Jean !!!  thanks for looking me up on xanga.  Whew.  I know exactly what you mean but i'm trying so hard to defend myself.  I would rather have it done on personal email without no one knowing but she's plastering it on friendster and on my xanga comments so i had not choice but to defend myself so everyone would know the real reason instead of her looking like a victim in all this.  I will definitely stop but i sure hope she doesn't go blogging everything making me look like a bad guy.   AND i actually have fun with Mai.  Drama free, we both got out of stupid relationships and we can relate to one another.  So she's cool, but i really really wished Tu would understand and i know that won't happen in a million years.   Time heals all wounds and maybe this is just a little wound that we eventually go away. 

READ MY NEWEST ENTRY ON XANGA,  I THINK YOU'LL LIKE IT.