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OH my

Sun, 23 Jul 2006 17:30:41 GMT

Long time no entry, like, over a year. Lemme fill you in on some stuff. Getting divorced, leaving for the Army National Gaurd and can't wait to do either. I don't know how this will affect Phil, except he would get the boys while I was gone. Maybe it could help to save my mariage. I don't know. He already has a new girlfriend from what I have been told, but when he hears I am leaving and he won't see me for about 6 months, then maybe he will change his mind. Oh yeah he filed, not me. I still love his stupid ass. I don't know why. Well, I need to get off here. I am taking my kids to the fair. Have a good one.

HOOHA.

Sunday, July 10, 2005

Sun, 10 Jul 2005 21:06:10 GMT

I guess that when you become friends with a friends significant other, it's bound not to work out. There are some people out there who REALLY need to grow up. I know who it is when you have a new relationship, but my god. Lets just ignore the people that you have leaned on for months, and that have been there for you, and talk shit to there HUSBANDS. It's rediculous that one day everything seems fine, and the next, you feel the need to talk to my husband about something that you probably made up for more drama anyway. I think that you have alot of growing up to do. Sure, I said I wasn't going to call him, but, my curiosity got the better of me to find out why you would tell me that. So, I apologized, and I understand that you are upset, but my god. Lets hold grudges. I think you are a bit bitter, and I definetly don't need that in my life. It's actually been peaceful around my house without the daily drama of your relationships. I'm glad you and whats his ass are happy, and I wish you the best of luck with whatever you're gonna do, but you have proven to me time and time again that this friendship is nothing to you. And it's time that I stand up and quit being hurt by your shit. I don't think you get it, cause you are WAY to into your life to care about anyone or anything around you. I don't even know why I am wasting my time with this. You know who you are, and you know what you have done. Later.

Friday, July 08, 2005

Fri, 08 Jul 2005 20:42:10 GMT

Wow it's been a long time since I've been online. It's crazy not having internet anymore. Anyway. Everything has been really good. We've kinda gotten out of debt, but not really- Nicole, I know how you feel about wanting to sleep through the night- wait, no I don't. LOL. Boo slept from the time he was born. lol. Every once in a while he would wake up, and there for a while it was like 4 times a night, but now it's back to the way it was. Anyway- I'm at my moms house so I need to go- leave me love and I'll get back to you!

Tuesday, June 07, 2005

Tue, 07 Jun 2005 17:05:01 GMT

Nothing again to update with. Eli finally for the first time in a long time slept through the night. I have another game this evening.. it's going to be so wicked hot out. I feel sorry for Boo- he's got to go with me till Daddy gets home. He's sleeping again right now. I'm happy for that. I decided that he is big enough for people food, and we have been eating lots of bologna and cheese for lunch this week! I feel sorry for Phil, he's out in the heat, with no water or anything. I'm going to have to make sure tomorrow that he has a cooler full of water and food so he doens't get heat stroke. Well, thats about all... talk to you all later.

Monday, June 06, 2005

Mon, 06 Jun 2005 18:13:50 GMT

It's SOO HOT. I need to get my pool up and going again. I don't have a whole lot to update- went to Courtneys for a while on Saturday, FINALLY got food in the house!!!!! and thats about all. Have a good day.

Friday, June 03, 2005

Fri, 03 Jun 2005 17:31:47 GMT

Not a whole lotta time to update- going to West Lafayette to pay a cell bill in a sec. My father in law was in a bad motorcycle accident Wednesday out in Arizona while they were vacationing out there. He has a punctured lung, 6 broken ribs and a broken back bone. Keep him and Phil in your prayers, as they are both going through alot right now. Bob should be coming home on Saturday or Sunday. I have a softball game tomorrow morning at 9:30 if any of you would like to join me. I think I am going to go tanning this afternoon to try to make me look a little better. I can't do this blonde hair, pale skin thing anymore. I think thats about all..... talk to you all later.

Monday, May 30, 2005

Mon, 30 May 2005 01:16:10 GMT

So today was the big day. Ryan graduated from HS last night, and there was a big party for him this afternoon. It was awesome. All kinds of free food. lol. Pregnant womans dream. Just so all of you know, Ryan is my little big brother. By little I mean he is 18 and by big I mean he is 6'3, and I am 5'4. So anyway, he graduated, made out like a flippin' bandit with money and gifts, and had an awesome turn out. I got to see his friend Troy, who was at the hospital when Eli was born. I hadn't seen him since Boo was probably 2 months old. He was surprised to find out we were expecting again. Troy is awesome. He brought Ryan the funniest thing. He rolled up a dollar, put a piece of paper with a saying on it, wrapped it in a purple ribbon, and that was the gift. When he walked by the cake, he took the little "graduate" statue off it and stuck it in his mouth to eat all the icing off of it. My mom laughed so hard. Eli was the center of most people's attention, thanks to Ryan. He tolad everybody that Boo was his illeginament(sp) son. Lots of our family was in town this weekend, and they all got to see Eli. Funny, kinda gross story. Well, not gross, but maybe more like weird. My cousin Laura (2nd cousin) had my granny's ashes in her trunk, and we had mentioned that Granny would have loved the party, and she said " well, she's here". It just kind of creeped me out. In granny's house though, they found a gift for Ryan, that she had gotten before she went to the nursing home, which we thought was really sweet.

Well, Boo just woke up, and I am pissing Phil off by being online. Bye!

Friday, May 27, 2005

Fri, 27 May 2005 18:32:20 GMT

Not alot to update about. I have a game tonight, and we have pictures before that, so I need to find my stinkin' shirt. I talked to Kira today for about an hour, she's one of my best friends, and she is in the military, so we really don't get to talk a whole lot, but it was nice catching up with her and hearing about life out east. She's in NY. Oh *sigh* well, i guess I will update more after the game.

Thursday, May 26, 2005

Thu, 26 May 2005 04:53:53 GMT

What is your significan't others full name? Philip Roland Cox

When did you get married? January 17th, 2004

How long were you together beforehand? 6 months

Where did you meet? At school first, then "remet" at the Hill

What was your first date like? He took me to Chilis, and then cruising in his HOT car.

What was your proposal like? He proposed to me while we were rock climbing for his birthday. I was on crutches with a broken ankle that day. We made his mom cry, because she hates me just that much!! LOL.

how long were you engaged? 2.5 months

what were the colors of your wedding? Red, white, black and silver

who did you have in your wedding? Amanda, Danielle, Icky Ricki, Jim, Ryan, Ryan Lynch, Nick, Sara and Aub, and of course, me and Phil.

Do you still talk to your bridesmaids/groomsmen? All but Ricki and Sara

Where did you go for your honeymoon? Homewood Suites

How long did you spend there? overnight

What did you do? Well, what do you think we did? After we got that out of the way, we watched movies, and then went to the bedrooom and got into the tub, and then went to bed.

how long have you been married? 1 year and 4 months

If over a year, what was the first year like? Rough, but totally worth every minute of it.

Where did you ger married? Congress Street United Methodist Church

How many guests attended? 50-75 (?)

Was it the wedding of your dreams? It would have been had my mother-in- law not been flipping off the camera "Accidently" in all the freakin pictures. And had she not had to ruin things with family pictues that included EVERYBODY. Not just immediate. And had she not invited tons of people we didn't know about, and, well, had she just not been there, it would have been great.

Thursday, May 26, 2005

Thu, 26 May 2005 04:32:50 GMT

American Idol sucks. Bo should have won, hands down. We've already got a white chick from the sticks who has one. Oh well, I guess people can't see true talent when they get hit with it in the balls....grrrrr. She'll be a one hit wonder.