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Original: 9/14/2005 11:01 PM
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Wednesday, September 14, 2005
 "a true friend stabs you in the front." - oscar wilde

and for a friend who stabs you in the back, i guess it's also a sign of true friendship when you can own up to your mistakes, take responsibility and learn from it. recently i've learned that.

i feel bad that i've hurt a friend, but i think it's frustrating when folks have problems with you and can't talk to you about it. i value the relationships that i developed in my time here in new york. and recently there have been people who have disappointed me immensely. what i value from friends is their honesty, because i think that it's a sign of respect. friends call each other out on their shit. and if you have something to say to me, say it...or don't say it at all. for folks who can't confront issues or don't have enough balls to talk about conflicts on a one on one basis, it's truly a sign of immaturity and lack of self-respect...if you value yourself, your principles and your opinions, you should have enough respect to voice them.
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random eprops...   i agree with you... i can only say.. welcome to NY... i had friends that stabbed me in the back and they just don't know the word respect.
Posted 9/14/2005 11:12 PM by Ah_Snow_Snow - reply

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I totally expect my friends to call me out and be truthful with me.  I think it's the best gift a friend can give.

Posted 9/15/2005 4:18 AM by weldon Xanga Premium Member - reply

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I quite agree. I don't believe in false pretenses (which is actually redundant after looking up the work "pretense") or fake people. I don't care how "nice" they seem to be if they can't be real & honest. I've pruned a few people from my life this year for such character flaws because I want a higher quality life.
Posted 12/11/2005 10:42 PM by StickyAzn Xanga Lifetime Member - reply


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