if i dont understand the problem, MAKE me understand, if not that, attempt to help me understand. without acknowledging the problem i cant help solve it.. it takes two. meet me halfway.
only now, he has fallen and theres no way to catch him. our experiences were miles apart, making our hearts much father away from each other then the place he had just trasvered. through his words i was alienated, but through his eyes i felt his yearing. he needs my support in his search for strength and a new start, he needs "space" now more then ever. so i will take that in consideration and will tell him that i am here and that it is okay to feel. and he will continue to do so..sigh