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Name: Van
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Birthday: 1/4/1979
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Tuesday, September 02, 2008


she passed away in her sleep sunday.  my father found her curled up in her little box.  she was only 8, almost 9 years old. i wasn't home at the time.  i got the news shortly after.  one of the few things that i loved most in life had passed away in her sleep.  her name was daisy and she was my dog.  she really was more than a dog to me, she was the closest thing to a 'daddy's little girl' as it gets without being a real life kid.  i really loved her very much and i know she loved me.  she was always happy to see me.  daisy was such a good girl too, she would never run away and always followed me everywhere i went.  my dad would get worried that she would run away when i wouldn't have her on a leash but i know all of my dog's personalities and i knew hers was the absolute sweetest. 

i never try to play favorites but i know i did with her.  i would let her out to go outside to play one on one.  the last fun thing we did together was run around my dad's truck this past thursday.  she had so much fun chasing me round and round that 4runner.  she looked so cute running around with her little legs.  she probably thought i was making her happy but truth is she made me happy.  she is the most beautiful dog to me.  angela even says that daisy couldn't be mistaken for a boy because she definitely looks like a little girl doggie.  she was quite the princess and she was my little girl.  i'm so glad i had the chance to play with her and hug her one last time.  i wish i knew it was going to be the last time i got to talk with her, i wanted her to hear me say that i love her once more.

this entry isn't necessarily to express my sorrow but more so to have another way to hold onto her in any way i can.  angela and i already set up a little shrine for her next to the pictures of my grandparents.  i am really glad angela was there with me this weekend to comfort me.  when i'm alone and it's quiet, sometimes i lose it and i can't stop crying.  my parents told me that daisy was a very good girl and in the next life she will come back as a person.  i don't really know what to say to that but i just hope she is doing well wherever she is.  i hope to see her in heaven one day.  i hope she doesn't forget me because i can't ever forget her.  i told angela that i'm afraid of ghost and spirits but i hope daisy comes and visits me sometime because i miss her very much.  i think i will take a break from everything for a little bit.


goodbye daisy, i love you very very much.


 




Saturday, August 16, 2008

Olympics


...seriously, why is race walking an Olympic sport?  it's one of many ridiculous 'sports' in the Olympics in my opinion.  i'm really open minded about a lot of activities called a "sport" but race walking sort of defeats the whole purpose of a race of speed involving your legs.  also i was listening to the commentators and there is often times cheating in race walking, like....running.  you're kidding, no way, you lie!   

so to race walking as an Olympic sport i say......'get the hell outta here!'

equestrian control, you can get the hell outta here too!  i would accept bocce or croquet over equestrian control any day.

i will conclude with GO USA!  BEAT FRANCE......in everything!



Friday, August 01, 2008

i just had to write about this stupid law


so i was reading the news this morning as i always do when i get into work to start my day.  i couldn't help but catch this article on a new law passed in the Saudi Kingdom.  the law states that you are not allowed to walk your pets in public anymore because that would be more or less trying to attract the opposite sex.  i realize that every country has cultural differences but seriously islamic law in the middle east is absolutely ridiculous.  i am not just talking about this 'walking the pet' law but practically all of their 'indecency' laws that go against islamic code.  i myself am a pet owner and i know my dogs wouldn't be happy if they had to stay in the house all of the time and weren't allowed out for a walk or run in the park.  i can't believe they allow one man (he's not even the freakin' king of saudi arabia) to pull new laws out of his ass every time he personally feels something isn't right.  then again, i don't know why i'm irritated by this, saudi arabia is one of the worse countries in the world when it comes to restricting human rights and gender equality.  only if you knew what women have to endure in saudi arabia you'd be pretty shocked. 

i read the other month that a saudi business woman went to a starbucks with a coworker because their office building's AC was broken.  she had her head covered and everything to abide by islamic law but the indecency police arrested her for being a married woman and sitting at a table with another man and for sitting too closely to another man.  she was interrogated for hours.  if i was that saudi lady's husband i would've been pretty damn pissed at the indecency police and the king for having and enforcing such a stupid righteous law.  having laws is a good thing but one day the citizens of the middle east are going to get fed up with all of the ridiculous laws and kill everyone in charge of enforcing the islamic code.



RIYADH, Saudi Arabia —  Every single man knows: Walking a dog in the park equals sure babe magnet. Saudi Arabia's Islamic religious police, in their zeal to keep the sexes apart, want to make sure the technique doesn't catch on here.

The solution: Ban selling dogs and cats as pets, as well as walking them in public.

The prohibition went into effect on Wednesday in the Saudi capital, Riyadh, and authorities in the city say they will strictly enforce it — unlike previous such bans in the cities of Mecca and Jiddah, which have been ignored and failed to stop sales.

Violators found outside with their pets will have their beloved poodles and other furry companions confiscated by agents of the Commission for the Promotion of Virtue and the Prevention of Vice, the official name of the religious police, tasked with enforcing Saudi Arabia's strict Islamic code.

The commission's general manager, Othman al-Othman, said the ban was ordered because of what he called "the rising of phenomenon of men using cats and dogs to make passes at women and pester families" as well as "violating proper behavior in public squares and malls."

"If a man is caught with a pet, the pet will be immediately confiscated and the man will be forced to sign a document pledging not to repeat the act," al-Othman told the Al-Hayat newspaper. "If he does, he will be referred to authorities."

The Saudi-owned Al-Hayat announced the ban in its Wednesday edition, saying it was ordered by the acting governor of Riyadh province, Prince Sattam, based on an edit from the Council of Senior Islamic Scholars and several religious police reports of pet owners harassing women and families.

Commission authorities often do not formally announce to the public new rules that they intend to implement. Officials from the commission and Riyadh city government could not be reached for comment on Thursday, which is a weekend day in Saudi Arabia. The English-language Arab News reported on the ban on Thursday.

So far, the new prohibition did not appear to have any effect in Riyadh. It's extremely rare, anyway, to see anyone walking a dog — much less carrying a cat in public — in the capital, despite the authorities' claims of flirtatious young men luring girls with their pets in malls.

Salesmen at a couple of Riyadh pet stores on Thursday said they did not receive any official orders from the commission banning the sale of pets. Cats and dogs were still on display.

"I didn't hear of the ban," said Yasser al-Abdullah, a 28-year-old Saudi nurse, who was at one pet store with his 3-month-old collie, Joe.

Al-Abdullah, who also owns an 8-month-old Labrador, said a couple of Western friends had been told to get off the streets by the religious police for walking their dogs.

"I won't allow the commission to take my dogs from me," he said.

The religious police prowl streets and malls throughout the kingdom, ensuring unmarried men and women do not mix, confronting women they feel are not properly covered or urging men to go to prayers.

They also often make attempts to plug the few holes in the strict gender segregation that innovations bring. In 2004, they tried to ban cameras on cell phones, fearing that men and women would exchange pictures of each other — though the prohibition was quickly revoked. Every year, religious police warn against marking Valentine's Day, even trying to prevent people from wearing red clothing on the holiday, which they consider a Western creation that encourages vice.

There was no word whether commission authorities intend to expand the dog and cat ban beyond the capital.

The prohibition may be more of an attempt to curb the owning of pets, which conservative Saudis view as a sign of corrupting Western influence, like the fast food, shorts, jeans and pop music that have become more common in the kingdom.

Pet owning has never been common in the Arab world, though it is increasingly becoming fashionable among the upper class in Saudi Arabia and other countries such as Egypt.

In Islamic tradition, dogs are shunned as unclean and dangerous, though they are kept for hunting and guarding. In large cities around the Middle East, stray dogs often wander the streets and are considered pests.

The ban on cats is more puzzling, since there's no similar disdain for them in Islamic tradition. One of the Prophet Muhammad's closest companions was given the name Abu Huraira, Arabic for "the father of the kitten," because he always carried a kitten around with him and took care of it.

A number of hadiths — traditional stories of the prophet — show Muhammad encouraging people to treat cats well. Once, he let a cat drink from the water that he was going to use for his ablutions before prayers. Another time, Muhammad said a woman who kept a cat locked up without feeding it would go to Hell.

Street cats are also plentiful, and people will often feed them or play with them — but it isn't a widespread custom to keep one in the home, and many cannot afford it.



Monday, July 14, 2008

absolutely mindless post. =]


oh crud, i won't be home for about a week and i think i left my computer on. 
**whomp whomp whoooommmp** 



oh yeah also miss universe, ..... miss vietnam, no where near a strong contender.  i personally know much more attractive and suitable girls that could take her place.  i don't know how she even made it through the first cut.  i think it was a political move on behalf of miss universe to let the host country's contestant make it through not to offend the vietnamese government and officials (which by the way are corrupt and come from communist ties. which in my book can go suck my high protein butthole.). 

though i'm sure miss vietnam herself is a lovely girl she was just not the right person for this job.  she was short and looked like a 12 year old with big boobs.  ......suck!   

and miss usa and miss mexico were quite the hoTTies but miss venezuela stole the show in her yellow evening gown.  *hi five* miss venezuela.  now it's time for me to go give miss venezuela or last year's miss japan a call to see if they're free for dinner.  i'll get chuong to come with me to double date.....i'm sure angela won't mind.  =D


Friday, June 20, 2008

Random Thoughts at the Grocery Store


so i went grocery shopping yesterday at Safeway.  the funny thing was i only went in there to buy a couple bags of Sun Chips.  i ended up filling my whole basket up with stuff.  while i was there i remembered that my kids needed more dog biscuits and carrots.  they love eating carrots.  i didn't realize how expensive carrots have gotten.  i bought a 5 lb bag for $5....that's after the Safeway card discount.  also i bought a bag of dog biscuits for $4.50.  man i remembered when carrots were like $3 and biscuits were $3.50.  the difference in price doesn't sound like a lot of money but if you do the percentage in mark up, it's a lot.  i also had to buy K9 Advantix for all of them for the summer.....ehhh...paying for dog meds is not fun.  all you guys out there with pets know what i'm talkin' about and i got 5 kiddies to care for.  why do i have 5 dogs?  ...i dunno, it just happens and i love all of them.  they each have their own individual personalities like people.  gumby is probably the funniest dog you'll ever meet.  my dad gave him to me when i was in college.  he's our only white dog.

Chim-Chim (our youngest and most solid body dog. he'll never run away and will always walk by my side.)

       
                                                                      Gumby (he's my kid and also the comedian in the family.  he does the cutest funniest things.)


lily (she's the mom and not to mention the alpha dog. i'm not kidding, the girl's got spunk and she gives Tiny a lot of shit.  lily is always barking at him for no reason.  like a lot of times she'll just bark at him for looking at her funny....lily would be all up in tiny's face and he'll just stand there like, "what the hell do i do?" .....it's weird like that.)



      Tiny (he's the dad, the smartest and sweetest of the bunch. also he's exceptionally big for a pure bred pekingese at 23lbs)
                                                                       
 
    Daisy (she reminds me of a pretty cheerleader)          


i love these guys, they're the awesome-ess!  yeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh!!!!        it's a special kind of affection and love for your pets similar to when you have children of your own....at least that's what i think.

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it must've been my lucky day because when i was in the grocery store like back to back to back women walked past me and they had on really nice smelling perfume.  it put me in a good mood to grocery shop, HA!  most of them were middle aged working moms.  this also reminds me of being at work and in elevators.  i have a pretty strong sense of smell and i found that black women seem to wear 'Calvin Klein, Eternity' style fragrances for the work environment.  i also noticed that older white ladies prefer 'Red Door' type fragrances.  the younger women wear an array of perfumes and it's hard to narrow down.  of course this is a generalized statement and not all group of women wear the same perfumes.  none the less, i always enjoy getting on the elevator when there are nice smelling ladies.  LOL!  =P    sometimes i spray Victoria Secret's Very Sexy for her on my sheets just because it has a clean, sensual relaxing smell. 

i also found myself not liking a lot of men's colognes.  they're really musky.  i prefer the more citrus-ey or woods-ey fragrances.  i've been wearing the same cologne since 1993 when my mom bought me my first bottle of Cool Water.  hahaha.  i was in the 8th grade.  my other bottle is, l'eau d'issey.  i think i'm going to venture off and buy 'light blue for him' pretty soon.  something new and i like that smell.


now you know some of the random and silly thoughts that run through my head when i'm at the grocery store.  haha.  =]



aaand yes!  it's freakin' friday!   have a good weekend everyone!    i shall be tiling my kitchen floor most of saturday and sunday...nniiice!  i hear it's a lot of fun and you guys should come over to help me.  lol.



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