Best Friends???So I know that I am not the smartest person in the world, and I know that I have said this before but I really do not get the importance of the phrase ‘best friend’. There is something to it that I have never understood and maybe that is why I reject that terminology. I do not like it in the least bit. Best is defined as 1 : excelling all others <the best student> 2 : most productive of good : offering or producing the greatest advantage, utility, or satisfaction <what is the best thing to do> Friend is defined as 1 a : one attached to another by affection or esteem b : ACQUAINTANCE 2 a : one that is not hostile b : one that is of the same nation, party, or group 3 : one that favors or promotes something (as a charity) 4 : a favored companion Even putting these definitions together does not really make a good definition of best friend. I want to know what is a best friend and how are they any different than all of your other friends? Recently I have been observing different groups of people and how they use the phrase ‘best friends’ and even ‘friends’. Sometimes it seems like they are using those phrases as I don’t know…..something to hang over your head. ‘hey I’m your friend so you need to spend time with me, talk to me.’ ‘I’m your best friend and you haven’t written on my wall or called me all day today.’ What is the deal?? In today’s world do people not realize there is more to a friendship than being number one on someone’s friends list, or getting a phone call everyday? Sorry sometimes friendships today seem superficial from the outside looking in, and that just might be because of what people allow the world to see. I may not give any of my friends that title of best friend, but I try to make sure that they know how special and important to me. All of my friends are important to me in their own special way and there is no way that they can compete with one another. I am so blessed to have amazing friends that are always there when I know I need them and are there when I am in the dark depths of a fight and do not know that I need their support. So tell me what is your definition of ‘best friend’? |