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Sunday, July 01, 2007
 

Independence

Featured_Grownups is asking how I gained independence from something. Gosh, there are so many things I can think of, but one of the earliest is when I gained independence from afternoon soap operas.

I started watching soaps in my teens after school. Soon it was like an addiction. Actually, I only got hooked on one of them and then only once. It was so long ago (maybe 50 years ago) that I don't remember the name of the show. And if the truth be known, I really didn't break out of the habit so much as the show released me.

This was in the early days of soaps, before the writers had fully perfected the art of - what shall I call it - "the hook." I was watching a soap drama that involved a crime. Evidence collection, analysis, arrest, trial, and verdict. It was drawn out for several months, and I would faithfully watch every weekday afternoon, staying with the story.

I had followed the drama from its beginning and was pretty sure I had figured out how the verdict should go for the man put on trial - not guilty. The writers did an excellent job holding me glued to the story, but they didn't develop a good hook to hold me after the jury came back into court with the verdict. Once the verdict was announced, I turned it off and took a solemn high vow to never watch a single episode of any afternoon soap opera ever again so long as I live. So far, I have kept that vow.

I have also avoided watching late evening soaps too. No Dallas for me; no Dynasty either! Never watched a single episode of either show. The single exception I've made was the Babylon 5 series because I like science fiction.

I really hate being so wrapped up in something that I can't turn it off and walk away from it.

Oh yes, the verdict was not guilty.
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wow that's some strength!  no dallas?  melrose place?  90210?  *faints*

i get hooked easily!  i watched the first "hell's kitchen" episode and now i have to watch all of 'em because i just HAVE to know what happens!  yer my inspiration to break free!  =)

thanks for sharing!

~c

Posted 7/1/2007 4:41 PM by pseudoecho - reply

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Mine was General Hospital.  Loved that show.  Don't even know if it is still on?  Great post
Posted 7/1/2007 5:01 PM by sunnycaligurl - reply

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Posted 7/1/2007 5:25 PM by Featured_Grownups Xanga Premium Member - reply

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nice way to break away.
Posted 7/1/2007 5:36 PM by thenarrator - reply

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I started watching General Hospital over 20 years ago, and I would watch All my Children with my grandma. I still watch them, but not every day. You can watch them once in a while and still keep up.
Posted 7/1/2007 5:41 PM by WakeUpLaughing Xanga True Member Xanga Lifetime Member - reply

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I never could get into daytime or afternoon soap operas. Now SciFi soap operas such as Babylon 5? Yeah baby! I'm there!
Posted 7/1/2007 5:51 PM by sirtechlocke - reply

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I remember Dark Shadows on the tube, KROY in the ear and homework in front of me...but not one episode of Dallas did I miss or Falcoln Crest either...but I have since grown and left them behind me...now it is more like CSI; bones or house...Smile
Posted 7/1/2007 6:12 PM by m_elmer_48 Xanga Lifetime Member - reply

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LOL ... I used to have that addiction too. But Now that the DVR was invented ... well I own the TV it does not own me! :) But the only show that BOTH hubby and I are addicted to (don't let him fool ya!) is SYTYCD (So You Think You Can Dance) ... now that is one we MUST watch when it comes on or ELSE. He knows it too ... no a soap but reality TV ... it can be just as addicting if not more so. hugs.
Posted 7/1/2007 6:13 PM by mommainlove Xanga Premium Member - reply

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I like your take on the topic
Posted 7/1/2007 8:29 PM by MsCatbert2You Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - reply

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Yeah, I think sometimes that the internet is eating my brain, but here I am. :) Thanks for sharing.
Posted 7/1/2007 9:46 PM by roddymccorley Xanga True Member Xanga Lifetime Member - reply

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In college, my roommate got me hooked on so many shows, we'd watch up to 6 hours of tv every day. EVERY DAY. I was glad when I broke free from that...
Posted 7/2/2007 4:19 AM by mightymarce Xanga True Member - reply

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Yeah unimportant things can steal you brain.

I am a morning person and my brain fails long about 4pm. I watch TV just to have something to do until I can fall asleep and happily get back at it!
Posted 7/2/2007 6:16 AM by EyeHatePeas - reply

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I still watch my soaps from time to time...... it's an addiction fo' sho!!
Great entry!!
Posted 7/2/2007 9:33 PM by prettynosyarentu Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - reply

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...I have DVR for my shakes
Posted 7/4/2007 1:59 AM by sittingtyping Xanga Premium Member - reply

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My mom used to watch the soaps when I was little.
Posted 7/5/2007 9:30 AM by tx_christian Xanga True Member Xanga Lifetime Member - reply

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Well done!  I'm an addict  of All My Children myself, but surely do admire your keeping your promise!~K.K. 
Posted 7/6/2007 6:54 PM by KoffeeKween - reply

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I remember my mom asking me a few times to watch All My Children for her to fill her in and I was hooked for a period of time. lol  Those things are as bad as potato chips.  Now (thankfully) my schedule is too inconsistent to really follow any shows.  I have a guilty little secret though, I'll put in the effort to not miss 24.  Jack Bauer is awesome, hehe...

Posted 7/6/2007 10:18 PM by perseyownz - reply

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The writers do have a way of getting us addicted, don't they? I don't watch daytime soaps but I'm bad about some of the evening shows.
Posted 7/10/2007 9:33 PM by MarkLupton Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - reply


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