All the happy chemicals that saturated your body when you were with him are kicking out cold turkey, and your body is screaming bloody murder, where are my effing endorphins? It's just chocolate. Find a new bar.

I put my hand on him. Touching him was always so important to me. It was something I lived for. I never could explain why. Little, nothing touches. My fingers against his shoulder. The outsides of our thighs touching as we squeezed together on the bus. I couldnt explain it, but I needed it. Sometimes I imagined stitching all of our touches together. How many hundreds of thousands of fingers brushing against each other does it take to make love?- Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close, Jonathan Safran Foer

He stands there, then walks away
My God, if I could only say
I'm holding every breath for you
-Taylor Swift

We can hide but we can't run
And I can't run from you

and it's just my luck to end up getting stuck
to everything you are

You went away cause you said you couldn't love me
&& I went away cause all I do is love you.

You were the best and worst thing to ever happen to me. You heard the best and worst things I ever thought I could say - that I ever thought I would say.

who you love should not ever make you who YOU are. it should just be a part of you. and you let it fade you away.

"a true friend never gets in your way unless you happen to be going down."

Soon I'll grow up and I won't even flinch at your name

your actions
speak louder
than my words.

"Because a small taste of something good
is always better than a large taste of something that is only so-so"
-Grounded for Life

You spend time together, feelings grow deeper. And one day without even realizing it, you find you're in love. Time stops and it feels like the whole world is made for you two and you two alone. Until one day, one of you leaves and rips the still beating heart from the other, who's now a broken, hollow, mockery of the human condition.

"I don't suppose I can ask you to somehow see that every horrible thing I did was because I truly do love you."

It only hurts at first, but then you will find someone to give you everything you want. Try not to go running back to him.

I don't think that I ever loved you more, then when you turned away and when you slammed the door.

A thousand words, but none were spoken.
Guess there's nothing left to say.
Another thing just broken. I guess things just turn out that way.

Why did I think I could win him over? Why did I think I could make him see me differently. Worse, what if the way he sees me is the way I really am—someone to be wary of, not loved. A sideshow abomination. A monster.

It’s not his longing that hurts. It’s my own. It’s knowing that I’ll never have what she has— a beauty so powerful it brings things to you. I fear I will always have to chase the things I want. I’ll always have to wonder whether I am truly wanted or whether I’ve just been settled for.

Love is always a good thing, not matter how much it hurts. Even after it's over, even through the pain, anyone who has ever really loved will tell you tht they never regretted a second of it, no matter how much it hurt in the end. And if you tell me differently, I will tell you that you were not truly in love.

How can you move on if you are still living in the past? And how can you step forward, leaving the past behind, if you can't even begin to forgive what the past holds? How can you love someone for who they are, yet want to hate them for what they've done? I guess that's what it boils down to is this - there are always those defining moments, times that makes us or breaks us, build us or tear us apart, help us progress further or stop us dead in our tracks. and for whichever way we may choose, there's a consequence of equal value. it's a true test of what we stand for, where we came from, &where we are going. these are moments that we live for, breathe for, & fight for. these are the defining moments that leave imprints forever in our hearts, making our souls forever. these are choices that could bring you one step closer to forever or leaving you hostage to the past. i guess in order to move on from the past you must learn to forgive it. and forgiving may mean letting go.

I don't know why we all hang onto something we know we're better off letting go. It's like we're scared to lose what we don't even really have. Some of us say we'd rather have that something than nothing at all, but the truth is... to have it halfway is harder than not having it at all.

i thought rationally, but behaved irationally.love must be set free, and when it comes back to you, only then will you know real love. everytime you meet a situation, though you think at the time is an impossibility and you go through the tortures of the damned, once you have met it and lived through it, you find that forever after you are freer than you were before. the essential decision is whether you will allow your jealousy to become an all-consuming monster, capable of destroying you, or become a challenge for you to grow in self-respect and personal knowledge. the challenge will rest with you.

"And why, by the way, does it seem that half the time you didn't even know you were in love until you lost it?"

replace the things i've broken, ripped apart and thrown away,
you can say that you don't miss me, i think about you everyday.
do you know how feels to see your face when i close my eyes?
bet you know how it feels to be the only thing that matters.

"winning isn't everything,
but wanting to win is."
-Vince Lombardi-

Sometimes silence is the most violent option to choose.

I guess that`s what I thought ; that leaving something behind would erase it from memory forever. It doesn`t. If something touched you that deeply, it never goes away without a fight.

"I need you. I don’t know why, but every now and then in my life, for no reason at all, I need you."
-The Labyrinth

It's amazing the things you realize when you lose someone. You get mad at yourself for not saying things you could've a million times, you take for granted days spent doing nothing when you could have been with him. Anyone can be taken at any time in our lives, but we always wait until they're gone to say things we never had courage to before.

tell me how im supposed to breath with no air.

I'm going to leave it where it started.
that way, at least I can pretend there was nothing in between.

"In my opinion, the best thing you can do is find a person who loves you for exactly what you are. Good mood, bad mood, ugly, pretty, handsome, what have you, the right person will still think the sun shines out your ass. That's the kind of person that's worth sticking with."

Some days are better than others. Some days I barely have time to think about you and some days I miss you like crazy.

It's like a thousand paper cuts soaked in vinegar
That's the way it feels when I see him touching her
It's like falling face-first into a bed of broken glass.

Just tell me it's tearing you apart. Just tell me you can't sleep at night.

It's not hard. It's painful, but it's not hard. You know what to do already. If you didn't, you wouldn't be in so much pain.

Even after every bad thing he'd done to me, every lie he'd ever told, every other girl he'd ever kissed, I knew somewhere deep down inside he really did love me, in his own messed up way. Because you can't keep coming back to the same person time after time if those feelings aren't there.

I should've listened to everyone when they told me that I'd get hurt. I don't know why I always let myself care so much for people who just don't give a crap about me. But that can't be true. I know it can't. I know I had to have meant something to him.

it hasn't felt like this before.
it hasn't felt like home before you.
and i know it's easy to say
but it's harder to feel this way.

Love isnt about listening to everything they tell you.
Love is about understanding everything they dont.

i learned from you that i do not crumble, i learned that strength is something you choose. all of the reasons to keep on believing-there's no question, thats a lesson that i learned from you.

It's always tempting to lose yourself
With someone who's maybe lost themselves.

Waiting is a trap. There will always be reasons
to wait. The truth is, there are only two things
in life: reasons & results.
And reasons simply don't count

it's you, was it always you and never me?

never say no when you mean yes. you never know if it's your last chance.

Who wants that? I'd rather choose to fall in love and be hurt. Sometimes I can't even sleep because I love someone so much. And there's always sadness in our lives. It's that sad feeling that keeps us going. Because if we can overcome that sadness, we can hope for happiness in the future -House

Well, love is insanity . The ancient Greeks knew that. It is the taking over of a rational and lucid mind by delusion and self-destruction. You lose yourself, you have no power over yourself, you can't even think straight. – Marilyn French

It`s been a long time since the first times. The first time we met, to the first time we kissed, our first fight, our first good-bye, our first tears, to the last "I love you." People say you never realize what you have until you lose it. In a way; they`re right. But I never took you for granted cause I knew any day I could wake up & you would be gone. I just hoped so much it wouldn`t be for a very long time. But now I miss all those things

I'll give this one more try,
I'll give it all my best, and, I'll ask
What could you be doing that is so much fun?
Without me by your side

I wish I had the guts to walk away and forget about what we had. But, I can’t because I know you won't come after me, and I guess that's what hurts the most.

I can’t cry hard enough for you to hear me.

if i told you that i realize
you’re all i ever wanted
and it’s killing me to be this far away.
would you tell me that you love me too?

Missing someone isn't about how long
it has been since you have seen them
or the amount of time since you've talked.
It's about that very moment when you're doing something and
you wish that they were right there with you

when you try your best but you don't succeed. whe you get what you want but not what you need. when you feel so tired but you can't sleep, stuck in reverse? and the tears come streaming down your face. when you lose something you can't replace. when you love someone but it goes to waste, could it be worse?

I think of all the things I'd say to you if I had the chance again

You were worth the fight.
But I couldn't fight forever.

There's a moment, there's always a moment, I can do this, I can give in to this, or I can resist it, and I don't know when your moment was, but I bet there was one.

i understand i wasn't part of the plan
a dollar short, a minute early