• Walking Contradiction

    I took some time to think about what I am. What characteristics I'm comprised of that make me the unique individual that I am. And I realized I'm very contradictory. My beliefs, my emotions, my morals, what I stand for, what I don't stand for, what moves me, what I like and dislike, should not under…
  • Why Can't I Bring My Girlfriend to Prom?

    A northern Mississippi school district will not be hosting a high school prom this spring after a lesbian student sought to attend with her girlfriend and wear a tuxedo. School policy requires that senior prom dates be of the opposite sex. The ACLU of Mississippi had given the district until Wed…
  • School District Bans Prom -Who Is to Blame?

    A school district in Northern Mississippi has canceled their prom after a lesbian student requested the right to take her girlfriend to prom and wear a tux. [Lesbian teen in prom flap sues, returns to school] They claim it's against the rules to have a same sex couple attend prom [I read this i…
  • Offended or Flattered?

    Would you be offended or flattered if a gay guy (for the guys) or a lesbian (for the girls) was hitting on you and trying to pick you up? The other night while I was out with friends, this guy just comes up to us and starts talking to my guy friend. Now we didn't think anything at first because…
  • Bi-Curious or Homophobic?

    A group of friends of mine were discussing how we girls thought a certain girl was very attractive, and a statement popped up: "Girls tend to be bi-curious, and guys tend to be homophobic." I think I'd tend to agree. There are plenty of times when, as a heterosexual female in a committed relati…
  • The Case of the "Down Low" Husband

    One of my male besties is gay. The other day he told me about how he is currently talking to a guy who claims he is straight. This guy is married, and he has a three-year-old child. Now maybe I'm the confused one, but how can you be a straight male when you allow another male to stick it and l…
  • Does Asexuality Exist?

    There is a debate in the science world as to whether or not asexuality is a valid sexual orientation and should be recognized as such or is simply Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder? Neither side has been proven correct. Quite frankly, I'm not sure it will be proven any time soon. The theory of as…
  • Relationship Advice from a Bisexual

    I have read any number of posts on Xanga and elsewhere complaining about the opposite sex. Recently it was men are mean. Many responded in kind with women are bitches. Some men can't stand getting turned down in a bar. Some don't call the next day. Some women are too clingy, they talk too much, o…
  • Sorry, I Don't Swing That Way

    Since I know and heard a lot of straight guys tend to dig lesbians, might it be the same with straight girls for gay guys? One really stunning situation of which I oversaw was when this straight guy asked a lesbian if she wants to try it with him. The conversation went something like this:
  • Love is Love, Regardless of Sexual Orientation.

    Well. There you go. You did it. You succeeded in making life difficult for other people simply because they are different. I hope you are happy. I hope you are satisfied. But even more so, I hope that every one of you meets a person who happens to be gay and in love. I hope you come to care…