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Original: 5/13/2007 8:28 PM
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Sunday, May 13, 2007
 

Tipping

Tipping of people for services rendered is a practice that varies with culture and local custom. It exists in some countries and not in others. Also, the amount of a tip for different services will vary from - ohhhh, about 5% to a high of 25%, with 15% for resturant service a common benchmark used by many people in the United States, though this can be different from one city to another.

Personally, I resent the practice of tipping, because employers have taken what was once a reward to an employee for extra special service and turned it into an excuse to cut wages to below that which is a living wage and imposed the burden of picking up the difference on the customer. This makes the one performing the service dependent on the generosity of the customer. That is a condition reminicent of slavery.

Nevertheless, tipping is a fact of life, and refusing to tip as a matter of principal will not change that fact, or change the way the hospitality industry does business. It only hurts the individual. In fact, it may even cost them money, because the IRS will tipically look at the server's total food and beverage sales and base their estimate of taxable tip income on a percent of that total. That percent has generally been 8% in recent years, which means that if you don't leave a tip for your $25 dinner, the IRS will assume that you left a $2 tip and tax the server accordingly. Your servers are also expected to tip their support staff - cooks, table bussers, dishwashers, etc. - a percent of their sales total. Those tips come out of the tips the customers leave. If you stiff the server, s/he is still expected to tip the support people who made your meal possible.

And that's not all. In the extremely unlikely event that your little crusade of not tipping catches on and everyone stops tipping, the industry would be forced to pay a decent wage to its employees. Good for the employee; bad for you. The cost of doing that will amount to hundreds of millions of dollars when applied to the countless service industry workers across the nation. And just what do you suppose the industry will do to recover those added expenses? They will have no choice but to increase the price of your dinner and your drink; free shuttle buses from your hotel to the airport will become a thing of the past; you will be forced to pay a still higher price for a taxi cab; bell hops to help with your luggage may not be available in order to help lower the cost of a room. In the end, you will be the ultimate victum of your ill conceived plot to get higher hourly wages for service industry workers. And it will cost you a lot more than the 15/20% tip you stiffed your server for.

So don't be a cheapskate -- tip the server, the taxi driver, the shuttle bus driver, the porter, and anyone else who performs a service for you. Vary the amount you leave according to the service you receive, but don't walk away and leave nothing. They work hard under some trying circumstances and deserve your consideration, and you will save money in the long run.
 Posted 5/13/2007 8:28 PM - 7 comments

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Thanks for your comment to my asking for contemporary mentions of Jesus in history. It gives me something to study up on. I'll let you know of my findings.

As for tipping, I leave a lowly tip (1 or 2 euro coin) if the service has been particularly nice and the person pleasant, otherwise nothing. I don't like tipping for obvious reasons, (1) why some lowly paid industries and not others (2) tipping indicates some sort of (false) superiority (3) employers use it to keep wages low (4) on the selfish side, I work for a living myself and no one tips me (5) I don't have the money to toss about and have no reason to show off that I have.

The reason often used is that it helps the lowly paid waiter etc, there are many such lowly paid jobs and no one thinks to tip for most of them. If one wants to improve the situation for the lower echelons of economic society, then support agitation for social change, such as a reasonable minimum wage and the enforced introduction of independent unions in the service industries, indeed all industries, but I digress.

That's the best I can do on my first coffee which has not quite cleared the cobwebs yet.

Posted 5/14/2007 1:40 AM by Lovegrove - reply

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I only tip if the service is good. That seems fair to me. I am not obligated to tip a person that forgets that I am there and does not bring me more coffee. Judi

Posted 5/14/2007 4:11 AM by jassmine Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - reply

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You don’t tip in Denmark, but if you do so anyway, it can be insulting.

My daughter was a hostess at an Outback Restaurant and she is a bit of a fanatic on good service and tipping. She demands good service but also pays for it though tipping. It is hard to talk her out of leaving 20%.
Posted 5/14/2007 5:18 AM by EyeHatePeas - reply

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I agree with your perception of how tipping could equal slavery in a sense by its very nature...
Posted 5/14/2007 6:15 AM by Leonidas Xanga True Member Xanga Lifetime Member - reply

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We carry a "Tip Table " to know how much to leave....we are mathmatically impaired.
Posted 5/14/2007 7:00 AM by seedsower Xanga True Member Xanga Lifetime Member - reply

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Tipping is a good thing. It recognizes and rewards excellence of service in a service industry.

too bad governmental agencies don't utilize tipping .

Posted 5/14/2007 9:59 PM by simoncat1010 Xanga Premium Member - reply

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I was a waitress for a while, and I believe that the tip should be given in accordance to the service given. It always disgruntled me that waitstaff get paid a measly 3.10 and had to make up the difference in our tips. I agree with your comparison to slavery. Even though I was a waitress, I still tip according to the services given. I know it's hard work and a great dining experience includes being served well and efficiently, as well as politely and with the highest level of respect to the customer. The level of service depends on the server's willingness to sacrifice and go the second mile, sometimes, which not nearly all of them do.

I find your blog so interesting; you're a great writer. I will subscribe, if you don't mind. I found you through another site, don't remember the name. Have a good day, and you're welcome to visit my site anytime. ~Jasmine 

Posted 5/16/2007 2:54 PM by swantzfamily Xanga Premium Member - reply


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