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Monday, May 12, 2008

  • I was on the radio this morning.

    Our church broadcasts the 9:30 mass out on the radio.  Sometimes choir sings at 9:30, but I'm always just part of the choir crowd then.  11:30 mass is when I cantor. 

    For reasons completely unknown to me, I got scheduled to be the cantor for this mass.  Not only did I have all the usual stuff, it was Pentecost, so I had to sing the sequence, and then the piece we did for gifts had this lovely little cantor solo bit.  So I had to sing all this extra stuff, for radio broadcast, while half asleep.  And just for fun -- the choir director decided to add a verse of the solo thing that on Wednesday was not part of the reportoire and hence not practiced.  Yeah, let's screw me up when I'm sleepwalking.

    And yes, you better believe I was thinking about that radio audience every time I messed up.  Never know who might be listening.  Like my friends -- who I don't sing in front of. 

    Then I came home and crashed on the couch for the rest of the day.  8 am is really too early to be awake.

Wednesday, May 07, 2008

  • Well.

    It looks like all the ducks are now in a row and the future, for as much as it can be, is set. 

    On a whim, the husband was interviewing for jobs, none of them around here.  He got two offers.  One of the jobs he really wanted, but they were offering him a ridiculously low salary, especially so for the location.  The second job interview and offer came out of nowhere, and it would have meant turning our lives upside down.  Discussing it, weighing the options for both of us, consumed our lives.  It was really hard to concentrate on anything.  Even though I have no intentions on going back to an office job if I don't have to, the idea of having more freelance opportunities through local channels was something we had to consider, too.  The deciding factor were some comments made by the man who would have been the boss, insinuating that us coming to visit the town was pointless.  The husband would be moving for the job, not the location, the would-be-bossman said.  The husband said to me, "That says to me, that not only does he expect me to focus on nothing but my job, it also disrespects you and our family."  That was not the type of job situation he wanted to end up in.

    He's not going to rule out looking, and we're starting to think that perhaps a new adventure will be in our future.  But right now, it's probably more important that we stay here.  There are people who are depending on us in a way they didn't this time last year. 

    The past few months have been weird.  We couldn't plan anything because we didn't know where we'd be come summer or fall.  I'd get depressed when we'd talk about things we'd need to do to get the house ready -- these are things that I have wanted to do for years, but with growing kids, with kids and a husband in college, with me just starting out in a new business venture, little remodeling projects were low priorities. 

    But the talk about what we would have needed to do spurred something, and we're starting to make some plans.  These aren't projects that will happen overnight, but they will happen now. 

    Mostly I'm happy things are staying the same, but there's a part of me that's a little sad.  Everybody around me is going through some sort of change.  Granted, not all the changes involve happy circumstances for my friends and family, but they are turning into positive things and everyone seems excited by the changes happening.  Me?  I just plod along, everybody's anchor.  I was a little excited for visiting a new town, in a new state, looking for a new house.  A new kitchen floor or a new roof aren't quite the same, but at least I don't have to pack up the frog room.

Saturday, April 26, 2008

  • Life is really in a state of flux here.  But all should be settle shortly.

    Now for a little rant.  Anyone who knows me knows that my religion is very important to me.  Being Catholic is part of who I am.  I don't apologize for that (nor should I), but I also don't think that everyone should share my views. 

    I know there are a lot of people who dislike religion because of the way it shapes behavior, that people hate on other people because of religion.  That is true, of course, and something I've seen a lot of over the past week.

    During the Pope's visit to the U.S., I read blogs written by non-Catholics that ripped Catholicism to shreds, telling us how we should believe, what we should believe, and that priests are nothing but pedophiles and if they were allowed to marry, the abuse would come to a stop.  Those posts are insulting in more ways than I can count.

    Then comes the great irony, one of those bloggers who ripped on Catholics just days ago (and said she had the right to do so, free speech and all) has posted a scathing blog against someone who dared to make negative comments on her religion and is essentially demanding others boycott the offender's blog.  As I'm reading that blog, an email from the husband comes through with a note from his mother, talking about how they are renting their condo to a Muslim family and that the neighbors are up in arms about having someone from THAT religion living there. 

    This bothers me, this idea that it is okay to form and speak opinions on someone else's religious beliefs but they can't do the same about yours.  I'm not talking about bringing up these ideas for discussion -- I encourage that actually.  No, it is the automatic assumption that if someone disagrees with your religion that person is stupid, ignorant, uninformed, plotting against you, a terrorist, a child molestor, etc.  Instead of helping people learn and grow, these assumptions and posts just generate more hate, more stereotypes. 

    I guess it has become a knee-jerk reaction.  You read a post where someone questions a religious practice opposite of your beliefs and the comments tend to follow the "this is why I hate organized religion."  It doesn't add to the dialogue.  It doesn't allow for the opportunity for someone to explain the reasons behind a practice. 

    Rather than hate on each other because what we write doesn't fit into your belief system, why don't we ask questions and get a conversation going.

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

  • We should know in a few days now if there will be changes are coming.  Yesterday, I was sure life was going to go on as normal.  Today, one little email threw everything all askew again.  Sigh.

    But there is something fun to look forward to on the horizon -- the daughter is coming home in August.  More importantly, the grandbaby is coming home in August.    He's going to be baptized on the trip home; joint baptism/belated first birthday party will follow. 

    And April 22, so many things to be thankful for.  The Flyers win and move on in the playoffs.  The Phillies come from behind and win and finally go above .500.  And in my other favorite sport, the Pennsylvania primaries have come and gone.  Clinton/Obama was the minor race happening in this area.  Our Congressman announced his retirement rather suddenly, and the race for the seat was a free-for-all.  We had two inexperienced, barely old enough to be Congressmen, rich boys duking it out with daddy's millions.  (I read somewhere that spending by the one candidate was third most in the country for a seat; only the guys fighting for Dennis Hastert's old seat in Chicago spent more.  This is freakin' rural Pennsylvania for a seat that means nothing politically.)  Forget the never ending TV commercials.  The last 2-3 weeks, we got minimum of 2, usually more, flyers from each rich boy.  I'm not sure why my household needs to receive 4 of the same ad in a single mailing.  And one set of flyers talked about caring for the environment????   (Actually, the amount of wasteful ads received from the Obama camp made me uncomfortable, too.  If you want to be considered a "green" candidate, quit sending an ad a day, okay?).  I loved that we were so important politically, but I'm relieved the circus has moved on for a little while.  The phone calls and doorbell ringingin while I was trying to work were annoying.

Sunday, April 20, 2008

  • I read an article today in the Philadelphia Inquirer that Comcast is trolling blogs and the like, looking for complaints about its company.

    Oh Comcast . . . come here . . .

    Okay, there is one thing I do like about Comcast in my town.  It comes with CSN Philadelphia and CN8.  It means I can overdose on Phillies baseball.  The first 19 years of our lives in State College, Phillies baseball on TV was just a dream or something happened with the Phils played on FOX on Saturdays or ESPN on Sundays or played the Pirates, Braves, or Mets.  Maybe.  I thank you for that Comcast.  The husband, eh, not so much.

    Here's what I don't like about Comcast.  We have a HD box for our digital cable.  Just HD.  No DVR.  Never did.  Weren't planning on it.  We're not so addicted to TV that we can't bear to miss something.  We had the HD box for almost 18 months. 

    But suddenly we are getting charged more.  In fact, we're being charged for a DVR box.  On the phone, Comcast tells us we're lying and phone rep number one hangs up on the husband.  Rep number two on the call back says we were under a special offer that changed and now we're being charged for our DVR, and then tried to give us all kinds of reasons why we're getting these extra charges.  But she will take it off the bill.  The husband checks back a few days later.  It is still on the bill.

    Another call, more excuses.  The husband tries to explain that we don't have a DVR box, if we did we could record, right.  Yes, he was told.  He tried.  He could no record.  Woman told him he was doing something wrong.  He told her they were screwy.  She finally said either he had to take his box to the local office or we pay for a service rep to come out and check the situation.  He opts to take the box to the local office, canceling plans to meet me for a friend's happy hour celebration.

    He gets to the Comcast office, and the woman rolls her eyes.  "There is nothing wrong with your box," she says.  "It's HD, not DVR."  Apparently, Comcast is adding this extra charge to lots of customers.  Either the company is corrupt, trying to scam people into paying for something they aren't getting, or there are employees who are into some fishy behaviors. 

    As it is, we plan to report this scam to our local government officials.  After reading today's Inqy article, the Comcast hoo-hahs should know, too. 

    The husband says any more issues like this from Comcast, and he's going with DirectTV and its more HD channels (really, we can't understand why our Comcast doesn't offer more, like the local CBS station).  Do you know how painful it would be for me to lose my Phillies?  So Comcast, stop screwing up.

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