• Is Your Attraction to Certain Races Considered Racism?

    You'd probably be surprised at the obviousness of the title if it weren't presented in the relationship forum. Yet, why shouldn't discriminating someone based on their race be classified as racism for dating? The usual response is that having a relationship with someone requires innate attraction&m…
  • The Truth About Preference

    I'm growing bald; I've been growing bald since I was 15. Because I have genetic baldness, it's something that I don't have much control over. People have always told me that I have no reason to be upset about it; after all, I have little to no control over it, so why should I be upset over somethin…
  • "Cut it Short!"

    Long black hair doesn't seem to be working well for some women nowadays. Most of the women are getting short hairstyles. I always adore women with short hairstyles because it makes them look so confident and look like successful career women. After keeping my hair short from the age of 8 until 21,…
  • Tall Women = No Thank You?

    This post was submitted anonymously. For as long as I can remember, I’ve noticed a general gravitation of men towards significantly shorter women that has left a puzzling question in my head: Do men really prefer “Short” Women? This can’t be. I refuse to accept that. I mean…
  • So What If He's Shorter Than You?

    This post was submitted anonymously. I'm not exactly a tall girl, but at 5'7" I'm definitely not a short one either. I have dated guys taller than me, I have dated guys my height, and my current boyfriend of almost 2 years is nearly a foot shorter than me. My question is who the fuck cares? When I…
  • Fake or Natural?

    I once asked a male friend what guys think about obviously artificial-looking girls. You know, the ones with false eyelashes everyday, layers of makeup, eyebrows drawn in higher, long plastic nails, hair bleached to a shade too light for their skin tone, etc. Now this is the guy who I refer to as th…
  • My taste limits my options

    Why do I always find myself attracted to men who happen to be either married, Jewish, gay, or already deceased? (Or any combination of the above.) The point is, they're all off limits. I'm just expressing my exasperation and am not actually asking for an answer. To clarify: 1. I am attracted to…
  • Music as a Gift

    I don't listen to music during *all* my free time like some seem to do, but when I do listen I appreciate a variety, from nature music and 'Celtic Woman' to Southern Gospel to Evanescence to the occasional Lecrae. In my life, I've frequently found that people don't appreciate the same music I do. W…
  • Financials.

    Had my #Citi #MTVU #credit-card since 11/08. Didn't know any better, and just jumped into getting a credit card w/out doing research. After using it for quite some time, I realized the point rewards system was dumb. I applied for (and was rejected from) a #Chase-Freedom card. (06/11) wahwah. Cited…
  • Women like low-voiced men?

    According to a study mentioned in this article, women prefer low male voices, and were more likely to remember what the low voices said. The reasoning was that it was related with mate selection, and a deep voice was a sign of masculinity. I must be an exception, because I like male voices that are…