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Tuesday, April 22, 2008

  • This Should Be Taught In All Schools

     Back in September of 2005, on the first day of school, Martha Cothren, a social studies school teacher at Robinson High School in Little Rock, did something not to be forgotten.
    On the first day of school, with the permission of the school superintendent, the principal and the building supervisor, she removed all of the desks out of her classroom. When the first period kids entered the room they discovered that there were no desks.
     
    Looking around, confused, they asked, 'Ms. Cothren, where're our desks?'
     
    She replied, 'You can't have a desk until you tell me what you have done to earn the right to sit at a desk.'
     
    They thought, 'Well, maybe it's our grades.'

    'No,' she said.

    Maybe it's our behavior.' She told them, 'No, it's not even your behavior.
     
    And so, they came and went, the first period, second period, third period. Still no desks in the classroom.

    By early afternoon television news crews had started gathering in Ms. Cothren's classroom to report about this crazy teacher who had taken all the desks out of her room.
     
    The final period of the day came and as the puzzled students found seats on the floor of the deskless classroom.
    Martha Cothren said, 'Throughout the day no one has been able to tell me just what he/she has done to earn the right to sit at the desks that are ordinarily found in this classroom. Now I am going to tell you.'
     
    At this point, Martha Cothren went over to the door of her classroom and opened it.
     
    Twenty-seven (27) U.S. Veterans, all in uniforms, walked into that classroom, each one carrying a school desk. The Vets began placing the school desks in rows, and then they would walk over and stand alongside the wall.
     
    By the time the last soldier had set the final desk in place those kids started to understand, perhaps for the first time in their lives, just how the right to sit at those desks had been earned.
     
    Martha said, 'You didn't earn the right to sit at these desks. These heroes did it for you. They placed the desks here for you. Now, it's up to you to sit in them. It is your responsibility to learn, to be good students, to be good citizens. They paid the price so that you could have the freedom to get an education. Don't ever forget it.'
     
    By the way, this is a true story.
     
    If you can read this, thank a teacher.
     
    Since you read it in English, thank a soldier.
  • The Daffodil Principle

    Several times my daughter had telephoned to say, 'Mother, you must come  to see the daffodils before they are over.''
     
    I wanted to go, but it was a two-hour drive from Laguna to Lake Arrowhead .   'I will come next Tuesday', I promised a little reluctantly on her third call.
     
    Next Tuesday dawned cold and rainy. Still, I had promised, and reluctantly I drove there. When I finally walked into Carolyn's house, I was welcomed by the joyful sounds of happy children. I  delightedly hugged and greeted my grandchildren.
     
    'Forget the daffodils, Carolyn!  The road is invisible in these clouds and fog, and there is nothing in the world except you and these children that I want to see badly enough to drive another inch!'
     
    My daughter smiled calmly and said, ' We drive in this all the time, Mother.'
     
     
    'Well, you won't get me back on the road until it clears, and then I'm heading for home!' I assured her.
     
    'But first we're going to see the daffodils. It's just a few blocks,' Carolyn said. 'I'll drive. I'm used to this.'
      
    'Carolyn,' I said sternly, 'Please turn around.'
     
     
    'It's all right, Mother, I promise. You will never forgive yourself if you miss this experience.'
     
    After about twenty minutes, we turned onto a small gravel road and I saw a small church. On the far side of the church, I saw a hand lettered sign with an arrow that read,'Daffodil Garden'.
     
    We got out of the car, each took a child's hand, and I followed Carolyn down the path. Then, as we turned a corner, I looked up and gasped. Before me lay the most glorious sight.
     
     
     

    It looked as though someone had taken a great vat of gold and poured it over the mountain peak and its surrounding slopes. The flowers were planted in majestic, swirling patterns, great ribbons and swaths of deep orange, creamy white, lemon yellow, salmon pink, saffron and  butter yellow.. Each different-colored variety was planted in large groups so that it swirled and flowed like its own river with its own unique hue. There were five acres of flowers.
     
    'Who did this?' I asked Carolyn.  
     
     
    'Just one woman,' Carolyn answered. 'She lives on the property. That's her home.' Carolyn pointed to a well-kept A-frame house, small and modestly sitting in the midst of all that glory. We walked up to the house.
     
    On the patio, we saw a poster. 'Answers to the Questions I Know You Are Asking', was the headline.
     
    The first answer was a simple one. '50,000 bulbs,' it read.
     
    The second answer was, 'One at a time, by one woman. Two hands, two feet, and one brain.'
    The third answer was, 'Began in 1958.'
     
    For me, that moment was a life-changing experience. I thought of this woman whom I had never met, who, more than forty years before, had begun, one bulb at a time, to bring her vision of beauty and joy to an obscure mountaintop. Planting one bulb at a time, year after year, this unknown woman had forever changed the world in which she lived.
     
    One day at a time, she had created something of extraordinary magnificence, beauty, and inspiration. The principle her daffodil garden taught is one of the greatest principles of celebration.
     
     
     

    That is, learning to move toward our goals and desires one step at a time, often just one baby-step at a time and learning to love the doing, learning to use the accumulation of time. When we multiply tiny pieces of time with small increments of daily effort, we too will find we can accomplish magnificent things. We can change the world
     
    'It makes me sad in a way,' I admitted to Carolyn. ' What might I have accomplished if I had thought of a wonderful goal thirty five or forty years ago and had worked away at it 'one! bulb at a time' through all those years? 'Just think what I might have been able to achieve!'
     
    My daughter summed up the message of the day in her usual direct way.. 'Start tomorrow,' she said.
     
    She was right. It's so pointless to think of the lost hours of yesterdays. The way to make learning a lesson of celebration instead of a cause for regret is to only ask, 'How can I put this to use today?'
     
    Use the Daffodil Principle. Stop waiting.....
     
    Until your car or home is paid off
    Until you get a new car or home
    Until your kids leave the house
    Until you go back to school
    Until you finish school
    Until you clean the house
    Until you organize the garage
    Until you clean off your desk
    Until you lose 10 lbs.
    Until you gain 10 lbs.
    Until you get married
    Until you get a divorce
    Until you have kids
    Until the kids go to school
    Until you retire
    Until summer
    Until spring
    Until winter
    Until fall
    Until you die...
     
    There is no better time than right now to be happy.  Happiness is a journey, not a destination.
     
    So work like you don't need money. Love like you've never been hurt, and dance like no one's watching.
  • Currently Listening
    Into the Light
    By Chris de Burgh
    Lady in Red
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    Why animals' lives are shorter.

    Being a veterinarian, I had been called to examine a ten-year-old Irish Wolfhound named Belker. The dog's owners, Ron, his wife, Lisa, and their little boy, Shane, were all very attached to Belker, and they were hoping for a miracle. 

    I examined Belker and found he was dying of cancer. I told the family we couldn't do anything for Belker, and offered to perform the euthanasia procedure for the old dog in their home.

    As we made arrangements, Ron and Lisa told me they thought it would  be good for six-year-old Shane to observe the procedure. They felt as though Shane might learn something from the experience.
     

    The next day, I felt the familiar catch in my throat as Belker's family surrounded him. Shane seemed so calm, petting the old dog for the last time, that I wondered if he understood what was going on. 

    Within a few minutes, Belker slipped peacefully away.  The little boy seemed to accept Belker's transition without any difficulty or confusion. We sat together for a while after Belker's death, wondering aloud about the sad fact that animal lives are shorter than human lives. Shane, who had been listening quietly, piped up, "I know why."  

    Startled, we all turned to him. What came out of his mouth next  stunned me. I'd never heard a more comforting explanation.  He said, "People are born so that they can learn how to live a good life -- like loving everybody all the time and being nice." The six-year-old continued, "Well, dogs already know how to do that, so they don't have to stay as long." 

    Remember, if a dog was the teacher you would learn things like: 
    When loved ones come home, always run to greet them.
    Never pass up the opportunity to go for a joyride.
    Allow the experience of fresh air and the wind in your face to be pure ecstasy.
    Take naps.
    Stretch before rising.
    Run, romp, and play daily.
    Thrive on attention and let people touch you.
    Avoid biting when a simple growl will do. 
    On warm days, stop to lie on your back on the grass.
    On hot days, drink lots of water and lie under a shady tree.
    When you're happy, dance around and wag your entire body.
    Delight in the simple joy of a long walk.
    Be loyal.
    If what you want lies buried, dig until you find it. 
    When someone is having a bad day, be silent, sit close by and nuzzle them gently.
       
           ENJOY EVERY MOMENT OF EVERY DAY!

Sunday, April 20, 2008

  • This was written by an 83-year-old woman to her friend.

    *The last line says it all. *

    Dear Bertha,

    I'm reading more and dusting less. I'm sitting in the yard and admiring the view without fussing about the weeds in the 
    garden. I'm spending more time with my family and friends and less time working.

    Whenever possible, life should be a pattern of experiences to savor, not to endure. I'm trying to recognize these moments now and cherish them.

    I'm not "saving" anything; we use our good china and crystal for every special event such as losing a pound, getting the sink unstopped, or the first Amaryllis blossom.

    I wear my good blazer to the market. My theory is if I look prosperous, I can shell out $28.49 for one small bag of groceries. I'm not saving my good perfume for special parties, but wearing it for clerks in the hardware store and tellers at the bank.

    "Someday" and "one of these days" are losing their grip on my vocabulary. If it's worth seeing or hearing or doing, I want to see and hear and do it now

    I'm not sure what others would've done had they known they wouldn't be here for the tomorrow that we all take for granted. I think they would have called family members and a few close friends. They might have called a few former friends to apologize and mend fences for past squabbles. I like to think they would have gone out for a Chinese dinner or for whatever their favorite food was.

    I'm guessing; I'll never know.

    It's those little things left undone that would make me angry if I knew my hours were limited. Angry because I hadn't written certain letters that I intended to write one of these days. Angry and sorry that I didn't tell my husband and parents often enough how much I truly love them. I'm trying very hard not to put off, hold back, or save anything that would add laughter and luster to our lives. And every morning when I open my eyes, tell myself that it is special.

    Every day, every minute, every breath truly is a gift from God.

Friday, April 18, 2008

  • Currently Listening
    1973-97-Complete Hits Collection
    By Billy Joel
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    A Good Reminder

    She jumped up as soon as she saw the surgeon come out of the operating room. She said: 'How is my little boy? Is he going to be all right? When can I see him?'
      The surgeon said, 'I'm sorry. We did all we could, but your boy didn't make it.'
      
      Sally said, 'Why do little children get cancer? Doesn't God care any more? Where were you, God, when my son needed you?'
      
      The surgeon asked, 'Would you like some time alone with your son? One of the nurses will be out in a few minutes, before he's transported to the university.'
      
      Sally asked the nurse to stay with her while she said good bye to son. She ran her fingers lovingly through his thick red curly hair. 'Would you like a lock of his hair?' the nurse asked. Sally nodded yes. The nurse cut a lock of the boy's hair, put it in a plastic bag and handed it to Sally.
      
      The mother said, 'It was Jimmy's idea to donate his body to the University for Study. He said it might help somebody else. 'I said no at first, but Jimmy said, 'Mom, I won't be using it after I die. Maybe it will help some other little boy spend one more day with his Mom.' She went on, 'My Jimmy had a heart of gold. Always thinking of someone else. Always wanting to help others if he could.'
      
      Sally walked out of Children's Mercy Hospital for the last time, after spending most of the last six months there. She put the bag with Jimmy's belongings on the seat beside her in the car.
      
      The drive home was difficult. It was even harder to enter the empty house. She carried Jimmy's belongings, and the plastic bag with the lock of his hair to her son's room.
      
      She started placing the model cars and other personal things back in his room exactly where he had always kept them. She lay down across his bed and, hugging his pillow, cried herself to sleep.
      
      It was around midnight when Sally awoke. Lying beside her on the bed was a folded letter. The letter said :
      
      'Dear Mom,
      
      I know you're going to miss me; but don't think that I will ever forget you, or stop loving you, just 'cause I'm not around to say 'I Love You' . I will always love you, Mom, even more with each day. Someday we will see each other again. Until then, if you want to adopt a little boy so you won't be so lonely, that's okay with me. He can have my room and old stuff to play with. But, if you decide to get a girl instead, she probably wouldn't like the same things us boys do. You'll have to buy her dolls and stuff girls like, you know.
      Don't be sad thinking about me. This really is a neat place. Grandma and Grandpa met me as soon as I got here and showed me around some, but it will take a long time to see everything. The angels are so cool. I love to watch them fly. And, you know what? Jesus doesn't look like any of his pictures. Yet, when I saw Him, I knew it was Him. Jesus himself took me to see GOD! And guess what, Mom? I got to sit on God's knee and talk to Him, like I was somebody important. That's when I told Him that I wanted to write you a letter, to tell you good bye and everything. But I already knew that wasn't allowed. Well, you know what Mom? God handed me some paper and His own personal pen to write you this letter I think Gabriel is the name of the angel who is going to drop this letter off to you. God said for me to give you the answer to one of the questions you asked Him ?where was He when I needed him?' 'God said He was in the same place with me, as when His son Jesus was on the cross. He was right there, as He always is with all His children.
      
      Oh, by the way, Mom, no one else can see what I've written except you. To everyone else this is just a blank piece of paper. Isn't that cool? I have to give God His pen back now He needs it to write some more names in the Book of Life. Tonight I get to sit at the table with Jesus for supper. I'm sure the food will be great.
      
      Oh, I almost forgot to tell you. I don't hurt anymore the cancer is all gone.. I'm glad because I couldn't stand that pain anymore and God couldn't stand to see me hurt so much, either. That's when He sent The Angel of Mercy to come get me. The Angel said I was a Special Delivery! How about that?
      
      Signed with Love from God, Jesus & Me.

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