Of course, a girl will have a tendency to
fall in love with her guy friends. That's part of the edenic curse,
back in the Garden of Eden:
Genesis 3:16
To the woman he said,
"I will greatly increase your pains in childbearing;
with pain you will give birth to children.
Your desire will be for your husband,
and he will rule over you."
It
may sound like a good thing to have a desire for your husband, but it's
called a curse for a reason! That's why it's so hard for a girl to be
single, always wanting that close relationship with a guy. She is
always desiring for her husband, whether she knows him or not.
You
have to guard your heart as a girl. I can't emphasize how important
that is. Realize that these feelings you are developing are part of
that curse, and that God will bring your husband to you when the time
is right. Once you realize where these feelings are coming from, you
can get over them and enjoy friendships! God made Eve for Adam's
companionship."
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