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Thursday, June 26, 2008

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    Simplicity in a Consumerist Culture

    (Note: I haven't blogged here for ages but there seems to be some interest lately on simplifying, so I'm posting below my notes on a talk on simplicity that I shared a few months ago in a conference in Bali. Hope you enjoy it...and are challenged by it.)

    Kingdom Simplicity in a Consumerist Culture

    As I was studying and reflecting on simplicity or frugality, I just realized how relevant this practice or discipline is today. Not only in personally cultivating the virtue of contentment and in creating community, but also in our witness to the world and in our care of creation.

    For example, in a recent survey on why Muslims become followers of Jesus, “respondents (750 Muslims who have decided to follow Christ between 1991 and 2007) ranked the lifestyle of Christians as the most important influence in their decision to follow Christ…Some poor people said the…Christian workers they knew had adopted, contrary to their expectations, a simple lifestyle, wearing local clothes and observing local customs of not eating pork, drinking alcohol, or touching those of the opposite sex.”[1]

    That’s in the area of our witness. Simplicity is also relevant, in fact necessary, in our stewardship of the earth. This was pointed out in a reflection prepared by the Indian director of an Eco-Justice Network:

    “…The environment is becoming ever less capable of sustaining the growing impact of our escalating consumption patterns. Everywhere our forests are overlogged…our grasslands overgrazed…our groundwaters overtapped, our seas overfished, and nearly all our terrestrial and marine environment is overpolluted with chemical and radioactive poisons…We must reconsider our consumption radically and fundamentally, because as a planet we have no other choice. Simple life is a compelling necessity now. [2]

    But before we lunge into simple living, we must first be aware of the big barriers to this kind of lifestyle so that we may remove them and be free to live simply. There are several of these threats but let me cite only the two biggest ones.

    Biggest Barriers to Simplicity

    1.     Consumerism

    This is simply defined as “people purchasing goods or consuming materials in excess of basic needs.”[3]

    Although consumerism is commonly associated with the Western world, it is multi-cultural and non-geographical, as seen today in Tokyo, Singapore, Jakarta, Hong Kong, Shanghai, Taipei, Manila and New Delhi.[4]

    Now there are three different kinds of consumerism, according to one Mennonite pastor:

    First is mainstream consumerism which is mega. Huge malls exemplify this kind of consumerism…as does the mega-church. Then you have counter consumerism, which is savviness. They are consuming an identity that says we are different. Instead of Starbucks you’ll go to the independent coffee shops. But it is still coffee shops and it is still consuming to form an identity. The so-called emerging church is largely counter consumer. It is edgy, hip and trendy. But it is really no less consumeristic. The third type is anti-consumerism. Mennonites, for example, resist both the hip Apples and the hegemonic or dominant Windows. They would rather not have a computer. They’re very, very, very careful not to excessively consume.[5]

    The problem is not consuming to live, but rather living to consume. We assign value to ourselves and others based on the goods we purchase. One’s identity is now constructed by the clothes you wear, the car you drive, and your MP3 player. So, to appeal to religious consumers, modern churches “commodify” their congregations--slapping our church’s logo on shirts, coffee mugs, and bible covers.[6]

    So, excessive consumerism has invaded even the church. Here’s a description of 21st Century expectations in a typical conservative evangelical church:

    ·        Be slim and physically fit and toned

    ·        Eat low-fat, low-carb, high protein meals

    ·        Have great hair and body shape

    ·        Be computer-savvy

    ·        Get into a good school

    ·        Be popular

    ·        Marry a Christian who has met all these criteria

    ·        Have kids that are cute, smart and well-behaved

    Well the danger is--the temptation is--to become enslaved by this modern consumerist culture and then just add church on top of it. Jesus says, No. God never intended people to live their lives in slavery to convenience, consumerism, commercialism. You’re the salt of the earth. Salt doesn’t exist for its own sake.

    Moreover, Jesus, Richard Foster noted, declared war on the materialism of his day. (And he declares war on the materialism of our day as well.) The Aramaic term for wealth is “mammon” and Jesus condemns it as a rival to God: “No servant can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and mammon” (Luke 16:13).[7]

    So how do we engage this consumerist culture and interact with it? “Jesus used three primary movements in every context. The first movement is towards. So he was incarnational. He entered. People like to use the word relevant for this. But Jesus also moved against the culture, he was resistant. He overturned tables in the temple and said ‘You brood of vipers.’ So he was both relevant and resistant. And third, Jesus withdrew to quiet places. He was also distant, he moved away. So you have three rhythmic movements of toward, against, and away--relevance, resistance, and distance. And none of those can be static. They always have to be happening.”[8]

    2.     Preoccupation of the Church with “ABC” (Attendance, Building, Cash)

    Spirituality author Eugene Peterson said, “If you look at the numbers and money, (modern) churches in some ways are the most ‘successful’ churches ever. And yet, I think it could be argued, we are at probably one of the low points because of the silliness and triviality that characterize so much of church life these days.”[9]

    It is good that a few of these modern churches are realizing this. In a recent and surprising turn of events, Bill Hybels of Willow Creek Community Church admirably admitted:

    “Some of the stuff that we have put millions of dollars into thinking it would really help our people grow and develop spiritually, when the data actually came back it wasn’t helping people that much…We made a mistake. What we should have done when people crossed the line of faith and become Christians, we should have started telling people and teaching people that they have to take responsibility to become ‘self feeders.’ We should have gotten people, taught people, how to read their bible between service, how to do the spiritual practices much more aggressively on their own.”[10]

    St. Paul warns and lists greed alongside adultery and thievery and declares that those who live in such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.

    Simplicity, on the other hand, frees us from the modern mania to possess, accumulate, and the attitude that “more is better.” It brings sanity to our compulsive extravagance, and peace to our frantic spirit.[11]

    As Matthew 6:31-32 of The Message puts it, “What I'm trying to do here is to get you to relax, to not be so preoccupied with getting, so you can respond to God's giving.”

    What ways then can we practice simplicity? Richard Foster suggests outward expressions of simplicity.[12] Let me mention some of these and add to the list some of my own and from other sources as well.

    Outward Expressions of Simplicity

    ·        Buy things for their usefulness rather than their status. Cars should be bought for their utility, not their prestige. A home should be chosen for its livability rather than how much it will impress others. Stop trying to impress people with your clothes and impress them with your life.

    ·        Reject anything that is producing an addiction in you. Learn to distinguish between a real psychological need, such as cheerful surroundings, and an addiction--something you cannot do without, such as television, coffee. If money has a grip on your heart, give some away and feel the inner release.

    ·        Develop a habit of giving things away. De-accumulate. Masses of things that are not needed complicate life. They must be sorted and stored and dusted and resorted and restored.

    “Our greatest challenge,” said Rob Bell, “will be to learn how to move this (unbelievable amassing of wealth and consumer goods) into blessings for others, or we will continue to be more selfish and indifferent to the cries of the world.”

    ·        Refuse to be propagandized by the custodians of modern gadgetry. Timesaving devices almost never save time. Most gadgets are built to break down and wear out and so complicate our lives rather than enhance them.

    ·        Learn to enjoy things without owning them. Many things in life can be enjoyed without possessing or controlling them. Share things.

    ·        Develop a deeper appreciation for the creation. Walk whenever you can. Listen to the birds. Marvel in the rich colors everywhere. Simplicity means to discover once again that "the earth is the Lord’s and everything in it" (Ps. 24:1).

    ·        Look with a healthy skepticism at all "buy now, pay later" schemes. They are a trap and serve to deepen your bondage. In biblical times, charging interest (not just exorbitant interest, but any interest) was viewed as unbrotherly exploitation of another’s misfortune, hence a denial of Christian community.

    ·        Shun whatever would distract you from your main goal. God give us the courage, wisdom, and strength always to hold as the number one priority of our lives to seek first His kingdom and His righteousness.

    Here are additional strategies to live simply and spiritual exercises to cultivate contentment:

    ·        Reduce waste (Images of Waste: 60,000 plastic bags used in the U.S. alone every 5 seconds, 106,000 aluminum cans used in the U.S. alone every 30 seconds, 426,000 cellphones retired in the U.S. alone every day).

    The question to ask as we consider simplifying and reducing is: “Even though something is commonplace, do we really need it in our lives?”[13]

    Jim Elliot, who along with four missionary companions was killed in an attempt to bring the gospel to the Auca Indians of Ecuador, had this as part of his personal creed: “He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose.” This is also a sound principle when deciding how much is enough.

    ·        From my personal experience, drive less, and maybe for a month or so, go computer-free.

    ·        Go TV-free for, maybe, 3 months?! Advertising is criticized for encouraging a consumerist mentality. Many advocates of voluntary simplicity tend to agree that cutting out, or cutting down, on television viewing is a key ingredient in simple living.[14]

    ·        And maybe live with others from your church community. If you can’t live together, at least find a way to share resources (children’s clothes/toys, etc).[15]

    In Closing…

    Some closing words of clarification. Whatever outward expressions of simplicity that we intend to practice, it is very important to remember that, as Richard Foster clarified, “The Christian discipline of simplicity is an inward reality that results in an outward life-style. Both the inward and the outward aspects of simplicity are essential…To attempt to arrange an outward life-style of simplicity without the inward reality leads to deadly legalism…Experiencing the inward reality liberates us outwardly…The lust for status and position is gone because we no longer need status and position…Our goods become available to others…We join the experience that Richard E. Byrd, after months alone in the barren Arctic, recorded in his journal, ‘I am learning…that a man can live profoundly without masses of things.’[16]

    Another word of clarification: “God intends that we should have adequate material provision. There is misery today from a simple lack of provision just as there is misery when people try to make a life out of provision. Forced poverty is evil and should be renounced. Nor does the Bible condone an extreme asceticism. Scripture declares consistently and forcefully that the creation is good and to be enjoyed…Without simplicity we will either capitulate to the ‘mammon’ spirit of this present evil age, or we will fall into an un-Christian legalistic asceticism… Simplicity sets us free to receive the provision of God as a gift that is not ours to keep and can be freely shared with others.[17]

    In other words, simplicity is something more, something other than just doing without or doing it yourself. Its essence is neither forsaking nor striving. Its essence, rather, is listening: What has God put in your heart? Simplicity is, once having discerned that, being content with it. In short, simplicity is being content with God.[18]



    [1] J. Dudley Woodberry, Russell G. Shubin, and G. Marks, Why Muslims Follow Jesus

    [2] Shantilal Bhagat,  Living Simply: Imperative Now

    [3] Wikipedia, Consumerism

    [4] Wikipedia, Consumerism

    [5] Shane Hipps interview, Dancing with Consumerism

    [6] Skye Jethani, From Lord to Label

    [7] Richard Foster, Discipline of Simplicity in Celebration of Discipline

    [8] Shane Hipps interview, Dancing with Consumerism

    [9] Eugene Peterson in an interview by David Wood

    [10] Christianity Today, Willow Creek Repents?

    [11] Shantilal Bhagat, Living Simply: Imperative Now

    [12] Richard Foster, Celebration of Discipline

    [13] Chad Hall, Living with Less

    [14] Wikipedia, Simple Living

    [15] Chris Smith, Stuck in Suburbia

    [16] Richard Foster, Discipline of Simplicity in Celebration of Discipline

    [17] Richard Foster, Discipline of Simplicity

    [18] Trapped in the Cult of the Next Thing



Saturday, December 30, 2006

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    “I’ll Be Home (with Jesus) for Christmas…and Forever” --Mama

    Our much-loved Mama has entered into God’s eternal presence and rest at 2:20 a.m. on Christmas day. It was both our saddest and most meaningful Christmas ever. It was obviously our saddest because, how could anyone bear the loss of someone who, to us, was hands down the most loving, caring, self-sacrificing and self-giving Mama and Lola in the world? How many people actually cry and grieve on Christmas day? Surely, not many. Yet we were one of those.

     

    Paradoxically, it was also the most poignant because on Christmas eve, during Mama’s last remaining moments here on earth, just about all her children and grandchildren were able to--one by one--meaningfully hold her hand, affectionately kiss her, and express our I-love-you and Thank-you-for-everything to Mama. Even Manong Lito, my brother in the U.S., made a timely call--the exact instant when it was to be his turn to convey love and appreciation to Mama. Those precious moments are etched forever in our minds and hearts.

     

    That was a deeply meaningful Christmas not only to us, but also and certainly to Mama. She gave a whole new twist to the line, “I’ll be home for Christmas”. She would spend Christmas in the presence of no less than the birthday Celebrator Himself! This is truly her best Christmas ever!

     

    Yes, the well-loved homemaker is now in her eternal home. And home is where she now finds rest, retirement, and a reunion.

     

    Firstly, rest from all her suffering and pain. She is now in the place of eternal rest in God’s presence where, as the Scriptures put it, “He’ll wipe every tear from the eyes of his people. Death is gone for good--tears gone, crying gone, pain gone…” (Revelation 21:4).

     

    What she is experiencing now is far better than palliative care or pain management. The relief from pain is not temporary. She would not need any rescue dose from a pain reliever anymore. The very presence of the God of comfort and His peace surrounds her. That is far better indeed. As the verse in her obituary reads, “our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed…” (Romans 8:18). Another version renders it this way, “there’s no comparison between the present hard times and the coming good times.” That’s a good deal more than just relief…Mama is now enjoying “glory”, and real “good times”! That is the spiritual reality. And we take comfort in it.

     

    Speaking of real good times, Mama is now, and secondly, enjoying retirement--in fact, benefiting from the best retirement plan ever.

     

    So many, if not all, know Mama as, in their words, “very accommodating”, “very hospitable”, “generous”, “selfless”. She lovingly and faithfully served her family for 87 long years. She is now getting her well-deserved retirement.

     

    My brothers and sisters here and I had the privilege of somewhat returning that favor, of serving her and taking care of her since the time we learned about her condition about three months ago. We even took turns in doing “overnight duty”. But that is a very small sacrifice, too little, not even worthy to be called sacrifice, compared to all that Mama did for us.

     

    She is, to us, the epitome of patient, loyal, uncomplaining, selfless, self-giving service. So though we are saddened by our huge loss, we are happy for her…for her retirement in heaven where there are no more troubles, no more worry, no more anxiety, no more fears. A perfect retirement place indeed for Mama…and for anyone who, through it all, has long served others as unto the Lord.

     

    Mind you, this, again, is far better than any recreation or leisure here on earth. “No comparison.” And this is not just about being stress-free or anything like that. Not at all. This is about infinite peace and joy! This, again, is spiritual reality. And we are happy for Mama because of it.

     

    Thirdly, Mama had looked forward and is now enjoying a much-awaited reunion with Papa, Manong Art, Ginelle, and all other loved ones who have gone ahead and are fellow believers of Jesus.

     

    Just a few days before entering into her eternal resting place, Mama gestured--stretched out her arms--and called out to Papa, “I miss you so much. I want to see you…your face again and soon.” You know how painful it was for her to lose also her eldest son, Manong Art, and her granddaughter Ginelle. They are all so precious to her. Finally, she is reunited with them.

     

    Mama loved to be surrounded by her big family. She loved occasions when we could all get together. In the meantime, she is with Papa, Manong Art, and Ginelle. But there will be a truly Grand Reunion one day. Our reunions here on earth--with all the t-shirts, food and games--are certainly “not worth comparing” with the glorious reunion in the best venue ever and with the best Host ever! This, also, is a spiritual reality, and we look forward to it.

     

    Mama, we are comforted that your suffering is over and you are now experiencing eternal rest. We are happy for you that you are now enjoying retirement from all the worries and cares of life here on earth. And most of all, oh how we long for the time that we would see you again, Mama, be with you, at the grandest reunion of all.

Friday, March 10, 2006

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    Eulogy

    (This eulogy was given last December yet but recent events brought back fond memories of my brother)

    I have just lost a dear brother--a good brother--a loveable brother--a well-loved brother. And the pain of losing such a brother is too deep for words.

    He was not just a brother--Manong Art, my eldest brother, was like a second father to me. When I was a little boy, he was there to call me names of endearment. He was also there to call my attention and correct me when needed. That balance between tenderness and toughness, fun and firmness contributed to a healthy upbringing.

    Manong Art was also a good role model for me. I have always admired him for being an honest and hard worker and an exceptionally loving husband to Ate Mila and father to his three children, namely Mimie, Bong, and Roy.

    How can you and I bear such a huge loss? I take comfort in the fact that Manong Art’s passing away was of a peaceful, pleasant, and prepared kind. 

    *       First, it was a peaceful passing away. Though the cause of death was a massive heart attack, yet he simply acknowledged the pain in his chest to the doctor, closed his eyes, nodded, and that was it. I believe that even in death he reflected “the peace of God that surpasses all understanding which secured his mind and heart”. This was possible because years ago he made his “peace with God by trusting in the reconciling work of Jesus Christ”. 

    *       Second, it was a pleasant passing away. It was pleasant because mutual love--reciprocal love, which had characterized his family life, continued on till his last few moments. Hugging, kissing, and the exchanging of “I love you” affirmations were seen and heard between Manong Art and Ate Mila, him and his children, him and Mama even on the day of his departure. Again, that atmosphere was a reflection of “the love of God which had motivated his life” and relationships. The love of God started to be the motivating force of his life since the time he received Christ into his heart--“Christ, whose death on the cross for our forgiveness is the utmost demonstration of God’s love for us.”

    *       Third, it was a prepared kind of passing away. Prepared not only in the sense that Manong Art had arranged a small business for Bong and Ate Mila, had assisted Roy in securing a house, and had entrusted Mimie to her future husband; but also in terms of his eternal destiny. Indeed years ago, Manong Art placed his security and confidence in Jesus Christ as his Savior and Master. This prepared him to live “life to the full”--a life of ongoing transformation and growing in love. Manong Art may not be rich in temporal possessions, but he is truly rich where it counts for eternity--he was rich in character and love. He had a large soul and a big heart.

    Manong Art was not only prepared to live, he was also prepared to leave--to dwell in his “mansion in heaven which his Savior Jesus had prepared for him”.

    ---

    Life is indeed fleeting--here today and gone tomorrow. Therefore may we not only be comforted by the peaceful, pleasant, and prepared passing away of Manong Art. May we be challenged to go and pursue the same.

    “Today if you hear His voice, do not harden your heart.” Make your peace with God today. Receive the love of God today. “Be prepared to meet your Maker.” Put your confidence in Jesus Christ as your Reconciler, Forgiver, and Master...today.

Thursday, August 04, 2005

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    I went again last week to a quiet place with a good view where I sometimes go to look to God in silent prayer and meditation. It is the patio of a simple cafeteria at Ateneo de Manila University. It has a panoramic sight of Marikina Valley and has the far-off mountains as backdrop.

     
    There I started to do some confessing. Among other things, I was expressing to God how sorry I was for having just been awfully harsh to someone who works at the Shopwise grocery. He couldn’t find the price tag of a pair of soccer socks I wanted and I was mad! Only a couple of days ago I was telling our community of faith that every human being is created in the image of God and therefore deserves to be treated with respect and dignity...and here I was, forgetting and violating the very truth I was teaching!

     
    Then something amazing happened. Near the close of my confession, the clouds that were covering my view of the mountains were abruptly and totally cleared away! I had a stunningly cloudless and picture perfect visual of the distant mountains! It was undeniable that God was illustrating to me how admission of sin lets His light in and uncovers my vision of Him.

     
    O Lord, I have heard a good word inviting me to look away to Thee...My heart longs to respond, but sin has clouded my vision till I see Thee but dimly. Be pleased to cleanse me in Thine own precious blood, and make me inwardly pure, so that I may with unveiled eyes gaze upon Thee all the days of my earthly pilgrimage... (A. W. Tozer)

Saturday, July 30, 2005

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    faintly you surround me
    faintly you surround me
    faintly you surround me
    and i feel your touch

     
    the wind in the tree softly whispers
    the wind in the tree softly whispers
    the wind in the tree softly whispers
    and i hear your voice

     
    so went the worship song we were singing last sunday. after worshiping together through music, i mused aloud before our gathered faith community that it would be good to pray and long for a greater knowing that God surrounds us...because he really does. there is actually no space in the universe that he does not fill. indeed, “the whole earth is full of his glory.” or as another vineyard song puts it, “this is the air i breathe...your holy presence.” moreover, he is a God who acts and a God who speaks. if only we would learn to embrace this reality and let him envelop us every time and in everything, then it would surely transform the way we live and do things. we would, “in all our ways, acknowledge him.” and then i suggested, as a spiritual exercise, to take a quiet walk one of these days and softly sing:

     
    faintly you surround me...and i feel your touch
    the wind in the tree softly whispers...and i hear your voice

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