As a man, I can't tell you one thing that a woman says that perplexes me more than "I want a man who is honest. A man who isn't a liar like all of the rest." Now, before I conduct a certain experiment, I'm going to tell you guys something: be careful what you wish for. I'm going to wind up breaking…

Stay true to yourself because there are very few people who will stay true to you. Letting go doesn’t mean giving up, but rather accepting that there are things that cannot be. Thinking too much of what others think of you ultimately changes what you think of yourself. Worry about loving y…

I see the gray creeping into wings at the side of my head. The crows feet at the corners of my eyes extending. I feel the onset of time like the onrushing of a tide in the northern seas that I live by now, first the waves lap periodically at the once dry rocks, then water seeps in between then and s…

Hi everyone, my name is Kaitlin and I have a problem. Here's what it is: putting on a false front. I don't like writing blogs or talking to people about when I am struggling. I have this insecurity. It makes me believe that I am not supposed to let anyone know how much I am falling apart. The o…

I am in the midst of a successful friends-with-benefits “arrangement”. We have been seeing each other casually for about four months. We have a lot of fun together, he’s wildly attractive, and yet I do not desire to take our relationship to the next level. My friends think it&rsqu…