man oh manStupid, much? Yes.
I don't understand people. I don't get it. It's like going to touch a stove top when you know it's going to freaking hurt then you do it anyway!!! What kind of sense does that make?! It doesn't!
Why do people do things that dumb when they know the consequences? Is it natural thing to do? Am I the only one that sees a problem here? You would think that given the consequence, and it's not a good consequence I am speaking of here, that people would avoid the issue at all costs. They would entirely make it to where they had nothing to do with even getting themselves remotely near the situation. You would think that... right?
No. People are stupid. They make stupid decisions. They do stupid things. I am not entirely immune to these stupid decisions, but I think about things (mostly all the time) rationally before I decide! Sometimes, yes, "love" can blind people into making dumb decisions of that sort, but then again so can alcohol, so where does that make "love" a valid excuse??
I would accept alcohol as more of an excuse than those confusing feelings that some people would call "love." At least drunkeness is temporary in most cases. Where does your heart lead you to other than pain and misery worse off than what you already HAD?!
It's not like talking to other people about problems like this helps either. Talking to other people just means you are going to get their "one ear, out the other" perspective on things. The reason why I say it like that is because I know how most people are. God, even sometimes I get like that. At times I don't want to hear what someone is telling me if I know that it's not what I want to hear. But the thing is, I still listen. Maybe it's just me, the one who talks to most people about their problems, that understands that when someone is trying to give you advice, though it may not seem like a good idea, it's best to listen. An outsider's opinion should always be accepted for what it is because they are not emotionally involved like you or another party is. They could probably care less about the situation and will go on about their day after giving you advice. Sure they care enough to talk to you about it, and then perhaps see what ever happened with that situation, but it's not like they are emotionally attached like you are. Emotions get in the way of everything.Your mind gets clouded over with thoughts of what you want to do and what you should do. It's not easy having problems like that.
Sometimes you have to pick your battles. Use the logic you know you have in there. Otherwise don't be offended when someone calls you a dumbass for making the wrong decisions. If it's not that big of a deal, talk to someone, walk it off, forget about it, or something along those lines. Always remember, there's worse out there. Don't make stupid ass decisions that effect people around you.
Dragging those few people in around you that actually care so much about you to listen intently about your drama can eventually screw you over. For the people that care to ask you every day how things are, for the people that want to know how you are doing, or what's going on in your world, don't give them any reason not to want to give you advice. Completely disregarding advice and then getting upset when those wonderful words "I told you so" slip out, is just well, hypocritical, I guess you could say.
Make smart decisions. That's about it | 
