Hey!  I went to your spark page and left a comment-

RYC:  I tried to get off of them due to pride.  Pride.  The only reason.  To be honest, I have attempted to deal with this many, many times.  I've tried Prozac, Lexapro, and a couple of others.  I finally decided that the weight they make you gain (and the fact that they hit the "off" switch on your libido) made me even more sad and made my husband frustrated.  So then I learned about Wellbutrin.  No side effects (nothing major- and those I had were gone in 2 weeks) and I'm happier and have a much clearer mind.  SOME people get hyper-libido with this- I was not one, but DH was praying.  :)  I shouldn't joke.  I am thrilled the good Lord gave me a husband that loves me no matter what and always makes me feel desirable.  So- in short- I would research them if i were you.  Most antidepressants work the same and have similar side effects- the main one being gaining weight.  But Wellbutrin and one other in it's family work differently.  I have also had some success with taking 5-htp and St Johns Wort.  I have read good and bad things about this combination, but it worked for me.  Feel free to do an Internet search on those 2 things and feel free to send me a Sparkmail if you'd like to talk further about it.