| | Usually when we get caught up in relationships, we tend to think that nothing else around us matters and you become so attatched because we love the feelings we get when we are in relationships, especially serious ones.
But, the biggest mistake that you can honestly make is to ditch friends and family things for your boyfriend. Your feelings of wanting to be with him constantly are normal, but don't let them take over you. It not only hurts those around you, but it won't be long until the both of you get sick of each other faster and it's harder to get along later on.
Another thing you have to realize is that you can have fun with your friends. No, you can't kiss them or cuddle them like your boyfriend kind of fun, but you can shop, gossip or whatever it is you do that you can't do with your boyfriend. If he doesn't like shopping, go with your friends. Let your girly side come out with your friends and other parts of you that isn't really apart of your relationship. Besides, try going out for a day and come back late at night and you'll see that those exciting feelings you get with your boyfriend is even more intense when you havn't seen him in a while and you miss him.
The point is that you both have to have lives around each other. There has to be your life, and then there's your relationship life. There has to be his life, and his relationship life. If you don't take time off from him to be with your friends, then soon you'll realize that your friends havn't been calling you and without him you're sitting around bored with no life behind your boyfriend.
Even though you may not want to, call a friend and ask her to a movie or something you both like to do. Let her know that you're sorry that you havn't been out that much anymore, but you're geting settled in your relationship and you're coming back out. |
| | Posted 1/2/2008 2:21 PM - 9 views - 2 comments
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