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1st Question is from : classic_quotesxox

2nd Question is from : bowtame

3rd Question is from : yourmy1stdream

4th Question is from : pure_glamour_quotesx3

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Question from: cherrislove

I think thats the last of the questions...keep asking though. I love the subscribing and comments! thanks so much!

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Have you ever lost your best friend?
(i dont mean they died, i mean you two just drifted apart or something)

Me: yea, i really miss her.we had a huge fight but we made up last week so its kinda better, i also got a really amazing boyfriend out of it, whos my best friend now, and he's a better friend than she ever was.

wow, 50 subscribers! that is amazing! i love you girls!

okay, wow lots and lots of questions huh? ill try to get to atleast 1-2 today but im im CHICAGO!

heres the first one: from basketballqt123:

there's a boy whom ive liked for a little while, and he likes me back. well we were "together" and what not, and things were good. well, one night he went to a party, and had been drink && when he drinks he's touchy feely. well... he happened to kiss a girl that i dont really care for, who had/has a boyfriend. thennnn... he told me he was going to the beach with his friend who was home from college, to go fishing, it was pretty believable. then i find out he spent the whole night locked in the hotel room w/2 girls, and wouldnt answer anyones calls or texts. we decided to just be friends, but we both still like(d) each other a lotttt. my friend took me to go talk to him, and we ended up kissing. then we started fighting over really stupid things, and it got to the point, i felt like i couldnt do ANYTHING without him getting mad at me. so i asked him about it, and he said it was bc he was mad that we werent "together" anymore. and that he missed everything we had. so we talked stuff out and settled stuff down. the only problem i have now, is does he REALLY deserve a 2nd/3rd chance? i know its kinda one of those follow your heart things, but i need a little imput.

to sum all that up...QUESTION:
Should I give him a 2nd chance?

Well, personaly I am a person who believes in many many chances. I once gave a guy 4 chances. But after that i realized that was pretty stupid cause he never promised to change what he had done wrong in the first place. So, I say give him a second chance, but only if you two can work things out first before getting back together. Make sure you understand each others side of the story and agree with what went wrong in the first place. There is no reason you shouldn't give him another chance except for that you can't trust him.

Okay, hope that helps, if you have any more questions about that comment me back. NEXT!

this comes from cherriislove:

Me & this guy were together for a year & 7 months. During this period, I was head over heels in love & I think he kinda took that for granted sometimes. Then he broke up with me cause we basically fought too much & I later found out he cheated on me. [He denies anything & that they were just friends---I'm not stupid though] We finally quit talking to each other January 06 & the whole summer was great. I didn't have a steady boyfriend but I just had a lot of fun without worrying about guys. I did still kind of missed "my guy" though. School started and it made it even worse cause I had to see him everyday. I can't stand seeing him even talk to another girl, it makes my heart cringe. &&& well now we're back talking again. It's like we're together and all. &&& now he acts like the total sweetheart I wish he was when we were together for that year & 7 months. He calls and texts me constantly and always calls me baby & now wants to see me every day, which he never did. I know he's trying to make up for what he didn't do, but I wish he'd just go back to being himself, like the boy I fell in love with. [Except  me not TOTALLY taken for granted] &&& now I don't know what to do. Make him unsweet.

Wow, thats an interesting thing...you want him to be unsweet?? hmmm...*thinking*

Okey dokey:
 you liked him the way he was before you broke up but you didnt like that he took you for granted. Now that you two are friends again, why not just talk to him about it. He seems to be a pretty nice guy so im pretty sure he'd understand it. Just ask him whats up with his change in heart. Maybe he had a mental renovation and now thinks about things differently, not a bad thing. I say, try talking about it. Remember: It never hurts to ask. But before you think about getting back together with him think about the things he used to do to you...cheating on you? denying you ever went out? Just be strong and careful. And remember prince charmings dont come along everyday.

sorry, that question was interesting and i tried to answer it the best i could, if anyone else has any suggestoins comment on it. thanks!

Next questions comes from: geekiness101

i'm 14 years old. i have a boyfriend of 2 months. my longest relationship is with my ex. and that was 8 months. but it's the same old story. he broke up with me for another girl. i was devastated. i turned to the worst possible thing out there..and that's cutting myself. i used to just do it on my wrist. but now i do it on my wrist, leg, arm. where ever i can really. my dad lives in florida, but i live in ohio, with my mom. she's remarried and my step dad is a complete asshole. my real dad found out that i cut myself. he told my sister (who's only a year older than me, so we're pretty close) that he wouldn't tell anyone about it, as long as she gets me to stop. well, that didn't work. so my dad called my mom and had a big disscussion about it. and my mom asked me about it, i showed her, and she said she wanted to get me 'help'. i refused. i'm not going to go to a freaking shrink to have him listen to my problems. i can talk to anyone about it..but i'm done talking..i do need help. i stopped for about 2 months. and then me and my current boyfriend started fighting a lot. you see, he lives in a different town, so we only see each other 1 or maybe 2 times a week. and everything just isn't going very well. then, my ex boyfriend (one of 8 months who completely broke my heart) has been talking to me lately, and wants to try and work things out. but i love my current boyfriend. alot. but i can't stop thinking about my ex. it's making me want to do really bad things. if you know what i'm saying. well, i guess my question is this...

"How do I stop cutting, when it's the only thing that's been there for me in the past 2 years?"

Okay, I had a friend who cut herself so I understand. Cutting can seem like the only thing you have control over in your whole life. When things get hard you'll turn to that. But it is not the answer! I bet you have supportive friends who will help you, and a guy who wants to be there for you. Try and tell them about your problems instead of cutting. The next time you want to cut yourself try hitting a pillow instead and write down your problem in a journal. If that doesnt work try to tell someone. Please try to stop. And realize life could be a lot worse. I mean a ton, you have a home and a wonderful Dad and sister. They're there for you, and I'm here if you need help, even though you dont really know me.

Hope this helps!

Next questoin is from: quotezzz_4_yooh.

heyy okk.. uh m so my name`s heather.. and i have a boyfriend of 2 months.. we`re a lot closer than other couples would be at two months because we`ve been really good friends for about two years.. well.. i liked him in 1st grade.. and he transfered school after that so i sorta forgot about him.. then i met him again in 8th grade.. and i liked him on and off throughout the year.. you know how you don`t really ge t over the person.. you just sorta learn to live with the face that they have someone else and that you aren`t the person they want? well yeahh.. he went out with about 3 girls in the time span that i`ve liked him.. and i sorta learned to deal with the face that he`d never like mee.. but about 3 months ago he told me he did.. but said he didn`t want to be in a relationship at the moment, and i totally understood, so i waited.. eventually i sorta gave up on waiting and i didnt expect him to as me out or anything, but i still really liked him.. one day.. he asked me out.. out of the blue with no warning whatsoever.. and of corse i said yes.. and well.. we`ve been really close ever since.. my parents don`t allow me to date.. `cos they think i`m way too young.. and they sorta suspect that we`re together.. i deny it everytime.. but now they`ve forbid me to even talk to him on the phonee.. if they everr find out that we`re together.. i`d be dead.. almost literally.. my parents are abusive.. so i woudlnt question if they`d do something that would physicly hurt me really bad.. and well.. if they ever caught me on the phone with him or out hanging out with him, they told me they`d beat me til i could get the idea of not being with him in my head.. well of corse.. i`m almost in love with my boyfriend.. andi really don`t wanna let him go, but this is so hardd and i`ve been feeling kinda depressed lately.. i really don`t wanna leave him `cos i honestly think we have a future together.. but it`s getting so hardd.. i don`t know waht to do.

Don't give up! Look up! He's an amazing guy! He has to be worth it! Okay, I understand the boy thing, I have a boyfriend I am madly in love with and I think we have a future together, really I do. Never give up on that, it is possible. My parents didn't allow me to date either, until I showed them that I was responsible. I gave up yelling and screaming (which I did alot), I helped my mom around the house, I did chores w/o being asked. It really turned things around and gave me a lot more privleges, like more allowance, and they approved me having a boyfriend. So try and do that, it may take a while but it is really worth it, the trust you get from them is amazing. You can almost do anything. Also, you said they were abusive, well that is wrong and illegal. If they ever no anything to hurt you tell someone, another friend, another adult of some sort, a guidance conselor, anyone! Try these things and im pretty sure they'll approve your guy. and even trust you a little more.

Next question is from icons_awesomeness:

Okay... so one of my best friends is a guy, and I talk to him quite a bit on the phone. The problem is that pretty much all he talks about is his girlfriend, and what they did for their date, and whatever. It's just getting kind of annoying. I don't know how to ask him to stop without sounding like a jealous bitch, (which I'm not). I don't like him, or anything, I just wish he'd talk about something else for at least half of the conversation.

Try and turn the conversation around, ask about anything else, sports, movies (besides the one he's seen w/ her), school, parents, food...anything. if that doesn't work even a little, just tell him you'd rather talk about something else. But do it in a gently way, dont say shut up i hate talking about your freaking girl friend...i dont think you would but dont. If he's a good friend he'll try to understand.

Questions from: swap_gorgeous.

Well; i need some advice. I've had a boyfriend recently and things are good. Its just that hes too shy to make the first move like kissing on the lips or cheek or to hug me. Hes really shy. He liked me and his friend courages him to ask me out. so he did. but up ntil then he doesnt really do something adorable or sweet. and i was just wondering, should i just wait until he makes the first move? or should i just make the move first?

If you want it go for it! thats seriously what I always say. What's wrong with the girl making the first move? NOTHING!

Question from: sweetnsimple_quotes

I was in a car accident yesterday. I was driving with my guy friend & we were offroading and i totally rolled his car. Glass shattered and the only thing that went thru me head was: My dad's gonna be mad at me & is my friend okay? The reality of everything just hit me today... I coulda killed him & me... Idk if there's any advice you could give tho, i think i just need something to help me get thru it... It really shook me up.

You are lucky to be alive. Thank God you are. I'd be shook up too if that happened to me, but realize you got through it all okay. Next time you get shook up about it, just take a few deep breaths and realize you're fine. It's an experience you'll never forget but it happened and you made it through.

Next Question is from: mynameiskg

so there's this boy i have known since last year. we had a couple classes, but never talked. then this year we had one class, and we said a few things to each other. one of my friends, [used to be a good one but not so much anymore] had a crush on him and wanted me to find out who he liked. so i got his sn and started talking to him. it turns out we have so many things in common..fav food, fav color, fav number, we both can't swallow pills either because it scares us. like its just kind of crazy. and now i finally get how cute he is and how nice. and i really started to fall for him. he seems to feel the same, flirting and sending cute messages and stuff. he always says before he signs off, "i'll text you" sometimes he does, and sometimes he doesnt. but he likes to have his little hook up buddies too...and that makes me feel like i'm being played. also i feel bad for my friend who liked him first. what do i do?

If you think he's an amazing guy, go for it. Your friend, if she's a true friend will understand. But you have to be willing to take the risk of getting played. before making a rash decision to go out with him think about the pros and cons of going out with him and then decide if its a good idea, but i think it is if he's so amazing and you have so much in common. Not many guys come along that are like that, so you have to jump at the chances.

whoa, i got them all done! wow, im proud of myself. I hope that helped, comment me back on what happens or anything. Thank you so much for asking! I love helping you girls out! By the way, if my answer sucked tell me, please. I'm going to try and add scroll bars for each question, thank to flyy_quotes for the idea. But i dont have time now. if you have any answers/help to questions feel free to comment about them, just put who asked it. I'll post those "help" comments in posts.

p.s. there was one questions about the dif. of sex and oral sex...um...i dont know...sorry.

Quote of the entry:

Love, she believed, should arrive
all at once with thunder & lightning;
a whirlwind from the skies that affects life,
turns it every which way, restless
resolutions away like leaves & plunges
the entire heart into the abyss.

quote credit: flyy_quotes.
icon credit: looove_fool

-advice girl

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i have a question for you girls!

Have you ever missed someone you love deeply (like a boyfriend) after not getting to see/talk to them for only a day?