Friday, July 25, 2008

Thursday, July 24, 2008

  • No really, I'm just not interested.


    So guy likes girl. Girl thinks guy is a great friend. Guy wants more than friendship from girl. Girl says, no thanks. You would think that Guy would leave girl alone, but no, he decides to pursue her.

    It is my personal belief that the more you pursue someone that does not want to be pursued by you, the more that person will withdraw from you. It will get to a point where they might go out of their way to avoid you. Sometimes the person is nice and tries to be friendly because that is their nature. However, if you consistently pursue them it might be viewed as taking advantage of their good nature.

    Generally an answer of no should be taken as no. If you are friends and you expect that person to withdraw their friendship because of the no then you have to ask yourself why you were friends in the first place and whether it was truly friendship.

    In conclusion, if I say no, please respect no as no and do not ask me again. Do not read too much into my actions. Can't we all just be friends?

  • Self Image


    Sometimes I just feel fat.


Wednesday, July 23, 2008

  • It's Wednesday


    I am sure you are aware of this fact.
    Wednesday is good in many ways ...
    + it's the middle of the work week so that means only two more days before the weekend
    + it's got the most letters in it for the days of the week

    Anyway, I'm in the middle of three personal projects - two photos and one video - and I really am just way too tired when I come home at night to get anything done. Oh wells.

    I'm not even sure why I'm writing here other than to take up for now. However, I've been in conversations about relationships recently, I dunno why, it seems like I've spoken to everyone about relationships!!!! I have two things that I'm tossing around in my head about it right now. we'll see how that goes.

    otherwise, it's just another Wednesday. God loves you. Good night.

shanella

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Stephenie Meyer
2008.08.02


Justine Larbalestier
2008.09.16


Christopher Paolini
2008.09.20

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Cornelia Funke
2008.11.01


Holly Black
2008.11.01

Gallagher Girl 3
Ally Carter
2009.06.09