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Name: Kim
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Sunday, August 07, 2005

Dear GuysAreWeird,

     First of all guys are weird.  That is something that us women are gonna have to learn.  Anyways I have been in your situation many of times.  I know how you feel.  There is really no answer to this question because it is such a difficult situation.  All I can do is tell you that I would let nature run its course and I know you have been waiting for a long time but if nething is gonna happened it can't be forced.  If nething happens it happens.  Do this but first confront this guy and let him know how you feel and tell him you want a real answer and not to be blown off.  This is all I can tell you to do just let life go the way it wants to go.  Remember if things don't work out everything happens for a reason and maybe it was a good things didn't work out.  I give you my best wishes for everything to work out.

Kim


Saturday, July 30, 2005

Your Problem:

alright...well bout a few mos ago i used to be like OBSESSED with this one guy. I mean OBSESSSEDDD with himmm...so one day i decided to get his phone number and just have a little fun with that. So i made up this fake sn and i asked his best friend. his best friend didnt end up knowing but i got to talking to him for a while and it seemed like he liked me and i was also sorta developing feelings for him...but i didn't wanna tell him it was me on that sn because then he would assume i like his best friend since i asked for his number and i didn't want him to know...so time passed and i didn't really go on that sn and forgot the incident even happened... but at school the "guy i was obsessed with"'s (lol) best friend always seemed to pay more attention to me from then on. like he would find excuses to talk to me or sit next to me in class and stuff... and i think my feelings towards him grew...but i didn't really look deeper into the subject since i didn't reveal my self on that sn and there was no other way he could like me. but then one night i decided to go back on the sn and he imed me telling me he knew it was me on that sn...well i was shocked an mortified at first...but on the plus side i thot this could actually be good because i reeeaaallly reeaaallly like him and i think he likes me too and now he knew it was me "behind the mask" lol...but both of us are too shy to kickstart this relationship now that we actually know who we're talking to...im too scared to talk to him online and i think hes too shy to talk to me too...Plus i dont even know he likes me for sure but he has given off a few hints...like i told you he finds excuses to talk and sit next to me and at our school dance he kept staring at me and trying to be vague in following me around and stuff...BUT I REEAALLLY need advice on how to kickstart this relationshipppp HELLLLPPPPP!!!!  

Dear Amy,

     I would take a stand and be the 1st 1 to say something.  This shows a since of courage which is attractive.  Make sure ur ready for this step think about it real hard.  but don't let it be to late or else he may not be there.  Just step up is all it takes.  All you have to do is gain up the courage.

     Kim

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Your Problem: well there is this guy taht i like and i think he likes me to but i never get a chance to talk to him because he is always around all his friends what should i do???

Dear Anonymous,

     If you since a strong vibe that he does like you then i would say something first.  Then you have to take control and tell him you need to talk to him alone just you and him and if he doesn't believe that then he isn't worth your time.  Just tell him how badly you need to talk to him and then tell him exactly how you feel you need to be forward.

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Problem: My boyfriend hasn't called me all summer does he still like me????

Dear Tiffany,

     Guys are weird.  And stupid.  They express their feelings in very very unusual ways.  You should give it @ least a week and if things don't change back @ school u will no what he feels.  If he hasn't called u all summer it does not mean he doesn't like u.

 

     Kim

    


Friday, July 29, 2005

Kim is my name and advice is my game.  Okay here's the rules:

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4. i don't mind if u use names but if i know please don't i don't want to get nething started.

thats all the rules.

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Kim